Results for: you need help
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Spring Edit: You Know What Your Main Bag Needs? A Smaller Bag Inside It
In which I gently boss you into cleaning out your bag and putting in things you’ll actually use.
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Who To Follow on TikTok for Queer Masc Fashion Inspiration
I hope to help all my masculine friends out there in finding new content to inspire them.
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Porkchop’s Odyssey: On Fatness, Transness, and Pants
This snapshot sits on a shelf in the back of my mind. I keep it in an album called “euphoria.” It includes moments – me in my first bowtie at my college graduation, me on my wedding day, me in the mountains with my first jean jacket. In each, I am myself.
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Style Thief: How To Harness the Texan Lesthario Style of Drive-Away Dolls’ Jamie
Invest in a big-buckled belt and get ready to break some hearts!
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Lizzo’s Yitty Set Changed My Life, It’s Worth an Internet Fight to the Death
Yitty has helped me spend less time looking in the mirror and more time doing what I actually want to do, which is be hot and gay in public.
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New Balance 237s Changed My Life, Welcomed My Mid-30s by Correcting My Stride and Attitude
I’m four years into my 30s and all the bones in my body were finally going creaky. And of course, it just had to begin in my knees.
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So You Want To Go To The Beach
This is a packing list for VACATIONS. The ones where you aren’t really doing anything, just reading a ton of romance novels between dips in the ocean and playing board games while drinking wine at night.
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So You Want To Dress Like You’re in “The Birdcage”
We’re taking a trip to South Beach and getting into the iconic summer styles of The Birdcage! The neon, the billowy linens, the rings and gaudy necklaces!
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Every Scrap of Queer Fashion from the 2023 Met Gala
Yesterday was the First Monday in May, and if you’re anything even remotely close to a fashion gay — you know that means.
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So You Want To Go to a Holiday Party
We’re gonna close out the year and wrap up our new romcom protagonists, all in one!
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You Need Help: How to Break In Your New Wedding Shoes
Cobbler-free tricks for softening your shoes, and saving your soles.
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Style Thief: How To Dress Like Taissa From “Yellowjackets”
Rock teen Taissa energy by day and adult Taissa energy by night.
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You Need Help: How Can I Expedite My Style Evolution?
Tips for developing “your look” without a personal stylist.
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15 Queer Woman and Non-Binary Babes Who Wore Top Hats Better Than Any Willy Wonka
No offense, Timothee Chalamet. It’s just that non-binary icon Gonzo wore it better.
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So You Want To Go To Work
One of the most popular requests I have gotten for this column is “What do I wear to work?” And I get it! You have to get dressed for work, and the kinds of clothes that are typically deemed “workplace appropriate” are absolutely racist, classist, ableist, transphobic, homophobic and sexist. Not to mention, no two workplaces are the same!
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So You Want To Dress for Fall
As a woman who has been known to describe herself as a “coatsexual,” it was incredibly challenging for me to not select upwards of twenty coats and jackets here.
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So You Want to Dress Like the Main Character
Is pretending I am the protagonist in romance novel a fun way to tamp down some of my nerves about being back out in the world? Yes!
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So You Want To Buy A Coat
It’s mid-November, and where I am on the east coast, that means it is time to swan about dramatically in various kind of outerwear!
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You Need Help: Wedding Fashion For Queers Just a Few Centimeters Femme of Center
I’m a tear-filled romantic who loves parties, so I love weddings, and I’m obsessed with dress-code-based fashion, so I love weddings even more. I’m also pretty obsessed with the idea of androgynous dresses, so I’m excited to talk about them.
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You Want to Bind, But You Need Some Help
Binding for the first time can be exciting and confusing; here are some tips!