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With their cat Tillett checking in on them, a shaft of light shines on Josie Norris’ face as they hang out at home on Oct. 30, 2022, in San Antonio, Texas. “My decision to have my fallopian tubes removed was not one I took lightly. When I was 21-years-old, I got pregnant when a condom broke with a casual hook-up right before Spring finals while at Central Michigan University. I spent final weeks of class obsessively googling what the odds of me being pregnant were and taking pregnancy tests. After the semester ended, I took the last pregnancy test I had. After peeing on a plastic stick, one of my biggest fears came true: I was pregnant and I wanted to be ‘unpregnant’ as soon as I could. I was about to move to Texas for a big internship and and began calling clinics looking for an appoitnment. I was able to be seen two hours away a few days later for a medical abortion. My experience was a lonely one— at the time of my abortion only one person knew I was pregnant— due to shame and the stigma of abortion I had witnessed growing up Evangelical Christian. The six months I spent in San Antonio was a healing and beautiful experience and when I returned to school, it was important to tell all my close femme friends what happened because what is mentionable is manageable. After my abortion, I knew I never wanted to be pregnant again. My surgery recontextualized the trauma of my abortion and my body will never betray me with a preganancy.”
Health

Photo Essay: I Chose To Remove My Fallopian Tubes in Post-Roe v. Wade Texas

For photographer Josie Norris, the decision was more than a form of birth control. It was gender-affirming care.

Josie Norris, The 19th January 26, 2024 2 Comments
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Health

What Queers Need To Know About Eating Disorders

Despite finishing a Master’s in Psychology — in queer healthcare access, no less — I didn’t realize I had a serious eating disorder until afterward.

Summer Tao January 23, 2024 9 Comments
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Health

How To Engage With New Year’s Resolutions More Thoughtfully

I have to take a page from my time recovering from an eating disorder. The habits and encouragement found in supportive eating disorder recovery look a lot like the things we want to emulate in daily life.

Summer Tao January 15, 2024 2 Comments
A trans masculine person showing their post-surgery scars.
Health

Healing After Top Surgery: Expectation vs. Reality

What’s it like to walk down the stairs with nothing bouncing? What’s it like to feel a seatbelt flat against me? What’s it like when my girlfriend lays her head on my chest, REALLY on my chest, closer to my heart than ever?

Max Gross January 11, 2024 12 Comments
A young black queer person looks up how to find a therapist on a phone in their bedroom
Health

Here’s a Step-By-Step Guide on How to Find a Therapist

We’ve all been in a place where we know we should see a therapist, but the idea of even taking the steps from “yeah I should probably see someone someday” to “I called them yesterday and set up my first appointment” is daunting. I’m going to guide us through it.

Em Win December 26, 2023 5 Comments
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Health

Alyson Stoner on the Power of Movement and Queer Joy

“One of the most beautiful things, especially in the queer experience, is joy.”

Motti December 25, 2023 2 Comments
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Health

You Need Help: Can My Spouse and I Boil Our Menstrual Cups Together?

“Is there any sanitary reason NOT to?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 12, 2023
Periodical documentary: a group of young people hold up signs, one says RIP Tampon Tax, and the person holding it speaks at a microphone
Health Movie Reviews

“Periodical” Is a Valuable, Inclusive Documentary About Menstruation

I am fully ready to admit that, yes, indeed, we needed an informational documentary about periods and I am glad this one exists. 

Nico December 1, 2023 2 Comments
Portrait of a real male transgender healthcare professional who works in his field. He looks ready to tell you about testosterone.
Health

Testosterone Can Grow Prostate Tissue and Other Things They Don’t Tell You About T

Trans people and medical professionals have a lot to learn from each other.

Max Gross November 21, 2023 12 Comments
The author's strength coach Vinny, the author's friend Brendan, and the author Stef Rubino at the gym posing
Health Sports

I Never Thought I’d Love Powerlifting; Now I’m Training for My First Competition

Tomorrow, I take the platform to see what year and some change has done to my body, my drive, and my spirit.

Stef Rubino November 17, 2023 5 Comments
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Comedy Health

F*ck It All Fall

Let’s do it, queers. Let’s embrace our seasonal chaotic energy and manifest it into long-term, healthy decisions!

Em Win October 16, 2023 6 Comments
1. a jar of KOS birthday cake flavored protein powder. 2. a jar of Four Sigmatic Organic Protein in creamy cacao. 3. a container of ghost protein powder in pancake batter flavor
Health

Vegan Protein Powders, Ranked From Vulgar to Chuggable

As a friend said, “I would not normally think about drinking pancake batter.”

Nico October 9, 2023 29 Comments
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Health Lesbian Sex

Endometriosis No Longer Keeps Me From My Best Queer Sex

For the first time I was able to experience, without pain, the feeling of having my partner’s fingers inside of me and we found a new level of intimacy and excitement… How did I spend an entire decade of my life letting the medical system tell me that constant pelvic pain was acceptable?

Guest August 15, 2023 11 Comments
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First Person Health

Sad in a Prettier Place

A big reason for my move was the fact that I’m immune compromised. Instagram’s creepy algorithm delivered me an image, “moving won’t solve your problems, you’ll just be sad in a prettier place.”

Katie July 19, 2023 10 Comments
three athletes lift weights against the background of a nonbinary pride flag
Gender Health

Getting Strong: A Conversation Between Two Nonbinary Humans About Weight Lifting

“When I say getting strong rules, I don’t have any number or definition in mind when I say that. It’s cool for people, as INDIVIDUALS, to feel like they’re strong and capable and I encourage that whether you’re bench pressing 45 pounds or 445.”

Nico and Stef Rubino
July 14, 2023 20 Comments
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Health

Simple Anxiety Hacks for Dealing With Crowds

Whether you’re at a party, a protest, or another crowded event, try these mindfulness and grounding exercises to mitigate stress and anxiety.

Em Win July 7, 2023 6 Comments
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Health Identity

Autism Is Not a Trend, but There Are Problems With How It’s Discussed Online

Health conditions and disabilities are more than how many views a 20-second clip gets or the number of comments under a post. It’s real-life shit that can affect the core of who somebody is.

Lily Alvarado April 29, 2023 28 Comments
Two women hug. They seem sad and scared.
Dating Health

You Need Help: On Dating During a Health Scare

I am sending you and your person all my love and wishes for competent and compassionate medical care, swift healing, and fruitful conversations in the future about your growing relationship.

Heather Hogan April 11, 2023 1 Comment
Tired middle aged woman lying in bed.
Health

You Have Long Covid and You Don’t Know What to Do, Let Me Help

I wish I could give you a checklist of things to do and treatments to try; unfortunately, Long Covid is so many things, and it manifests differently in everyone. What I can do is give you a list of more efficient ways to seek answers, and some ideas about how to manage while you look for them.

Heather Hogan March 29, 2023 7 Comments
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Community Health

Practical Magic: COVID Is Here to Stay — So What Does It Mean to Keep Each Other Safe?

We can be more thoughtful about how we interact with others during these enduringly uncertain times.

himani February 23, 2023 76 Comments
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