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Relationship Tarot Spread
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Love + Sex

3 Tarot Spreads for Checking in with Your Relationships

This week, I want to share a few tarot spreads with you, which you can use to look at what’s going on with your relationships. Firstly with your one-to-one relationships, secondly a spread for polyamorous folks, and lastly a little spread that’s just for loving your wonderful self.

Beth May 6, 2015 11 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Geekery

Fool’s Journey: 8 Tarot Apps to Turn Your Phone Into Your Pocket Mystic

When I need a tarot-y kinda message, I can just reach into my bag and grab a card, or find a quiet spot for a reading. Why would I also need an app? Let’s find out!

Beth April 22, 2015 15 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Do You Use Reversed Tarot Cards?

You know, that thing where maybe a card takes on a whole new meaning if it appears upside down? As in, like, 78 whole new card interpretations to learn? Whaaa??

Beth April 8, 2015 21 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Slow Holler’s Queer/Southern Artists Tell Their Stories Through Tarot

We tell stories to stay awake. We tell stories to communicate. It is how we come to know each other. It is a part of our culture. We may be black, brown, white, queer, undocumented. We come from swamps, foothills, and sandy pines. We have different histories and experiences, but we came from this place and we shape this place.

Beth March 25, 2015 6 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Moving On – Tarot Cards for Changes, Endings and Fresh New Starts

These cards seem to me to carry advice around ways or reasons to ‘move on’ — whether that’s making a change, embracing life’s flux, or simply walking away.

Beth March 11, 2015 19 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Tell Your Story with the Queer Tarot Project

We all have stories to tell. Stories about coming out. Stories about first loves. Stories about discrimination, liberation, escape, self-acceptance, pride, shame, faith, joy, regret, being lost, being found and so much more. The Queer Tarot Project is a place to share these stories through the medium of tarot.

Beth February 25, 2015 24 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

The Top 15 Witches According to My Bruja Heart

I’m pretty sure most of us who were weird kids grew up wanting to be witches, I know I did.So let’s celebrate that fact!

Mey February 19, 2015 38 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Reading Tarot for Your Friends – Boundaries, Ethics, Responsibilities

On the one hand, you have this awesome skill you really want to offer/share/show off. The people around you think it’s cool, they think you can help them, and they want to open up to you. But it’s not always that simple.

Beth January 28, 2015 23 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Crafts & DIY Projects

Fool’s Journey: 12 Fun Tarot Activities to Keep You and Your Cards Busy Over the Festive Period

Here’s a whole big bunch of my favourite ‘tarot things to do’ so you can keep yourself busy with your cards over the holiday period!

Beth December 17, 2014 15 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: The Fascinating Life of Pamela Colman Smith

The most popular tarot deck in the western world was illustrated by a queer woman who is often ignored in esoteric history and omitted from the deck itself. Read about how awesome she is here!

Beth December 3, 2014 81 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Thanksgiving

Fool’s Journey: A Thanksgiving Tarot Spread To Help You Survive Family Gatherings

Shocker: not everyone loves traditional family gatherings. You wanted a tarot spread which would help you navigate Thanksgiving, so here’s one to look at the energies around your dinner table and deal with whatever is getting you down.

Beth November 26, 2014 13 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: What Do Tarot Readers Do All Day?

Oh you know, we sit in darkened rooms communing with the spirit world. Not really! Here’s a peek at a day in the life of a few professional tarot peeps… and their cats.

Beth November 19, 2014 8 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: I Can’t Find The Words

“My writing lets me vent everything I have pent up and my poems allow people to comprehend what I’m thinking. But when words are meant to come from my mouth, they’re all zig zagging in my head, I tend to over-think on what to say.”

Beth November 5, 2014 13 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Find Your Tarot Birth Card!

Let’s all sum ourselves up as cards from the tarot and find out what that says about us.

Beth October 22, 2014 50 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Understanding the Tarot Court Cards

These sixteen court cards are notoriously tricky to interpret, with beginners and seasoned readers alike often struggling to understand their meaning in tarot readings.

Beth October 8, 2014 27 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: I Feel Like Being in Love is Not Something I’m Meant For

I’m gonna take a punt before I’ve even shuffled my cards and tell you that no – you’re not unlovable. No way. I think we can all agree, I don’t need a deck of cards to tell you that. You are 100% lovable, just like ALL Autostraddle readers.

Beth September 10, 2014 19 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Ten Tarot Tattoos

There’s no denyin’ it, tarot and tattoos go together really well.

Beth August 27, 2014 23 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Four Elements, Four Suits

One way to develop your understanding of the tarot is to look at how the four elements — earth, air, fire and water — play out in the cards.

Beth August 13, 2014 9 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Fool’s Journey: Radical Tarot Reader Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha Is Anything But Cranky

My mom raised me to know that listening deeply was just another thing that people could do, and comes from a tradition of tough ladies who survived by their sixth sense.

Beth July 30, 2014 11 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Coming Out

Fool’s Journey: Moving Beyond a Difficult Coming Out Experience

A reader asks what to do next now that coming out as trans has gone poorly with their family.

Beth July 16, 2014 19 Comments
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