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Dating

Getting in Bed With Kristin: Situationships, Invisalign, and Spike!

Come bask in Kristin’s vacation energy and get some loving advice at the same time!

Kristin March 29, 2019 1 Comment
TV Reviews

Broad City’s Celebration of Romantic Friendship and Bisexual Culture Has Changed TV Forever

“Often we need the possibility of more not in order to reach it, but in order to stop just short of it, which is still far beyond where we would’ve landed had it not been there at all.”

Riese March 28, 2019 21 Comments
Issues

Tomorrow’s Parties: Emily Dickinson’s Black Cake

Emily Dickinson sent her girlfriend, Nellie, her recipe for Black Cake that was so staggering (two pounds of flour, 19 eggs, etc) that it reads like one of her curiously queer poems. It seems impossible, but suggests the potential for a delicious celebration.

Natalie March 28, 2019 25 Comments
Music

Queer Your Ears March 2019: New & Upcoming Releases from Queer & Trans Artists

We’ve got a good mix of tunes here this month: some hip-hop and EDM if you’re ready to bounce off that winter chill, some intense vibes and chill folk if you still want to hibernate for a bit — and of course a bunch in between.

Abbie Jones March 28, 2019 10 Comments
LGBT History

All Bones and Blood and Breath: Remembering Barbara Hammer

Barbara Hammer was the evidence that living a queer life could be good, and long, and full of wonder at a time when I felt like this was all was out of reach.

Whitney Pow March 28, 2019 10 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit Is Checking Out These Hot Literary Rivalries

Getting real about the financial realities of writing, creative forces of subculture, K-pop, the branded ephemera of Frida Khalo, and shedding books to survive academia.

Ryan Yates March 28, 2019 2 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — Best Coming Out: Grown

There’s nothing like a good old, grown up coming out story! You have 48 hours to vote for your favorites!

Natalie March 27, 2019 14 Comments
TV Feature

Natalie Morales on Playing a Revolutionary Bisexual Bartender on “Abby’s” and Sharing the Stage With Squirrels

“It’s so important to tell stories about marginalized people, but if we tell stories that reduce them always and only to the ways they’re marginalized, it just perpetuates the problem.”

Heather Hogan March 27, 2019 6 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Stephanie Beatriz is Fine and Dandy at the Dolly Parton Museum

Also, KEHLANI FINALLY HAD HER BABY.

Stef March 27, 2019 9 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 112 Recap: Broken Arted

“Broken Arted” succeeds where other episodes of Good Trouble have faltered. It turns two of the show’s occasional weaknesses — the non-linear, overstuffed storytelling — into its strength and produces the best episode to date.

Natalie March 27, 2019 4 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Tessa Thompson Shares Your Valkyrie and Captain Marvel Dreams

Plus: A remake of The Craft, time to get hyped for more Vida and Legends of Tomorrow, a Glee reunion, #Karmy, and more Marvel’s Runaways is on the way.

Heather Hogan March 27, 2019 8 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #42: “Work” “Out”

“You mean to tell me your regimen is dancing through the opening credits of One Day at a Time?”

Dickens March 27, 2019 12 Comments
TV Reviews

Lena Waithe’s “Boomerang” Is Bringing a Gay Reckoning to BET

Not only has Boomerang proven itself to be one of the most cutting edge black voices on television, it’s also invested in showcasing a full spectrum of young blackness, including sexuality.

Carmen Phillips March 26, 2019 8 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Sophie Turner Sure Has Been With Girls: “Game of Thrones” Star “Loves Souls, Not Gender”

“I think once you’ve found the right person, you just know. I feel like I’m much older a soul than I am in age. I feel like I’ve lived enough life to know. I’ve met enough guys to know — I’ve met enough girls to know.”

Heather Hogan March 26, 2019 33 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — Best Coming Out: Baby Gays

The Baby Gays have been revealed! You have 48 hours to vote for your favorites!

Natalie March 26, 2019 9 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Fancy Gay Seeking Dapper Summer Style

“I’ve finally truly embraced myself and the fact that I’m pretty masc-of-center… but I have no warm weather work clothes that fit, and don’t know how to dress in keeping with my dapper MoC self once it warms up.”

M March 26, 2019 8 Comments
Issues

Please Not Forever 19

It’s difficult to romanticize your teenage years when you’re not straight and spent them anxiously hiding your identity.

Smar March 26, 2019 16 Comments
TV Reviews

“Abby’s” Review: Natalie Morales’ Bisexual Bartender Makes History (But Won’t Make You a Mai Tai)

In NBC’s new comedy, which lands this Thursday, Morales owns the role of the prickly, commanding, loyal, lovable former Marine who sets up an unlicensed, uninsured bar in her rented backyard.

Heather Hogan March 26, 2019 8 Comments
"245 minutes til touchdown and i get railed" girl thinking on airplane
Dating

Traveling to Meet Your Long-Distance Online Crush: A Gentle Guide

It’s 2019 and the world is our hot gay oyster! But… how do you actually go about planning a trip to meet the faraway queer of your dreams? 

Vanessa March 26, 2019 7 Comments
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness — Best Coming Out: Classics

Hope you’re feeling nostalgic! You have 48 hours to vote for your favorites!

Natalie March 25, 2019 18 Comments
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