Personally, I’d prefer my marriage proposal be a discreet private event where nobody could see me or take photographs, let alone video, but that doesn’t mean I can’t relish in the earnest joys of other people’s public displays of matrimonial sentiments. Meanwhile, my girlfriend is really excited that this happened in her homeland of Ottawa. In fact, she’s still talking, as I type this, about “the Leafs” and “the Senators,” and something something something hockey something canada leafs hockey something.
Look, cute lesbians:
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I was just going to send this look to your website, but I should have known, you womyn would beat me to the punch. O Canada, I do love thee. Cheers from Wpg, Mb.
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OMG hello person from not-so-Winterpeg-this-year! *waves*
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+21 as I type this. WTF? Global warming sure makes Winnipeg a lot more bareable!
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OMG more Peggers! Hi!
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Hello fellow Peggers! This is so awesome! And here I thought I was alone… It’s good to be wrong! :D
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Hey! I saw you on another blog! It was a jobly blog! That’s sort of like being from the same city. I am Canadian tho.
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WHOA so many peggers, completely thought i was alone here! cool. :) isnt canada just swell? i actually just went to the jets game on sunday with my girlfriend!
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Oh, that is really adorable! I don’t follow hockey much but I do live in Ottawa and I have friends who are Leafs fans and it’s just better if we don’t talk about that.
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So cute!
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I am really tickled at “I hope someone proposes to me when I have a sticker on my face!” What a cute lil couple!!
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thanks once again Autostraddle for making me giggle and dither alone in my room
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If you guys will excuse me, I’m just going to go die from sheer adorableness now.
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So adorable
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Oh my good golly gosh this is so Canadian it HURTS
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it couldn’t be more Canadian if you poured melted cheese curds and gravy over it.
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awwww… this was so lovely. I hope they live happily ever after.
PS Riese I am with you on private discreetness, knowing me I would end up in a lifelong marriage just because I would feel too awful to say no in front of people. Also, I don’t like it when people look at me when I didn’t do anything to deserve it. Also, it would just be embarrassing.
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What a couple of mega-cutie pies. I wish them a wonderful wedding and a very long and happy marriage!
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This is the true Canadian way to do things…loudly and during a hockey game. Wish those two all the best in the world.
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my heart. it’s so warm.
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I’m only tearing up because I’ve been rubbing onions into my eyes, honest…
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this is really adorable, but i would probably die if someone did this to me.
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Death by cute. I think I would literally faint if a girl did something like that for me. So romantic.
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I would be totally ok with this… in case anyone is wondering. ;-)
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So cute cute cute.
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I would be too chiken-shit to do this..I have visions of being on bended knee..Ring in hand..Tears trickling down my face..Pouring out my heart on the Jumbo-tron..And hearing her say, “Yeah…Umm..We should really talk”..So if this is the proposal ya’ll have in mind..It’s just one more reason why I am not the girl for you.
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I know right – over-optimistic lion mascot in there. Maybe the reverse side of his sign is all “She said not quite yet!”.
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Crying at 2:30 in the morning after a fucking long day and a headache. Thank you, Autostraddle.
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BUT SHE’S WEARING A LEAFS JERSEY.
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Okay, it’s still adorable.
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Excellent! Thanks for sharing this! Double cheers from Winnipeg :)
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this is seriously the cutest thing ever ever ever.
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Rock on Canada!
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That was SO sweet.
Whenever I watch things like this, it takes me forever because I pause every ~10 seconds to reflect/cry.
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Yeah… that made me cry a bunch. And laugh hysterically to myself. My coworkers are confused.
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One in a Sens jersey and the other in Leafs? A modern day Romeo and Juliet.
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The only thing that could have made this video more lesbian/Canadian is if the second the woman said “yes” to the proposal a U-Haul zamboni driven by kittens had come out on the ice with them.
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and tegan and sara
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covered in maple syrup.
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I feel like you all understand me.
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Just reading these comments made me gay(er).
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Yes, cute, blah blah blah. All I could think was “don’t slip on the ice, don’t slip on the ice!” But I guess Canadians don’t do that.
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We’re pretty much born walking on ice.
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I hope they went for celebratory poutine after.
This marks one of the many reasons I love being Canadian!
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Sidenote: You gotta be in Quebec to eat decent poutine!
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Ottawa has decent poutine. But they are right next to gatineau
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If my partner ever did this to me I would actually be pissed. But I love that someone else did it. I would be right there cheering in the crowd.
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This makes me feel so many happy Canadian feelings.
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Yay for adorableness & hockey! I would have flipped my shit, probably in a awkward not sure what to do with myself kind of way, if I was either of the women in this video.
Mad props to the one who proposed for being so damn brave and to the one who accepted for being so damn calm! And woohoo to all for not falling! (Although, to be truthful, once the ice gets all mucked up it is quite easy to walk on)
Oh, Canada, why must you do everything a little bit better when it comes to hockey?
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The only problem with this is that she’s wearing a Kessel jersey…
but D’awwwwww! Someone propose to me at a Jets game!
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This has to be the most adorable thing I’ve seen in awhile. *wipes away tear*
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Public sports proposal, fine. Lesbian proposal, also fine. A Leaf’s and a Sens fan? Together? Happily? Truly remarkable. <3
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Adorable!
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So can anyone explain this: I’m Canadian but don’t watch hockey at all, and I’m also not really for marriage either (as an institution)…
– and yet THIS IS AWESOME!
I would be standing and screaming my fool head off at that game ^_^
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SO CUTE!
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I am from Ottawa and I live here and I haven’t heard about this AT ALL. I would’ve expected to hear about this on the radio. Lame!! But yay :)
But yeah, that was the only place I heard about it.
Hello fellow Ottawan. :-)
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Oh, hello! :)
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I just cried a little about this. And not just because it’s seemingly impossible for Leafs and Sens fans to be civil. THEY’RE ACTUALLY IN LOVE AND SO CUTE
Excuse me while I squee about this in my room.
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so cute my heart got pinched. cute cute cute
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:’D
Cuuuute.
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Public proposals aren’t my thing but the Canadian hockey fan in me would totally approve of this.
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This is too adorable!
And one’s a Leafs fan and the other a Sens fan. Just like in the movies, opposites attract. Awesome! Makes me wanna go live in Canada again.
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Even on the “regular” news sites, the controversy over this story is limited to Sens and Leafs fans taking jabs at each other over the jerseys. Canada, I love being in you.
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Oh wow, I actually cried a little bit while watching this.
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That is so damn adorable. I love this video.
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Cute proposals for the win!
Now how shall I top that in 5 years time…hmm. *taps chin*
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This is so adorable.
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Stupid Canada. Being so awesome. Birthplace of Tegan and Sara.
~jealous American~
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You too, huh? Yeah, I’ve gone down on my share of them as well
I was just going to send this look to your website, but I should have known, you womyn would beat me to the punch. O Canada, I do love thee. Cheers from Wpg, Mb.
OMG hello person from not-so-Winterpeg-this-year! *waves*
+21 as I type this. WTF? Global warming sure makes Winnipeg a lot more bareable!
OMG more Peggers! Hi!
Hello fellow Peggers! This is so awesome! And here I thought I was alone… It’s good to be wrong! :D
Hey! I saw you on another blog! It was a jobly blog! That’s sort of like being from the same city. I am Canadian tho.
WHOA so many peggers, completely thought i was alone here! cool. :) isnt canada just swell? i actually just went to the jets game on sunday with my girlfriend!
Oh, that is really adorable! I don’t follow hockey much but I do live in Ottawa and I have friends who are Leafs fans and it’s just better if we don’t talk about that.
So cute!
I am really tickled at “I hope someone proposes to me when I have a sticker on my face!” What a cute lil couple!!
thanks once again Autostraddle for making me giggle and dither alone in my room
If you guys will excuse me, I’m just going to go die from sheer adorableness now.
So adorable
Oh my good golly gosh this is so Canadian it HURTS
it couldn’t be more Canadian if you poured melted cheese curds and gravy over it.
awwww… this was so lovely. I hope they live happily ever after.
PS Riese I am with you on private discreetness, knowing me I would end up in a lifelong marriage just because I would feel too awful to say no in front of people. Also, I don’t like it when people look at me when I didn’t do anything to deserve it. Also, it would just be embarrassing.
What a couple of mega-cutie pies. I wish them a wonderful wedding and a very long and happy marriage!
This is the true Canadian way to do things…loudly and during a hockey game. Wish those two all the best in the world.
my heart. it’s so warm.
I’m only tearing up because I’ve been rubbing onions into my eyes, honest…
this is really adorable, but i would probably die if someone did this to me.
Death by cute. I think I would literally faint if a girl did something like that for me. So romantic.
I would be totally ok with this… in case anyone is wondering. ;-)
So cute cute cute.
I would be too chiken-shit to do this..I have visions of being on bended knee..Ring in hand..Tears trickling down my face..Pouring out my heart on the Jumbo-tron..And hearing her say, “Yeah…Umm..We should really talk”..So if this is the proposal ya’ll have in mind..It’s just one more reason why I am not the girl for you.
I know right – over-optimistic lion mascot in there. Maybe the reverse side of his sign is all “She said not quite yet!”.
Crying at 2:30 in the morning after a fucking long day and a headache. Thank you, Autostraddle.
BUT SHE’S WEARING A LEAFS JERSEY.
…
Okay, it’s still adorable.
Excellent! Thanks for sharing this! Double cheers from Winnipeg :)
this is seriously the cutest thing ever ever ever.
Rock on Canada!
That was SO sweet.
Whenever I watch things like this, it takes me forever because I pause every ~10 seconds to reflect/cry.
Yeah… that made me cry a bunch. And laugh hysterically to myself. My coworkers are confused.
One in a Sens jersey and the other in Leafs? A modern day Romeo and Juliet.
The only thing that could have made this video more lesbian/Canadian is if the second the woman said “yes” to the proposal a U-Haul zamboni driven by kittens had come out on the ice with them.
and tegan and sara
covered in maple syrup.
I feel like you all understand me.
Just reading these comments made me gay(er).
Yes, cute, blah blah blah. All I could think was “don’t slip on the ice, don’t slip on the ice!” But I guess Canadians don’t do that.
We’re pretty much born walking on ice.
I hope they went for celebratory poutine after.
This marks one of the many reasons I love being Canadian!
Sidenote: You gotta be in Quebec to eat decent poutine!
Ottawa has decent poutine. But they are right next to gatineau
If my partner ever did this to me I would actually be pissed. But I love that someone else did it. I would be right there cheering in the crowd.
This makes me feel so many happy Canadian feelings.
Yay for adorableness & hockey! I would have flipped my shit, probably in a awkward not sure what to do with myself kind of way, if I was either of the women in this video.
Mad props to the one who proposed for being so damn brave and to the one who accepted for being so damn calm! And woohoo to all for not falling! (Although, to be truthful, once the ice gets all mucked up it is quite easy to walk on)
Oh, Canada, why must you do everything a little bit better when it comes to hockey?
The only problem with this is that she’s wearing a Kessel jersey…
but D’awwwwww! Someone propose to me at a Jets game!
This has to be the most adorable thing I’ve seen in awhile. *wipes away tear*
Public sports proposal, fine. Lesbian proposal, also fine. A Leaf’s and a Sens fan? Together? Happily? Truly remarkable. <3
Adorable!
So can anyone explain this: I’m Canadian but don’t watch hockey at all, and I’m also not really for marriage either (as an institution)…
– and yet THIS IS AWESOME!
I would be standing and screaming my fool head off at that game ^_^
SO CUTE!
I am from Ottawa and I live here and I haven’t heard about this AT ALL. I would’ve expected to hear about this on the radio. Lame!! But yay :)
OpenFile covered it! http://ottawa.openfile.ca/blog/curator-blog/video/2012/senators-fan-marries-leafs-fan-and-oh-yes-theyre-also-women
But yeah, that was the only place I heard about it.
Hello fellow Ottawan. :-)
Oh, hello! :)
I just cried a little about this. And not just because it’s seemingly impossible for Leafs and Sens fans to be civil. THEY’RE ACTUALLY IN LOVE AND SO CUTE
Excuse me while I squee about this in my room.
so cute my heart got pinched. cute cute cute
:’D
Cuuuute.
Public proposals aren’t my thing but the Canadian hockey fan in me would totally approve of this.
This is too adorable!
And one’s a Leafs fan and the other a Sens fan. Just like in the movies, opposites attract. Awesome! Makes me wanna go live in Canada again.
Even on the “regular” news sites, the controversy over this story is limited to Sens and Leafs fans taking jabs at each other over the jerseys. Canada, I love being in you.
Oh wow, I actually cried a little bit while watching this.
That is so damn adorable. I love this video.
Cute proposals for the win!
Now how shall I top that in 5 years time…hmm. *taps chin*
This is so adorable.
Stupid Canada. Being so awesome. Birthplace of Tegan and Sara.
~jealous American~
You too, huh? Yeah, I’ve gone down on my share of them as well
My heart just melted.