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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 46, May / June 2018

“a line of topless queers at the nude beach, but from the back
they’re all different sizes and shapes and abilities and it gives the impression that the entire queer community gets along and loves each other”

Riese June 19, 2018 43 Comments
Sex

Mutual Masturbation Is a Very Underrated Lesbian Sex Act and You Can Too

Mutual masturbation isn’t a sexual cop-out — it’s actually a truly fantastic sexual activity.

Riese June 19, 2018 14 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 323 Recap: A Second Chance

The Season Three finale had the one thing Supergirl always did best but has been missing for a while: Hope.

Valerie Anne June 19, 2018 31 Comments
TV Reviews

“The Bold Type” Is Our Favorite Feel-Good Summer TV

It’s not perfect, and last week’s episode on Kat’s identity really missed the mark, but there’s a lot to love about this queer, feminist show.

The TV Team June 19, 2018 5 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Rosemary Valero-O’Connell’s “What Is Left” Dreams Through Space and Memories

Valero-O’Connell is known for her distinctive and beautiful illustration style, and she’s starting to be recognized; she has two well-deserved Eisner Award Nominations for this comic, for Best Single Issue/One-Shot and Best Coloring.

Mey June 19, 2018 3 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Non-Binary Queer Punk Tired of Looking Like a Teenage Boy

This week we find fits for someone looking for a “style reset” that lets them embrace their punk and grunge roots while also not being mistaken for a teenage boy anymore!

M June 19, 2018 26 Comments
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LGBT History

Raging Against Cultural Amnesia: tatiana de la tierra and Latina Lesbian Herstory

In the 90s, a collective of Latina lesbians founded two radical, bilingual zines. They made culture, connected activists, and scared the sh*t out of the patriarchy.

Sara Youngblood Gregory June 19, 2018 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: LGBTQ+ Women in the U.S. Most Likely to Identify As Bisexual According to This One Survey

WNBA’s latest activism, nonbinary in the workplace, some new stats on LGBTQ identities, TEENS, Canada puts LGBTQ rights above religious freedom, the future of ‘queer’, plus more!

Laneia June 18, 2018 35 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Amandla Stenberg Is Gay, Incredible, and Ready for Untouchable Love Free From the Dominion of Patriarchy

In an interview with King Princess for Wonderland Magazine, Amandla Stenberg reveals a recently uncovered truth about her sexual orientation — “I realised that I’m gay – not bi, not pan, but gay.”

Riese June 18, 2018 23 Comments
Gender

You Need Help: You’re Not Sure If You’re a Boy and Gender Is Hard

“A lot of the narrative about gender questioning at large is about tragedy, about what we lose. I encourage you (even though I know it’s challenging) to think about your gender from a different angle. What makes you feel affirmed?”

M June 18, 2018 22 Comments
First Person

“She Told Everyone I Was a Dyke”: How My Bully Stole My Coming Out

“I am 12. I have never thought of the idea of being gay. I am the only one being called gay at school, that I know of, and I am learning very quickly that it is the worst thing one could possibly be. It feels contagious, like I’m walking into school every day with a giant, hideous cloak of gay-ness, and everyone knows it.”

TaylorRenee June 18, 2018 20 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Calls You by Your Name

Timothée Chalamet inspired haircuts, the origins of camp, non-binary inclusive workspaces, and more!

Ari June 17, 2018 6 Comments
Holigays

Daddy Issues: Some Queer Father’s Day Reading for You From Autostraddle

Some essays and stories about our Dads — the good, the bad, and the very complicated.

Riese June 17, 2018 10 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has New Rules

The new rules of dating? Don’t be an asshole. Plus: How to explore bisexuality, how to talk about good sex so you can have it, what the Desiree Conference cancellation means for sex workers and more.

Ryan Yates June 17, 2018 8 Comments
Webcomics

Yo! That’s Not Cool #11: From Now Until Infinity

A Pride reminder.

Brittney Williams June 16, 2018 5 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I’m Leaving Autostraddle, Let’s Talk About Our Favorite Autostraddle Things

Working at Autostraddle has been my dream job and it’s been my dream community, but it’s time for the next phase in my life, so I need to say goodbye.

Mey June 15, 2018 111 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Making Soft Gay Noises

“I really think Lane Bryant is missing an opportunity to reclaim ‘Come To My Window’ from Applebee’s by not offering Reneice a million dollars for that one photo. You know the one I mean.”

Darcy June 15, 2018 36 Comments
First Person

Every Trans Girl I Meet Is From the Future: Finding a Bereft Sisterhood

I find myself preemptively mourning the transgenerational communities and cliques and cults and clubs and covens of girls like me that could be and may not be.

Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard June 15, 2018 13 Comments
Book Lists

8 Books with Bi or Homoromantic Asexual Women Characters

Books with ace homo/bi/panromantic women characters do exist! Here’s a list of eight of these very real and awesome books in genres like romance, fantasy, YA and more!

Casey June 15, 2018 18 Comments
First Person Travel

Bicycling Across India, Learning About Queerness and Intimacy Along the Way

Lying in bed, she asked why I thought she’d be into women, and I tried to explain that Indian norms are full of moments Americans consider to be flirting. “Holding hands doesn’t mean anything,” she said. “It must be so sad to not touch your friends.”

Mat June 14, 2018 34 Comments
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