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First Person

My Parents Made Me Gay

Being focused on women never seemed remarkable to me. I grew up in a household with my mom, my younger sister, and my dad, so even if we were just being fair, 75% of our time was focused on women. And we were not fair.

Kamala Puligandla December 31, 2019 11 Comments
Issues

Dykes Rule the Night

Lesbian bars may be dying, but lesbian nightlife is more alive than ever

Clare Hand December 30, 2019 16 Comments
Movie Lists

The 11 Best Lesbian and Bisexual Movies of 2019

LGBTQ TV and LGBTQ movies remain nearly impossible to rank at the end of every year, but for completely different reasons.

Heather Hogan December 30, 2019 3 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV Lists

The Best TV Shows Of 2019 With LGBT Women Characters

Our TV critics smashed their heads together to deliver our picks for the years’ 25 best shows with queer, lesbian, bisexual and trans women characters as well as each of our individual top 15s. So much TV you’ve gotta see in here!

Riese December 30, 2019 24 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Gey in Kikh: Happy New Year!

Celebrate the New Year with Soviet mayonnaise.

Ari December 30, 2019 12 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q

“To L and Back” Gen Q Podcast Episode 104

Riese joins Drew for this episode of “To L and Back: Generation Q” in which we discuss an episode that TRULY has it all — lots of fights, lots of sex, lots of surprises and a little bit of Robin Roemer!

Drew Burnett Gregory December 30, 2019 2 Comments
Movie Reviews

Kate McKinnon Finally Gets to Play an Actual Lesbian in “Bombshell”

I’m not talking about dyke-y hair and gun-licking as subtext. I’m not talking about just her general way. I’m talking about Kate McKinnon’s character having sex with Margot Robbie’s character and their relationship becoming the most emotionally resonant thing in the entire movie. 

Heather Hogan December 30, 2019 9 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger are so Married, Love Is Officially Not a Lie

Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger closed out their year of magical everything over the weekend with the most fairytale gay wedding we have ever seen or heard of in our entire lives.

Heather Hogan December 30, 2019 18 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV Show Recaps

“The L Word: Generation Q” Episode 104 Recap: L.A. Times

It’s Shane’s fortieth birthday and Generation Q’s gift to you is a few pictures of Dana, a really REALLY hot sex scene and a cameo by Robin Roemer!

Riese December 29, 2019 146 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Vortex

Your asshole is a swirling vortex. Plus: how to have sex in your childhood bedroom, a first orgy story, and why there’s no perfect person for you.

Ryan Yates December 29, 2019 26 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Getting Put to the Test With Crissle and Kid Fury

Happy Sunday! Immersive queer dance nights, the B-Side, looking ahead to the queer books of 2020, and more.

Ari December 29, 2019 6 Comments
Hair Webcomics

Reine #3: How To Style Short Hair

Step 1- Put 5 pounds of glue on your head. Step 2- ???

Ren Strapp December 28, 2019 3 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: Happy Holigays Are Here Again

Remi saved the holidays!

KaeLyn December 28, 2019 9 Comments
First Person TV Feature

From Willow to Waverly: A Decade of Being Out and Me and Queer TV

“I remember little moments so vividly — like Ashley kissing Spencer on the shoulder while they looked in the refrigerator for something to eat. This is what I wanted. And I wasn’t afraid of wanting it anymore.”

Valerie Anne December 27, 2019 33 Comments
Food Lists

70 Trader Joe’s Frozen Foods Ranked by a Seasonally Depressed Person

The sun might leave us for 3-6 months out of the year, but my microwave never will.

Rachel December 27, 2019 32 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Have Kittens On Their Nightstand

“On my nightstand: three empty beer bottles, 14 books piled in a stack that’s threatening to turn over in the night and murder me in my sleep, a candle that is supposed to smell like vanilla but is maybe more like candy corn, a matchbook from an Ybor strip club…”

Darcy December 27, 2019 24 Comments
Geekery

If You Delete Your Texts, How Do You Save Your Receipts?

The Autostraddle team has an impromptu discussion about our own personal phone policies surrounding screenshots, text receipts, being petty, saving contacts, and…cat photos.

Vanessa December 27, 2019 67 Comments
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‘TIL THE BITTER END OF 2019: All A+ Members Get 25% Off in the Autostraddle Store

We’ve got huge markdowns all over the Autostraddle store right now and if you’re an A+ member, you are REALLY in luck because you’re getting the biggest markdown this side of Autostraddle!

Sarah December 26, 2019 6 Comments
Holigays

POST-HOLIDAY MERCH SALE: 15% Off Everything in the Autostraddle Store

It’s here and queer and only comes once a year. It’s the annual post-holigays sale!

Sarah December 26, 2019 3 Comments
Health

You Need Help: Is It Time To Break Up With My Therapist?

What kinda of things are okay to expect from therapy? Should I switch therapists?

Ro White December 26, 2019 6 Comments
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