I think that one of the most important theories or ideas around liberation is understanding that our everyday lives are microcosms of our politics. Like, “the personal is political,” “the revolution starts at home,” etc. Like, adrienne maree brown’s concept of fractals. It’s easy to have big ideas for political transformation, but if you can’t put those big ideas into practice in small ways in your everyday life, then what information are you getting about yourself, your circumstances, or your politics.
For example, if we’re prison abolitionists, we generally believe that people shouldn’t be violently punished, killed, locked in cages, and/or ostracized from their community because of mistakes they’ve made or harm they’ve done to others – especially when we place the lion’s share of blame for those actions on systemic, oppressive forces. Instead we want rehabilitation, restoration, transformation.
If that’s the case, how do we practice this belief in our everyday lives? Is “cancel culture” compatible with these politics? How about holding grudges, or keeping “receipts,” or having a “nemesis,” or desiring revenge, or really anything other than compassion or empathy for those who’ve harmed us? What about if it’s for fascists and racists and homophobes and TERFs? For our abusers? I don’t think there’s an easy answer to those questions but it’s absolutely essential to ask them. Is it fair to ask the criminal justice system to do something we’re not even prepared to do, or can’t conceptualize how to do, with the individuals around us?
We have to figure out how to build responses to harm that don’t rely on carceral punishment and policing in our own lives, families, and communities. Whether that means accountability systems, talking circles, transformative or restorative justice, vigilantism, ostracization, retribution, or something else entirely is up to us and our community. Actually doing our politics in our day-to-day lives is one of the only ways we can really feel and experience what “justice” actually means, and doing so is crucial if we’re going to manifest liberation on a large scale.
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It was an honor to put this together, and I’m definitely meditating on our words today. ❤️
Thank you for this post!
Thank you for sharing this.
Thank you for sharing this.
I think I read it here or in one of the link roundups. It was an article on how to be an accomplice instead of an ally.
I think that was in Be The Change!
Yes, I think it was that one. Thank you!
these were really moving and interesting responses with so many good ideas and resources, seriously, you all have outdone yourselves. thank you for giving this to the world today. <3
there’s such a wealth of perspective and concrete knowledge here – thank you all so much for sharing with us, I know i’ll be revisiting this throughout the year <3
Thank you for your wisdom and anger and joy.
Y’all asked: “Simply put, what does black liberation look like for you, and what are you prepared to do to get there?”
For me, one of the biggest tools I have learned and that I must regularly commit to using more often is holding together two things: 1) I cannot let fear of messing up stop me from acting; Black people are dying and suffering because of white people like me and our inaction, so I don’t have the privilege of waiting until I have every piece right before I act. ANNNNNND 2) when I mess up, I don’t get to use the urgency of acting as an excuse for the harm I have caused.
It’s listening, then diving into action with enthusiasm, then humbly listening and repairing when I have harmed people, and then not letting my sensitivity about being reprimanded and desire to not cause harm stop me from diving back into action again.
I am grateful for y’all.
Y’all sustain me. Thank you so much for sharing, fam.
Thank you all. I am so held and moved by your words. <3
I’m so grateful for everyone’s generosity in sharing all this.