How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent
I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: So Many Things to Discover!
Clitoris, masturbation, asexuals, having sex vs. being sexual, A to Z sex, jane fonda’s sex secret, taboos, and some breaking news about gay insect sex.
Ethics of Lust: All About Scantily Clad Women
“The laws surrounding what you can and cannot show of your own body in public are so complex and convoluted that I could not even begin to cover them all in a single blog post.”
OKCupid: We Read Your Profile
On a typical Friday night you are: “Finding a place to put all these dead bodies.”
Listling With Minimal Commentary: Selections From Anti-Lesbian Bridal Salon’s 868 Yelp Reviews
“Tried to find the place on a map, but apparently they’re stuck somewhere in 1956.”
Wedding Giveaway Winners Announced: Get Your Champagne Flutes Ready
Who doesn’t love a love story? Let’s congratulate the happy couple and learn a little more about them! I wonder how they feel about karaoke.
Do Women Like Sex, Or Just Sexual Economics?
Debate is raging about the economics of sex versus women’s desire — but what does it mean for lesbians?
I Spoke to 2,500 Sluts on Saturday: Why We Need to Start Talking About Consent, Sex Ed, etc.
Slutwalk DC: “I was standing right in front of the Washington Monument. My name tag said “Carmen (Fucking) Rios,” and I had cut my shirt into a crop top tank top, and I was still wearing my aviators. Then I gave a speech and I want to share it with you.”
The Ethics of Lust: Your Dildo Might be Illegal
“With all these dildos piled high around me, I think it’s a good time to discuss the laws surrounding the purchasing of sex toys.”
In the Pool With Cougar, Scaring the Straight People, Getting The Homophobia
Sometimes we are reminded we live in a heteronormative world in the unlikeliest of places.
You Need Help: Bottoms Up and Helping Your Girlfriend
Can a top be a bottom without selling her soul? And how to talk to a partner who isn’t what she used to be.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Gets Wet
This week on NSFW lesbosexy sunday, we’re getting wet.
The Ethics of Lust: On Interracial Relationships and Anti-Miscegenation Laws
We discuss interracial couples and how the gay marriage movement could learn a thing of two from their struggles.
NSFW Sunday Wants Lesbian Friends With Benefits
Let’s do this again and again and never talk about it and everyone can have fun.
You Need Help: Brand New Gays and Social Ashtrays
Should a social smoker quit just to please her girlfriend? And how to stop dating guys and start getting real (if that’s what you want to do).
If You Ain’t No Punk Holla Gays Need Prenups GAYS NEED PRENUPS
“As an aspiring talk show host who also happens to be a lawyer and a formerly engaged Gay American, I know a lot about the ins and outs of marriage, legally and emotionally.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Special: The Ethics of Lust’s Inaugural Post
Today we’re going to talk about fisting, even though the U.S. Government doesn’t want us to.
Rejection 101: A Lesbian’s Guide To Getting Turned Down, Keeping Your Head Up
“It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to feel misled. It’s okay to feel stupid. It’s okay to listen to ‘Jar of Hearts’ on repeat.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Writing About Sex
This week on NSFW Sunday: sex writing, keeping your toys clean, and pretending you’re in Better Than Chocolate.
Jimmyjane Form 4 Rechargeable Vibrator
“This is my new favorite thing. Not just my new favorite toy but actually my new favorite thing of everything.”