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Dating Relationships

Poly Pocket: Gray Ace, Bi & Poly

“Being queer, Asian-American, femme, and gray ace — this is my identity and I get to choose what that means to me.”

Ryan Yates October 6, 2016 26 Comments
Queer Fashion

PHOTOESSAY: Queer Fashion Week 2016

Queer Fashion Week in Oakland, CA was full of beautiful humans and powerful fashion. Take a look!

Molly October 6, 2016 9 Comments
Money + Work

Follow Your Arrow: #periodpositive Creator Chella Quint on Challenging Taboos With Joy

“I’m psyched that I invented a thing, and I don’t wish to make money from it. I just want to try to retain a little influence over it with the support of fellow taboo-busters so we can make some changes around here.”

Beth October 6, 2016 5 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Carrie Brownstein And Abbi Jacobson Are A Thing, Huh?

Also, Cara Delevingne and Annie Clark totally broke up because love is a lie, Brittani Nichols shined her bright light upon a queer haunted hayride and Lindsay Lohan lost a finger in a boating accident. For real.

Stef October 5, 2016 26 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Lesbian Movie “Disobedience” To Star Two Actresses Named Rachel, What Next World?

Topics include a new movie about forbidden lesbian love from Rachel McAdams and Rachel Weisz, Suicide Kale, a superfan who managed to get her idol to leave her boyfriend for her, Grace Dunham, queer ghost hunters in Ohio and so much more!

Riese October 5, 2016 42 Comments
Webcomics

Oh Hey! It’s Alyssa #6: The Inspirational Award

“I’m not like everybody else, and I can’t do what everybody else does. But they can’t do what I can do either.”

A. Andrews October 5, 2016 14 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Greedy

“Submitting is something I do, not something done to me.”

Ari October 5, 2016 19 Comments
Geekery

Notes From A Queer Engineer: Pumpkin Spice Chemophobia And Men Calling Out Men

Also: 3D printed clitoris models, algae fuel, and scholarship opportunities.

Laura Mandanas October 5, 2016 21 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Where is My Path Leading?

“I’m entirely lost. Which direction should I be heading in right now? Where is my path leading? What should I be putting most of my energy into to one day become an independent and successful person with a flourishing career?” A tarot reading to explore possibilities.

Beth October 5, 2016 8 Comments
Identity

PHOTOESSAY: The Making of a King

“Simply put – it’s more than a show; it’s a movement.”

Molly October 4, 2016 6 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Samira Wiley and Lauren Morelli Got Engaged, Love Is Occasionally Not A Lie

Never forget how good we are at delivering very important news stories to you in a very timely manner. NEVER.

Riese October 4, 2016 25 Comments
Geekery

The 10 Best Trans Women In Comics

The world of comics has changed dramatically for trans women over the past three years.

Mey October 4, 2016 24 Comments
Geekery

Liquor in the Campari AGAIN: A Boulevardier As The Weather Cools

The Boulevardier originated in Europe during the great bartender exodus caused by Prohibition. Definitely NOT a Negroni with bourbon instead of gin.

A.E. Osworth October 4, 2016 11 Comments
Book Features Community

GIVEAWAY: Snag a Copy of Grace Bonney’s New Book, “In the Company of Women!”

Grace Bonney, designer extraordinaire, has a gift for you: In the Company of Women, a coffee table collection profiling a diverse range of creative women about their work. Comment on this post TODAY to win a copy!

Carmen October 4, 2016 45 Comments
House & Garden

Helping You Help Yourself #36

Zip up a dress by yourself! Motivate yourself to cook! Keep tabs from autoplaying sound! Address that jerk who keeps interrupting you!

Rachel October 3, 2016 13 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for October 2016

A pile of gigantic, fiery-hearted monsters sleeping sweetly together is a good metaphor for this month. Even the gruffest, most cynical, and most wounded amongst us should be able to find some kind of sweet solace this month. But that doesn’t mean all our problems will disappear.

Corina Dross October 3, 2016 47 Comments
TV Reviews

Transparent’s Third Season Is Beautiful, Heartbreaking And Occasionally Infuriating

This is a highlight reel of the highs and lows of the trans storylines in Transparent’s third season.

Sadie Edwards October 3, 2016 9 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Carmilla” Season Three, Act Two Recap: Office Furniture-Related Slips

Laura and Carmilla drop the pretense of “office furniture-related slips” and (re)confess their love for each other.

Karly October 3, 2016 8 Comments
Food Lists

18 Savory Pies To Keep You Warm And Full This Fall

Savory pies (and tarts and galettes, too) that will keep you warm and happy and full even as chilly weather and crispy leaves descend from above.

Maree October 3, 2016 19 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Abuzz

Counterfeit sex toys, the secret history of graham crackers and masturbation, and some smut just for you.

Ryan Yates October 2, 2016 13 Comments
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