Results for: be the change
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Into the A+ Advice Box #74: HOLIGAY ADVICE
Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Amanda
“I never really wanted to move in there and be like, “Hey son,” you know? That’s my stepdad voice.”
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S L I C K: Sharing the Moon
Two lovers with heightened senses enjoy each other’s company in the woods. “Heather felt more than heard Christina’s moan — it was deep in her chest, like a rumble, like a growl. ‘Fuck, I love your tits,’ she said.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #53: Should You Move Away From Your Partner for a Job?
The team gets into whether there’s something wrong with you if you’re not dating (no there is not), lube and Octavia Butler recommendations, taking care of your pit hair, not knowing why she broke up with you, and more!
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Editor’s Notes: On Horror Is So Gay
Before I tell you about all the things that were done right with Horror Is So Gay, let me tell you about the things I did wrong.
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Sarah Thankam Mathews Chatted With Us About Collectivism, Spreadsheets, Queer Sex Scenes and More!
“I really wanted the movement of the novel to start with an I and end with a We.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #56: IMPOSTER SYNDROME, SELF-SABOTAGE, and SELF-DOUBT
A lack of focus, the road not taken, fear of dating — the team tackles these topics and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #54: FRIENDSHIP DRAMA
Should you tell your friend you’re concerned about her marrying a 20-year old conservative Christian, should you reach back out to someone you ghosted, how do you deal with the aftermath of an emotional affair between your partner and a mutual friend — the team answers these questions about your friendship drama and more!
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Anonymous Sex Diary: She Wants More
“My partner and I have an open relationship. While we used to be really honest about things, when I met someone I actually liked, E, they decided they didnt want to know about it.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #44: WORK DRAMA
From frustrating job searches, to toxic leadership, from vaccine mandates to extreme nonprofit overwork, from coming out to a coworker to finding ways to actually enjoying downtime — the Autostraddle team addresses your questions about getting by in the workplace, being queer in your career, and making it through the day while surviving capitalism.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #46: STRAIGHT PEOPLE PROBLEMS
The AS team answers member advice questions — from dealing with workplace bullies to advocating for yourself in medical environments, and more!
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Gretchen
We had a kickball game and I said, “if we win, we can talk about what this is. And if we lose, then we continue hooking up and we don’t have to talk about it.”
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Things I’ve Never Asked My Friend Who I “Married” in Kindergarten About Queer Horror, Books!
“There’s a certain point of friendship at which it becomes a blood pact. Certain things, we take to the grave.”
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Editor’s Notes: Divorce Week
Being engaged, planning a wedding, being a newlywed — all welcome topics of conversation! Divorce? Not so much!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #47: How Do You Taper a Crush?
The team digs into questions about a partner’s conservative family, dealing with a crush on a new friend, figuring out what to wear for your wedding (!!!), and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #13: Social Distancing, Polyamorous Housing Decisions, and More!
Coping with feeling like it’s the end times and residual religious fears, sexual needs changing within long-term relationships, getting started with dating apps, and more!
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S L I C K: Accept Transformation, Part 2
“If I see that He’s hard, I drop everything,” Nix said. “My mind goes blank. I stop what I’m doing. Strip. Fall to my knees. Mouth open, arms behind me. Ready for Him to fuck me in the face.”
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #43
“I wanna know about the image for Laneia’s hate fuck list — these are some very choice collage images…”
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Things I’ve Never Asked My Girlfriend About Wildflowers, Baby Names and Time Travel
“Why do you think it took us so long to get together as girlfriends considering we’ve been friends for almost a decade?”
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S L I C K: Cass Auto Repairs
Noa tries to pick up her car at the auto shop and picks up her butch mechanic instead. “She buried her fingers in the dark locks of her mound and softly ran her finger up and down her clit, teasing. Cass pulled her hair gently.”