When You Wish Upon a Star: Throw Yourself a Perseids Party

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In your childhood, did your mom wake up you at weird hours on school nights to watch meteor showers because they were more important than 2nd grade? Or was that just my mom? Either way, we’re all now Adults and we can get up (or stay up) to watch the meteor shower of our own volition, and with our girlfriends/best friends/dogs. The Perseids 2013 meteor shower will be visible in the northern hemisphere (approximately 50 meteors per hour) and the southern hemisphere (about 1/3 of that) this weekend and early next week, with a peak sometime between August 12 and August 14th (some are even saying two peaks within that time frame). The Perseids can claim the moniker of “Old Faithful of Meteor Showers” because we can see them every August.

What Is a Meteor Shower?

Dust. Rocks. I know, when I put it that way, it doesn’t sound as pretty as it looks. Sorry! But hey, they’re pretty anyways. And throwing a rock and making a wish doesn’t have the same romantic mystique as catching a glimpse of a shooting star to jumpstart your deepest desires.


Where Does This Particular Meteor Shower Come From?

If you didn’t watch that entire video up there (and I highly recommend it, they’re nerd-funny at Universe Today), the Perseids come from the debris left behind by the Swift-Tuttle comet (which earth won’t see again until the year 2126). We come into its orbital path, and the Perseids are debris left over. So what I’m saying is that earth runs smack into some space waste and we get meteors!  In terms of practicality – as in, where in the sky are these meteors coming from? – they’re called the Perseids because if you trace their tails back, they all are radiating out from the constellation Perseus.

Still can’t find Perseus? Don’t worry, you can use this app to help in the moment. But also never fear – you’ll be able to see meteors all over the sky, because generally there’s just that damn many of them.

How Can I See This With My Eyeballs?

You don’t need any special equipment to watch this meteor shower, and because it’s warm you won’t even need a coat/mittens/blanket (can you tell I really did spend my ENTIRE childhood outside staring at the sky?). But you will need nice, dark sky far away from large light sources. If you live in a major US city with a lot of light pollution, check this article because there may still be a place you can go to see the meteors. Try to get a viewing spot with a clear, unobstructed view of the sky –  there’s nothing worse than a poorly placed tree. I recommend grabbing a reclining camping chair/deck chair or a blanket, because you’ll be looking at the sky for quite some time and it’s, literally, a pain in the neck to do it standing up. Make sure you wait at least 20 minutes to see your first meteor – it takes our eyes that long to adjust.

If you bring binoculars, you might be able to catch a glimpse of a meteor’s smokey tail.

If you’re planning to photograph the Perseids, don’t just bring your DSLR: make sure you bring a tripod and a cable release, as well an extra batterie(s) – the long exposures necessary to capture meteors really eat up battery power. If you do manage some good shots, you should email them to me because I would genuinely love to see them.

by Jack Fusco, via EarthSky

Perseids as seen from Acadia National Park, Maine, by Jack Fusco, via EarthSky

I want to reiterate that predicting the activity of a meteor shower is a bit like predicting the outcome of a well-written novel: there’s generally a lot of twists, turns and surprises. So check every night – the later and darker it gets, the better shot you’ll have at seeing meteors. Consensus says that for the Perseids, early morning is best (think 4 am). I myself will be watching well into the wee hours, and then I’ll probably nap and get up again around 4 or 4:30 am.

What Beer Will You Be Drinking With The Experience?

I’ll be watching this meteor shower with one of my best friends (I’ve known her since elementary school!) and we will be drinking River Horse Tripel Horse. How about you?

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A.E. Osworth

A.E. Osworth is part-time Faculty at The New School, where they teach undergraduates the art of digital storytelling. Their novel, We Are Watching Eliza Bright, about a game developer dealing with harassment (and narrated collectively by a fictional subreddit), is forthcoming from Grand Central Publishing (April 2021) and is available for pre-order now. They have an eight-year freelancing career and you can find their work on Autostraddle (where they used to be the Geekery Editor), Guernica, Quartz, Electric Lit, Paper Darts, Mashable, and drDoctor, among others.

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  1. I will be combining meteor shower watching with National S’mores Day. Which adds up to the most amazing night ever.

  2. Amateur (and probably some professional?) astronomers unite! I really enjoyed this article.

    The light pollution issue can be annoying. For the most part, my viewing is limited to when my girlfriend and I visit her parents; they live in sparsely-populated rural area, so there’s very little light pollution.

    I’d definitely like to get some Perseids shots. I got a good shot of Saturn over Memorial Day Weekend, but given the constant rain here in the southeast US (for six weeks, it was overcast and raining nearly every single day), viewing conditions have pretty much been less than ideal.

    My girlfriend’s favorite is a picture that I got when I still lived in Cali, of Jupiter with Callisto, Io, and Europa visible; she got that one framed for my birthday one year. ^_^

    • For serious, email them to me if you get the Perseids shot. I am absolutely not kidding when I say I want to see them. Might you have a flickr or some such thing?

  3. Ahhh! I had no idea this was happening tonight! Thank you, Ali! I’m just so excited that I’ll already be with all of my best stargazing friends.

    And hell yeah, we’ll be drinking good beer because Colorado.

  4. I’ll be at college orientation when this happens (the 12th-14th peak), how do I convince quasi-strangers to look at the stars with me?

  5. Hmm; my city miiiiight be small enough that I could see a few bright ones if I go lay down in the backyard. (Being carless is a pain.)

  6. Tripel Horse is brutal and makes me fall asleep after about a beer. I wish you luck.

  7. I have not been able to sleep due to a combination of jetlag and period insomnia for the last few nights, this sounds like a perfect use of time!

  8. I’ve seen the Perseids a few times over the years and would really love to see it this summer.

    However, I am all the way in Portland on vacation and don’t know of any good spots to watch it since I’ve never been. Anyone have any suggestions of a good place to set up camp with a thermos and a blanket?

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