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1 across / 4 letters / Place to purchase a stack of "Orange Cream" flapjacks
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AF+ Mini Crossword Will Make You Pancakes

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Emet Ozar September 4, 2024
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72 Most Anticipated Queer Books Coming Out Fall 2024

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
September 3, 2024 8 Comments
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Dating

‘I Can’t Tell if My Coworker Is Flirting With Me but I Kind of Hope She Is’

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 3, 2024 2 Comments
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Indie Trans Filmmaker Alice Maio Mackay’s Latest Is ‘Buffy’ Meets ‘Priscilla, Queen of the Desert’

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Gabe Dunn September 3, 2024 3 Comments
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Toward a Definition of Fat Fetish

I look at my body in the mirror. Fat, yes. But desire is a crooked hook down my throat I cannot articulate.

Autumn Fourkiller September 2, 2024 9 Comments
a girl with a knife in the ocean
Movie Reviews

Release Lesbian ‘Jaws’ in 4DX You Cowards!!!!

This lesbian shark attack horror film has some good scares but not enough bite.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 2, 2024 4 Comments
1 down / 5 letters / "The ___" (annual Palm Springs event)
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Going Below Deck

Yes, that is a euphemism.

Kate Hawkins September 2, 2024
LGBTQ STREAMING GUIDE: SEPTEMBER 2024
Movie Lists TV Lists

September 2024: What’s New and Gay to Stream

We’ve got returning queer characteres on From, Colin From Accounts and The Old Man, a documentary about child stars and another about L.A teenagers, and more queer content to look out for in September!

Riese September 1, 2024 24 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Angelina Jolie Character Are You?

Are you elusive like Evelyn Salt or filled with righteous anger like Legs Sadovsky? Find out which Angelina Jolie character you are with this quiz!

Drew Burnett Gregory September 1, 2024 3 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Stacy Snyder Becomes First Of Hopefully Many ‘Love is Blind’ Ladies To Come Out as Queer, Debut Hot Girlfriend

Love is Blind Season Five’s Stacy Snyder said no to Izzy but is giving her new girlfriend a big yes!

Riese August 31, 2024 2 Comments
A Black femme leans over an old photograph with a microscope in Seeking Mavis Beacon
Movie Features

The Filmmakers Behind ‘Seeking Mavis Beacon’ Are at the Intersection of Cheryl Dunye and Nathan Fielder

“You see me struggling with this idea I was raised on that representation matters and everyone needs to tell their own story. But not everyone wants to tell their story.”

Drew Burnett Gregory August 31, 2024 2 Comments
59 across / 4 letters / Caitlin Clark's former org.
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Full-Size (!!) Crossword Has Arrived

If you’ve been solving these puzzles and thinking, “Gee, I wish they were bigger,” then this is your lucky day!

Emet Ozar August 31, 2024 2 Comments
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AF+

Can I Lie To My Mom About My Girlfriend’s Age?

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the team August 30, 2024 3 Comments
A Tennis Lesbian Power Ranks Tennis Movies and Shows
Movie Lists Sports TV Lists

A Tennis Lesbian Power Ranks Tennis Movies and Shows

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 30, 2024 3 Comments
December 1972 issue of UpFront Magazine out of Pensacola, Florida
Issues LGBT History

Invisible Histories Won’t Let You Leave the Queer South Behind

Collectively, the states that make up the South are home to more Black people, more people of color, and more LGBTQ people than any other region of this country.

Stef Rubino August 30, 2024 4 Comments
I Kissed a Girl: Priya, a South Asian South Welsh femme, and Naee, a masc Londoner from a Jamaican family, kiss
TV Reviews

I Watched New Reality Show ‘I Kissed a Girl’ and I Liked It

Ten women are matched into couples, and the first time they meet, they must greet each other tongue-first!

Sally August 30, 2024 11 Comments
3 down / 5 letters / "Love Lies Bleeding" excerpt, perhaps
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Is Curating a Wedding Playlist

What is the queer equivalent of the “Cha Cha Slide”??

Darby Ratliff August 30, 2024
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Book Features

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Nico August 29, 2024 1 Comment
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First Person

The Gayest Thing I Ever Did Was Become a Florist

The art of floral design is beautifully queer-coded, and floristry is an art run and cultivated by the gays.

Korrin Wheeler August 29, 2024 3 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Hayley Kiyoko Is Writing Another Book!

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