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Gender Queer Fashion

You Want to Bind, But You Need Some Help

Binding for the first time can be exciting and confusing; here are some tips!

Ari October 5, 2017 33 Comments
Comedy

Chrissy’s Bananas: More Internet Haikus

This round we cover internet relics, Facebook’s “maybe” option, the cry-laugh emoji, Banksy, and more!

Erin October 5, 2017 3 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “Mean Girls” Reimagined As A Lesbian Rom Com Is Exactly What You Need Today

Plus: A new St. Vincent music video, Samira Wiley on Last Week Tonight, Mary Lambert is everywhere (as it should be), and Cara Delevingne chattin’ about “lady gardens.”

Heather Hogan October 4, 2017 21 Comments
Webcomics

Coming Soon: S.H.E. (The Space Heroes Of El Andoo)

“They’ve got nothing in common except each other.”

Megan+Moll October 4, 2017 7 Comments
Geekery

Calls for Renewable Energy Meet Disaster Capitalism in Post-Maria Puerto Rico

As we continue watching the response to Hurricane Maria unfold, those of us who care about sustainability should be mindful of who we’re enabling to gain figurative power as well as literal.

Laura Mandanas October 4, 2017 5 Comments
Webcomics

Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #31: Hypochondriac

“Despite being a champion in the art of actual survival, I’ve become a wildly imaginative and catastrophic thinker.”

A. Andrews October 4, 2017 8 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Evan Rachel Wood Was the Piano Robot All Along

Also, Gabby Rivera met a baby and Stephanie Beatriz and Brittani Nichols are both living their absolute best lives.

Stef October 4, 2017 19 Comments
Geekery

4 Tips to Make Your ComicCon Experiences as Gay as Possible

“Sometimes I forget that straight people watch TV, too.”

Valerie Anne October 4, 2017 6 Comments
Friendship

The Gayest Friendship Fights I Had as a Closeted Baby Lesbian

“She wouldn’t let me sit next to her on the bus on the way to camp! For some reason, I had this elaborate Charlie’s Angels-esque fantasy about her where we kicked down the emergency door of the bus together and like idk did a heist or something?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 4, 2017 35 Comments
Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Baltimore, Maryland

Although Baltimore is not known as a tourist destination or a LGBTQ vacation spot, the city has an abundance of culture and beauty to offer its visitors and residents.

Queer Girl City Guides October 3, 2017 25 Comments
Politics + Activism

Here’s How You Can Help with Puerto Rican Hurricane Relief Today

If you can give, whether it’s financial donations or direct supplies, time as a volunteer, or even just calling your congressional representatives, please do. Please take a moment and help my home.

Carmen Phillips October 3, 2017 7 Comments
Movie Reviews

CHAVELA Documentary Highlights the Pain and Poetry of the Seminal Mexican Lesbian Singer’s Life

Though her life was characterized by solitude and her love for it and the freedom it gave her, CHAVELA is a story of a remarkable person told by the people who loved and admired her most.

Raquel October 3, 2017 6 Comments
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LGBT History

LGBTQ History Month Starts Now: An Epic Autostraddle Reading List

It’s LGBT History Month, a month-long annual observance of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender history, a topic which is near and dear to our hearts because it is definitely NOT near OR dear to the hearts of anybody in charge of public education.

Riese October 3, 2017 14 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: We Need More Slice Of Life Trans Comics Like Melanie Gillman’s “Pockets”

In “Pockets,” Sydney and her mom are on their way to go shopping for some hiking boots and shorts for Sydney’s trip. She’s normally wearing skirts and cute flats, but her mom is understandably concerned about those kind of clothes while she’s hiking up a mountain for a week.

Mey October 3, 2017 5 Comments
Pets & Animals

50 of the Gayest Nerdiest Things You Weirdos Named Your Pets

“Stewie’s full name is Kristen Stewart because, let’s face it, they look exactly alike.”

Riese October 2, 2017 56 Comments
Straddleverse

Family Open Thread

We usually post a roundtable on Mondays but we decided that this Monday we could really use the space to be together as a family and process some of our grief and anger as we continue to empower each other to take action.

Heather Hogan October 2, 2017 75 Comments
Community

PHOTO GALLERY: Queers with Pets

Oh did you think there wouldn’t be a chicken in here? WRONG.

Laneia October 2, 2017 87 Comments
Queer Fashion Shopping

Style Thief: How to Dress Like Kate McKinnon in Vanity Fair

From a Texas Tuxedo to full-on sapphic circus garb, here’s what you’ll need.

Nora October 2, 2017 8 Comments
AF+

VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kristin: School Hard

We got in bed and we BROUGHT OUR BOOKS! Just kidding (although I did bring one), but we *did* talk about graduate programs, GSAs, queer theory, Catholic universities, and all things school. Woot woot!

Kristin October 1, 2017 3 Comments
Webcomics

3 A.M.: Cafe Peru

Remember the note from Ruth? Mae follows what it said and goes to Cafe Peru before her shift.

Pam October 1, 2017 4 Comments
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