“I’m a longtime reader who’s ready to play with gender more intentionally in my outfits, but I’m not sure what that looks like. Flannel? Button downs? Dresses? Obviously my first thought for who to look to for inspiration was Carol the dog.”
Here are the chic, homey and stylishly functional home goods I have picked out for Carol to fully outfit her West Hollywood bungalow in preparation for its inevitable Apartment Therapy spotlight.
Why not some Carol?
“i do love that you are holding barefoot wine in that nervous breakdown picture”
Almost 100 amazing humans sent pictures for our #TransDayOfVisibility Community Gallery! Get in here and celebrate our lives!
Also, get ready for the year of the Horse Girl and we have your post-Broad City-blues reading list. Happy Sunday!
What if you were just yourself? Plus: 19th century sex workers’ rights, tickling torture, why education and testing are the best way to address rising STI rates, and more.
“It’s adorable that you thought this book with this premise might have anyone who *isn’t* a lesbian in it!”
Use the best chocolate you can find. Queer life is hard and you deserve it.
I don’t have the kind of life I was ‘expected’ to have. How do I deal with the life I actually have, instead?
You have 48 hours to vote for your faves!
Plus updates on: The Good Fight, Grey’s Anatomy, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, Will & Grace, Jane the Virgin, Legacies, Roswell, Riverdale and Now Apocalypse!
If you wanna be my lover…
Sex magick is using your orgasms to cast spells. I’m going to teach you how to do it.
And yes, it’s about exes who keep finding their way back into each other’s arms.
How did you realize and/or develop your relationship to your gender identity or gender presentation, if at all?
Topics include kayaking in Alaska, taking Amtrak across the U.S., Queer Teen Stars, Cathy, Lindy West, frequent flyer mile obsessives, calories, the professional poet and more!
Come bask in Kristin’s vacation energy and get some loving advice at the same time!
“Often we need the possibility of more not in order to reach it, but in order to stop just short of it, which is still far beyond where we would’ve landed had it not been there at all.”
Emily Dickinson sent her girlfriend, Nellie, her recipe for Black Cake that was so staggering (two pounds of flour, 19 eggs, etc) that it reads like one of her curiously queer poems. It seems impossible, but suggests the potential for a delicious celebration.