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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #44
“Ok someone had previously asked if Autostraddle was going to write a piece on How To Build a Sex Room and I did not realize it was a SHOW I just thought someone was requesting extremely specific DIY content?????”
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Anonymous Sex Diary: Shibari and Stolen Privacy
“I’m not in a place where coming out to my family is a reasonable option. Fortunately, I have a husband who is more than happy to cover me during my prolonged phone conversations with other partners.”
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2022 By the Numbers: An A+ Member Exclusive
It’s time for our annual look at what went down last year: expenses and revenue, most popular posts, top merch and so much more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #60: SEX
A+ Member sex questions — from spanking to long-term relationship sex — answered!
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How to Find Local Kink Community and Also How to Hire a Sex Worker
“There’re contingencies of queer freaks everywhere, sometimes it just takes a little more effort.”
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Editor’s Notes: Bubble Trouble
The queerness found in a lot of these Bubble Trouble essays isn’t necessarily surface-level fizz but something deeper in the gut.
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Is There Life After High School?
“I wanted to have nightmares about monsters or mass shootings. It was too embarrassing — in the midst of global catastrophe — to be concerned with something as frivolous as high school.”
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Alright! Come Join Us on the Totally Temporary, Ephemeral A+ Discord!
For thirteen warm days in these cold months, let’s hang.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #58: Money Problems
Dating with different incomes, saving to buy an apartment, being exhausted by constantly living under capitalism — and more!
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 98: November 2022
“no one gives you a free personal pan pizza when you do something you really, really don’t want to do! we live in a crumbling society”
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Is It Creepy That I’m So Much Older Than My Entire Queer Friend Group?
Advice for a 49-year-old who’s anxious that she may not be wanted in spaces and social circles where most people are younger than her.
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Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: El
“I also had a really weird relationship with sex until very recently because, I don’t know. A lot of shame is placed on it. Also especially being a girl who likes girls in the South, no one tells you anything.”
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #41
“I just learned the word “Swiftgron”!!!! ?! Taylor Swift + Diana Agron as a maybe couple at some point ??!”
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Anonymous Job Confession: My Boss Was an Egotistical, Predatory Dictator
“Cee showed me an audio recording she secretly took when she was alone with him.”
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #43
“I wanna know about the image for Laneia’s hate fuck list — these are some very choice collage images…”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #61: When Should a Person Cut Off Given Family?
Being in your 30’s with no queer dating experience, packing a carry-on for a long-distance date, dealing with astrology if you don’t believe in it, and more!
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Our A+ Pride Pop-Up Discord Server Is Happening Now!!!
Meet your fellow members! Do it!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #68: HAIR
In which our team answers our members’ questions about their hair!
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Apparently, Shame Tastes Like My Cunt
“The other partners I had throughout much of my time in sex work were uncomfortable at best and shaming at worst. They were jealous and confused. ‘How can you interact with men like this?'”