If you think celesbian gossip these days is crazy, you should’ve been alive like 100 years ago because DAMN these ladies were BUSY. Well, I mean, we’re pretty sure they were busy — it’s hard to know for certain in most of these cases, ’cause even if one woman claimed it happened, it’s likely the other swore it didn’t. But that hasn’t stopped historians from writing books like The Sewing Circle: Female Stars Who Loved Other Women, The Girls: Sappho Goes to Hollywood, Hollywood Lesbians, Full Service: My Adventures in Hollywood and the Secret Sex Lives of the Stars. Using those books and the internet, I made you this chart, and compiled the list beneath it.This chart is focused on actresses of the early 20th century — everybody on this chart is connected, somehow, to a member of “The Sewing Circle.”

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Again, a lot of this information could be false, but it is also possibly true! As hard as it was to find information about the actresses on this list, however, information about the sexual relationships between Black stars was even harder to nail down.

Without any further ado, here are the ten most prominentladykillersof early Hollywood and Broadway!


10. Dorothy Arzner

ilm director Dorothy Arzner (1897-1979) pictured on directing 'Fashions For Women', USA, circa 1927. A man operating a camera is seen behind Arzner. (Photo by Archive Photos/Getty Images)
(Photo by Archive Photos/Getty Images)

Alleged relationships & lovers: Joan Crawford, Ona Munson (Actor), Alla Nazimova, Billie Burke (actor), Marion Morgan (Dancer/Screenwriter)

The only female director in Hollywood at the time, Arzner defied expectations on multiple levels. She directed over 20 films in 24 years, taught Francis Ford Coppola and was the first female member of the Director’s Guild Association. She also spent many years with her partner Marion Morgan, after rumored relations with many other actresses in show business.


9. Barbara Stanwyck

Actress Barbara Stanwyck in a scene from the movie "The Lady Eve" (Photo by Donaldson Collection/Getty Images)
(Photo by Donaldson Collection/Getty Images)

Allegedrelationships & lovers: Joan Crawford, Marlene Dietrich, Helen Ferguson (Publicist), Tallulah Bankhead

Barbara Stanwyck pinged hard for her lesbian fans, even in movies where she had to pretend to be in love with a dude. Gay actor Clifton Webb, who played her husband in Titanic, called Stanwyck “my favorite American lesbian.”

“Stanwyck’s screen characters defined themselves on their own terms,” writes Axel Madsen in The Sewing Circle: Female Stars Who Loved Other Women. “Stanwyck was emotionally honest, and the way she related to men was different.” But she was deeply closeted, burying her secret underneath her well-defined and daunting career ambitions and two marriages, including a really shitty but relatively brief marriage to a gay vaudeville star that allegedly inspired the 1937 edition of A Star is Born. There was also a four-year affair with 22-year-old actor Robert Wagner, started when Stanwyck was 45. She was well-loved in Hollywood, but was also a conservative Republican and an Ayn Rand fangirl.

Her longest-lasting relationship was the 30 year affair with her publicist, Helen Ferguson, a partnership that survived both women’s marriages.


8. Joan Crawford

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Joan Crawford (1908-1977), American motion picture actress.

Alleged romances/affairs: Alice Delamar (Colorado mine heiress), Barbara Stanwyck, Martha Raye (Actor), Dorothy Arzner, Claudette Colbert (Actor), Lilyan Tashman (Actor), Alla Nazimova

Crawford, who’d started her career as a stage dancer, was stoked to be cast in a film with Greta Garbo, even though they didn’t have any scenes together. When they met, Garbo took Crawford’s face in her hands and said, “What a pity; our first picture together and we don’t work with each other. I’m sorry. You have a marvelous face.” Crawford said of this encounter, “if there was ever a time in my life when I might have been a lesbian, that was it.” BUT WAS IT REALLY, JOAN?

Her lovers — and she had many, male and female — called her “Billie.” MGM paid $100k in 1935 to suppress the release of a pornographic lesbian film Crawford had appeared in at the age of 19. However, despite the large number of alleged lovers she’s been linked to, there’s not a lot of concrete evidence about Joan Crawford in the same way there is amongst others on this list.


7. Eva Le Gallienne

Eva La Gallienne, actress, appearing in Camille. (Photo by Maurice Goldberg/Condé Nast via Getty Images)
(Photo byMaurice Goldberg/Condé Nast via Getty Images)

Alleged relationships / lovers: Josephine Hutchinson (Actor), Tallulah Bankhead, Alla Nazimona, Laurette Taylor (Actor), Beatrice Lillie (Actor), Mercedes De Acosta, Alice Delamar (Heiress), Margaret Webster (director)

Although Eva didn’t actively attempt to hide her sexuality, she wasn’t exactly proud of it either. At the height of her fame, she began a relationship with Alla Nazimova, and after their breakup she began dating Mercedes de Acosta, with whom she traveled to Europe, often showing up in the salon of famed openly lesbian socialite Natalie Barney. (One of the most sexually prolific lesbians of her era.) Eva’s lover Alice DeLamar, a Colorado mine heiress, financially backed her Civic Repertory Theatre. Her relationship with actress Josephine Hutchinson, who was married at the time, ended up being a huge scandal in the press, inspiring Eva to tell a friend, “If you have any thoughts about being a lesbian, don’t do it. Your life will be nothing but tragedy.” But another biographer says Eva was not the self-hating lesbian she’s often portrayed as, having told a straight friend that love between women was “the most beautiful thing in the world.”

She eventually became involved with director Margaret Webster, with whom she co-founded the American Repertory Theater.


6. Greta Garbo

LOS ANGELES - 1932:  Actress Greta Garbo poses for a publicity still for the MGM film 'Grand Hotel' in 1932 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Donaldson Collection/Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images)
(Photo by Donaldson Collection/Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images)

Alleged relationships & lovers: Marlene Dietrich, Mercedes de Acosta, Salka Viertel (Actor/Writer), Louise Brooks (Actor), Billie Holiday (Singer), Lilyan Tashman, Tallulah Bankhead

Garbo dated men but unlike other Sewing Circle members, never married one. Rather than lie to the press about her private life, she established a reputation as mysterious and aloof. At the age of 19, while working on an obscure German film — before moving to America and becoming a star — she was seduced by 23-year-old Marlene Dietrich, who was described by Hollywood historian Diana McLellan as a “bohemian young mama with a notorious and compulsive appetite for the sexual seduction of other beautiful women, particularly backstage.” Garbo, on the other hand, was “simple” and “sensitive,” and ended up so hurt by Dietrich that she denied knowing her for the rest of her life. You know how it is.

Then Garbo moved to Hollywood, where she continued an intimate relationship with actress-writer Salka Viertel and was introduced by Viertel to Mercedes de Acosta, one of the most impactful relationships of her life. (According to Mercedes.)


5. Katharine Hepburn

American actress Katharine Hepburn
American actress Katharine Hepburn (Photo by Sunset Boulevard/Corbis via Getty Images)

Alleged relationships/lovers: Elissa Landi (Actor/Writer), Irene Mayer Selznick (Socialite / Historian / Director / Writer), Phyllis Wilbourn (Secretary), Laura Harding (Heiress), Jane Loring (film editor), Billie Burke

As a kid, Katharine shaved her head and went by “Jimmy,” and as a grown-up super-famous actress, was known for her boyish attire and bohemian attitude. Her agent’s third wife referred to Hepburn as “that dykey bitch,” and her close friend, lesbian gossip columnist Liz Smith, confirmed Hepburn’s lesbianism in a 2017 documentary, noting “She had several fervent relationships with talented women. But she was very guarded about what she did.”

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Her first relationship was allegedly with her college friend Laura Harding. She didn’t want to have children and she married only once, when she was 21, but prioritized her career over her husband and divorced him seven years later. Her relationship with Spencer Tracy is regarded as one of Hollywood’s “great love stories” — and many claim it was just that, a Hollywood story, that the two were simply best friends.


4. Alla Nazimova

circa 1920:  Alla Nazimova (born Mariam Levington, 1879 - 1945), the Russian born Hollywood film star and actress, who made a number of films in America.  (Photo by Hulton Archive/Getty Images)
(Photo by Hulton Archive/Getty Images)

Alleged relationships/lovers: Jean Acker (Actor), Natacha Rambova (Costume Designer), Eva Le Gallienne, Mercedes De Acosta, Dolly Wilde (Socialite), Bridget Bate Tichenor (Painter), Glesca Marshall (Actor), Grace Darmond (Actor), Dorothy Arzner

Stage actress Alla Nazimova cointed the term “The Sewing Circle,” referring to her group of lesbian, bisexual, or bi-curious Hollywood ladies. She held “outlandish parties” at her Sunset Boulevard estate, the legendary queer hangout known as The Garden of Allah, which was converted into a hotel in 1926. Alla was unusually open about her relationships with women and was instrumental in launching the careers of Sewing Circle members Jean Acker and Natacha Rambova. Alla lived with her partner Glesca Marshall from 1929 until her death in 1945.


3. Marlene Dietrich

1930:  Marlene Dietrich (1901 - 1992) making her Hollywood film debut as the tuxedo clad Amy Jolly in the film 'Morocco', directed by Josef von Sternberg.  (Photo by Eugene Robert Richee/John Kobal Foundation/Getty Images)
(Photo by Eugene Robert Richee/John Kobal Foundation/Getty Images)

Alleged lovers/relationships: Edith Piaf (Singer), Greta Garbo, Mercedes de Acosta, Claire Waldoff, Tallulah Bankead, Claudette Colbert, Barbara Stanwyck

Marlene Dietrich was a glamorous Hollywood extrovert of whom film critic Kenneth Tynan wrote, “She has sex but no positive gender. Her masculinity appeals to women and her sexuality to men.”Dietrich was a big fan of gay Berlin in the 1920s, and after moving to the states and becoming one of Hollywood’s biggest female stars, had a lot of affairs with men and women. She even went above and beyond by having affairs with men who’d had affairs with women she’d also had affairs with. According to Judith Anderson, Marlene once rejected Dorothy Arzner because “she preferred more feminine lesbians.”


2. Tallulah Bankhead

1932:  American actress Tallulah Bankhead (1902 - 1968), who made her name as a stage actress and won a New York Drama Critics' Circle Award for her performance in The Little Foxes in 1939.  (Photo by Irving Lippman/John Kobal Foundation/Getty Images)
(Photo by Irving Lippman/John Kobal Foundation/Getty Images)

Alleged lovers/relationships: Greta Garbo, Hope Williams (Actor), Beatrice Lille (Actor), Patsy Kelly (Actor), Katherine Cornell (Actor), Billie Holiday (Singer), Libby Holman (Actor), Hattie McDaniel (Actor), Eva La Gallienne, Barbara Stanwyck, Mercedes De Acosta.

Tallulah Bankhead, best known as a stage actress but also prolific in radio, film and television, was crass, hilarious, and unapologetic about her sexuality, an outgoing alcoholic and drug addict who “sought sex of every variety constantly, hungrily, and without reservation.” Actress Hope Williams, at 19, initiated 16-year-old Tallulah into the world of lesbian sex and she took to it pretty damn quickly. It’s difficult to find any lesbian or bisexual woman of the era who is not rumored to have had a thing with Tallulah. She married actor John Emery for four years and then never married again. She didn’t find The Kinsey Report remotely surprising, declaring, “I’ve had many momentary love affairs. A lot of these impromptu romances have been climaxed in a fashion not generally condoned. I go into them impulsively. I scorn any notion of their permanence. I forget the fever associated with them when a new interest presents itself.” She was considered “unsuitable for the public” by the Hays Committee on account of her “Verbal Moral Turpitude.”


1. Mercedes de Acosta

Mercedes de Acosta
(Photo by Nickolas Muray/ullstein bild via Getty Images)

Alleged lovers/relationships: Greta Garbo, Alla Nazimova, Katharine Cornell, Isadora Duncan (Dancer), Eva Le Gallienne, Marlene Dietrich, Ona Munson, Eleonora Duse, Barbara Stanwyck, Tallulah Bankhead, Salka Viertel (Actor), Eva Hermann (Artist), Maria Nys Huxley, Pola Negri (Actor), Tamara Karsavina (Dancer)

Play and screenwriter Mercedes de Acosta was the Shane of her era, bedding pretty much every lady-loving-lady in the West Hollywood region, according to her own memoirs, Here Lies the Heart. Prior to becoming a bisexual seducer of the stars, she was a little girl, born to wealthy Spanish immigrants, who thought she was a little boy. Her Mom used to call her “Rafael.” Alice B. Toklas said of de Acosta and her prowess, “Say what you will about Mercedes, she’s had the most important women of the twentieth century.” She had lengthy love affairs with actress Eva Le Gallienne, Alla Nazimova and Isadora Duncan. Her most legendary relationship, though, was with Greta Garbo. Mercedes married a heterosexual man in 1920 but insisted the wedding remain private and was notably frowning when carried over the threshold that evening.


Here’s a glossary with information about some of the other women on The Chart. This graphic was created 2015 and has not been updated since.

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