Are you seeing each other? Involved? Hanging out? Definitely and absolutely in love with each other but not ready to give it a name or start saying it because you’ve both (or all) been hurt before and it’s not that you think they would freak out, you think you would freak out, but maybe they would also freak out so you’re just spending time together getting to know each other and having hands-down the most incredible sex of your life and trusting that you’ll get there when you get there?
This quiz can’t tell you what to call your relationship (sorry I called it “your relationship”) — only a transparent and vulnerable conversation together can do that. It also can’t tell you what that relationship should look like. But it can give you some possible language around that, or be a thing you send to that special person or people with a “hey I saw this quiz on Autostraddle, let me know what you think!”