Results for: Feel good
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Ask an Adult Lesbian: Get Your Shit Together, Shane
Shane McCutcheon self-sabotages, Emily Fields co-depends, Cheryl Blossom is scared to commit — and a team of real live functional adult queer women are here to help.
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VIDEO! Getting In Bed With Kristin + Andrea Long Chu: There’s Just Nothing Like The Validation Of Strangers
“I just had a crush on myself for like, a month.”
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You Need Help: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Her Pants
Here’s how to forget about the world during sex and be present instead.
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5 Ways To Fight Back Against Seasonal Affective Disorder
I’ve been dealing with SAD all my adult life, and especially since I moved to the northeast where daylight lasts about as long as my lunch break from November to March. I’ve learned a lot about coping, and about making things easier on myself by noticing and addressing my symptoms before I’m in the midst of a full-blown depressive spiral. SAD isn’t fixable for me, but here’s how I’ve learned to fight back against it.
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You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain
The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.
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Nervous About A-Camp? Let’s Do Some Grounding
What I’m getting at here is that staying grounded (even though it sounds like an oxymoron) gives you the ability to move.
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You Need Help: Long-Distance Relationships
So far away! Courtney Trouble gets blunt about LDRs.
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You Need Help: You Want to Have Sex But Also Sex Is a Lot Wow So Complicated
You and your girlfriend don’t have to have sex unless you both want to have sex, no matter how long you’ve been dating. But also if you DO wanna have sex while respecting your history of trauma, here are some tips!
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You Need Help: Coming Out as Non-Binary at Work
Our gender is not a burden, the binary mainstream society is. You are wonderful, I’m so proud of you for reaching out. Take what works from my suggestions, and know I’ll be hoping it all turns out for the best.
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9 Lesbian Ways to Wear a Bandana
The inevitable list of ways to wear bandanas.
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You Need Help: When You’re Ace and You Want to Be More Than Friends
What to do when you have a crush on your roommate and you’re both asexual and are definitely more than just friends and definitely don’t know what to do about it.
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You Need Help: You’re in Love with a Straight Girl and You Want It to Stop
Take a deep breath. You can get through this.
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What to Say to Someone Who Met a Lesbian
Greet them with various felicitations – ones you’re comfortable with. Don’t step too far out of your “vibe” as that will be unsettling.
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Radical Queer Nutrition: Meet the Witch Who Wants to Help Heal Your Guts
Over the next few months, certified nutritional therapist Lark Malakai Grey will be exploring various aspects of nutrition that will help make your body — which is wonderful how it is — a more comfortable place to live in.
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You Need Help: Even Sex Gods Get Anxious Sometimes
Share your feelings with your partner, stud.
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Home Sweet Homo: A Guide to Buying Your First Home
Where do you even start the journey of finding your dream home? Right here!
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5 Things to Consider Before Getting Your First Tattoo
Getting a tattoo is exciting. But don’t get so excited that you lose sight of a few important things.
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22 Easy Steps to Rethinking Your Whole Relationship Through Late-Night Nudes
Is that insecurity in my pocket or have you just not sexted me back yet?
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How To Be Disabled, According to Stock Photography
“Gaze out the window or exist in silhouette as often as possible.”
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You Need Help: Your Best Friend Has Feelings for You, Lives 1000s of Miles Away
There is safety in distance, a whole lot of it — distance lets us be different version of ourselves, or to reveal parts of ourselves we haven’t shown to the light before. It allows us to be bold, and take risks.