Results for: work in progress
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She/Her/Sir: Finding My Home in Kink as a Black, Queer, Masc of Center Dom
Kink can be a profound space of healing, which is something that Black people — and especially Black women — deeply deserve.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants You In A Quite Simple Desperate Human Way
This week on NSFW Sunday: lesbian love letters, sex and punishment, surveys, and cyclists.
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You Need Help: How To Date While Dealing With Mental Illness
Dating has often felt like a game I don’t know how to play. “An elaborate puzzle,” as you say. One where the pieces are sharp as knives that cut to the core of my deepest insecurities.
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What The Pandemic Taught Me About Healthy Queer Love
To live out a love that is healthy, queer, non-mongamous has been a source of deep personal transformation.
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You Need Help: How Can I Date When I’m So Scared To?
Dating requires so much vulnerability, and a fear of rejection can be such a roadblock. So, what can we do to confront that roadblock?
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A Love Letter to Cuddle Dates
I love cuddle dates because they’re my neurodivergent heaven: comfy and quiet. They also fit into anti-heteronormative approaches to romance and affection.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Never Use Bacon Lube
This week in NSFW lesbosexyness: orgasms, online dating, top feminist porn films, and, um, bacon lube.
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How To Handle Traumatic Resurgence During Sex
Trauma has a way of resurfacing in vulnerable moments. It can happen even if there’s no relationship between that trauma and sex.
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You Need Help: How Do I Convince My Girlfriend That I Care?
It sounds like she’s looking for something you just can’t give her, and that’s okay. Your life is very full at the moment. It’s not too full for the right relationship, but it may be too full for THIS relationship.
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You Need Help: Should I Try Again To Turn a Friendship Into Romance?
You have to evaluate if you can experience the friendship not as a consolation prize or a waystation for your ultimate destiny of romantic partnership with them but as a gift that is exactly what you want.
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How Do I Approach Sex With My Partner of Six Years While We’re Both Navigating Trauma?
The lack of sex that resulted from our wildly differing needs has had a lasting impact.
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You Need Help: I’m a 16 Year-old Lesbian Asking ‘What Is Love?’
“How do I get myself to understand what love can really be, after the initial sparks fade?”
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13 Reasons Women In Lesbian Relationships Aren’t Having (More) Sex
“Lesbian bed death” does happen, and many lesbians feel they’re not having enough sex. But it doesn’t happen for the reasons you think it does, and it’s not necessarily the problem you think it is.
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Untethered: In Pittsburgh Everyone Knows Everyone and I’m Sure I Do Too
But face-blindess is a bitch.
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You Need Help: On Dating During a Health Scare
I am sending you and your person all my love and wishes for competent and compassionate medical care, swift healing, and fruitful conversations in the future about your growing relationship.
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25 Streaming Movies With Hot Lesbian Sex Scenes
Here are some of the most memorable movies in the canon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”
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Did My Partner Leave Me Because of My Bipolar Disorder?
My bipolar disorder may have caused my breakup, but I can’t and don’t want to separate my disability from who I am.
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Dating as a Single Dyke in My 60s
Singlehood in my late 50s to early 60s feels like trying to climb a sheer mountain cliff armed with only a bottle of lube
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The Night I Learned to Be In My Trans Body
My summer hookup with a rich businesswoman in Japan gave me something more valuable than even the room service wagyu steak.
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We Hosted a Virtual Workshop on COVID-19 and Queer Sexual Health!
Last week, we partnered with Rainbow Health to host a virtual workshop on COVID-19 and queer sexual health. Here’s a complete transcript of what went down!