Results for: Feel good
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Gretchen
We had a kickball game and I said, “if we win, we can talk about what this is. And if we lose, then we continue hooking up and we don’t have to talk about it.”
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Anonymous Sex Diary: She Wants More
“My partner and I have an open relationship. While we used to be really honest about things, when I met someone I actually liked, E, they decided they didnt want to know about it.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #61: When Should a Person Cut Off Given Family?
Being in your 30’s with no queer dating experience, packing a carry-on for a long-distance date, dealing with astrology if you don’t believe in it, and more!
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A+ Roundtable: Our Favorite Sex Toys
It’s an evergreen, be all and end all, “sisterhood of the traveling pants”-style, magically perfect for every need, kind of vibrator.
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Interview With My Girlfriend: Sadie
“Well, if the ceiling collapses, at least it won’t fall on us because this section of ceiling is already missing.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #68: HAIR
In which our team answers our members’ questions about their hair!
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Things I’ve Never Asked My Friend Who I “Married” in Kindergarten About Queer Horror, Books!
“There’s a certain point of friendship at which it becomes a blood pact. Certain things, we take to the grave.”
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 101: February 2023
Can we open it with “The Paris Review can blow us” and then just like…not explain?
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A Queer Nonbinary Student Leans Into Their “Bi Era” with Kink, Play Parties, Domming, Top4Topping and Pegging
“In the outside world, I dress masc, and skirts feel foreign. But at play parties, I’ve started wearing a tiny top/skirt combo, trusting that for those few hours, my gender will be read as nothing more than “slut.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker?
Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!
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TONIGHT! Watch the Yellowjackets Premiere With Us
Stingers up!
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The Price of Perfectionism: Chronic Illness, Unemployment, and Starting Over
“I could start a Youtube channel or a blog about disability rights and monetize it. FUCK. I don’t know how to turn it off.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #51: “Bed Death,” Opening Up Relationships and DIY Haircuts
In which our A+ members get advice from the AS Team on a recent mental health diagnosis, insecurity about a girlfriend’s bisexuality, climate grief, cutting your own hair, some stellar showering advice, and more!
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #46
I don’t know who needs to hear this today, but I dreamed that the New York Times put a paper grocery bag of 9 kittens on every doorstep to promote subscriptions.
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Is Refusing To Share My Location a Red Flag?
A request from a younger girlfriend has a reader wondering if her aversion to location sharing is a generational conflict. Also: how to keep a relationship sexy without sex and how to celebrate newfound queer desire and forgive our younger selves.
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A+ Member Gallery: Your Devastatingly Awesome Passion Projects
You all are just so cool!
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I’ll Never Walk Away: Writing About Motherhood From Imperfect Circumstances
“In the summer of 2021, right after a trip to visit him and my mom, my dad called me. He sounded weird.”
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Anonymous Sex Diary: Horny and Hooking Up at Divinity School
I texted my best friends, “I think studying religion is making me horny,” because I’ve been wanting to jump everyone’s bones (respectfully). A young queer woman chronicles a week in her sex life while studying religion at an Ivy League school.
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 99: December 2022
Happy haunted holigays!
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My Bisexual Girlfriend Only Likes Strap-On Sex, Should I Be Worried?
Do your girlfriend’s preferences mean she prefers sex with cis men, plus advice on coping with stress without drinking and nonbinary names for wedding party members!