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Breakups and Being Alone 101: The Autostraddle Guide To Life After Love
We’ve got advice on breakups and exes, playlists to see you through, unhinged behavior we highly recommend and so much more from the annals of Autostraddle’s achy breaky hearts.
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How to Go on a First Date That Doesn’t Suck
Be who you are just as hard as you can. Also, be on time.
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How To Buy A Strap-On Harness for Lesbian Sex
Everything you need to know about picking out a strap-on harness.
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How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman
Sex between someone with a penis and someone with a vagina gets a lot of representation, but not when the penis-haver is a woman. Here’s everything you need to know about lesbian sex with trans women who have penises.
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How to Bring Butt Plugs Into Your Lesbian Sex Life
Regardless of gender and sexuality, everybody’s got a butt. Here’s how to try butt plugs for the first time, how to add butt plugs to lesbian sex, and how to find the butt plug that’s right for you.
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How to Buy a Strap-On Dildo for Lesbian Sex
Everything you need to know about choosing the right dildo for strap-on lesbian sex.
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How To Have A Lesbian Threesome
Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.
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How To Be Friends With Your Ex
Is it possible? Yes! Is it a good idea? Only sometimes! Here’s everything you need to know about being friends with your ex-girlfriend.
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How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.
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Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage
Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.
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How To Eat Ass
Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.
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Lesbian Fisting 101
Fisting is my number one favorite penetrative queer lesbian sex move. Fisting is AWESOME. Here’s how to do it right.
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How To Have Lesbian Period Sex
Here’s how to live your patriarchy-smashing lesbian period sex vampire dreams.
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How to Write a Non-Monogamous Dating Profile
Here’s how to fly your consensually non-monogamous, polyamorous, consensually open relationship or whatever else flag in your dating profile so you get the best possible interactions from it.
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You’re Throwing the Legendary Theme Party of Your Dreams (with This Guide)
“Don’t half-ass a themed party. No one will ever trust you to throw a party again.”
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How to Buy a Vibrator
My first vibrator sucked; here’s how to make sure yours doesn’t.
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So You’re Allergic To Cats?
Some strategies to make sure your cat allergy doesn’t come between you and the cats in your life.
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Sew You Want to Learn to Sew: All About Sewing Machines
Ready to start sewing? You’re gonna need one of these — let’s figure out what you should be looking for.
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Sew You Want to Learn to Sew: Fabric, Patterns, and Resources, Oh My!
What kind of fabric should you use? Where do you get it? What about a pattern? Get all your answers here!
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Where To Start If You’re A Tarot Newbie
Getting into tarot can be totally intimidating. Where do you start with learning the meanings of all of those cards? And how do you actually do a reading, anyway? And so forth! Here are some tips for getting started.