Saturday Morning Cartoons: A-Game

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Cameron is an illustrator hailing from Ohio. When she’s not drawing, she’s probably very, very quietly having loud thoughts about: queer things, her eventual shop, what to watch next on Netflix, food, names for her future pets, and tumblr.

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  1. Ha! I almost never make first moves, either. But I did once this time after I invited a woman over at the end of a date to watch Star Trek Voyager. She kept trying to make eye contact and get close enough to kiss me during the episode, but I was intent on making her watch the whole thing. So after it was over, I kissed her!

    I count it as a first move even though I knew she had been trying to kiss me prior, which is the only reason I had enough bravery to do it myself. I suppose it really shouldn’t count. :)

    But now we’re dating, so I consider it a success story.

  2. First move fears! I have such a hard time telling the difference between “Is she just being nice to me or is she into me too?” that I just kind of freeze up and never get anywhere real. Kinda sucks that I feel so clueless that I need to have the other woman make the first move so I know it’s OK.

  3. Yep. All of the above, plus fear of “predatory” trans stereotypes and fear of terf-y backlash from the potential partner makes this trans lesbian very uncomfortable with first moves.

    Come to think of it, that’s most trans lesbians I know, too…

  4. Ughhhh I’m like constitutionally allergic to making anyone feel uncomfortable in any situation ever, to the point where I’m sure I’ve actually ended up offending people with my layers and layers of distant reservedness. I’m working on it, but it’s such a lifelong ingrained instinct that it takes a lot of conscious effort to move past it. In my case, it has helped me to recognize that it’s as much a protective impulse for myself as it is about protecting the other person’s feelings, and that I probably needed that in the past but it’s not serving me well anymore so it’s time to let it go.

  5. In my limited experience getting (or attempting to get) involved with women, I have experienced a variety of tactics that I’m happy to share here (so that you youngsters may benefit from my wisdom).

    Things I have done:

    1 – talked with the object of my desire about our mutual feelings until they gave up and died of frustration (the feelings, not the girl)

    2 – made her a mix tape

    3 – silently thought she was the coolest person I’d ever met and never, ever said or did anything to indicate that

    Techniques that women have tried on me:
    1 – dated my brother

    2 – told me they had a crush on me

    3 – invited me to an AIDs walk

    4 – made me a mix tape

  6. I feel so called out right now.

    But in all seriousness this is EXACTLY ME, esp right now when there’s a girl I like and I’m pretty sure she likes me too but every time I think about making a move I imagine a scenario where she’s like “WHOA WHOA I WAS NOT GIVING THOSE VIBES I DON’T LIKE YOU LIKE THAT”

    Let’s just say I’ve been thinking a lot about the predatory lesbian thing lately and how much I’ve really really internalized it even though it’s BULLSHIT.

  7. I relate to this so much! But, last time I met an amazing woman I thought, wth, I’m going to make a move. Don’t get me wrong, it took me a long time, especially because we’d met through work, and I was only like 80% sure she was queer. And there’s no way a lady like her doesn’t have a girlfriend/maybe wife, and maybe she’d be insulted if I made a move because she was way out of my league and also the next two leagues above me, and what if she thought I was too young, and…..

    So I asked her out, and we ended up dating, and it was amazing. Just amazing. ASK HER OUT, Autostraddlers!

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