Results for: meet up
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View From The Top: Is Kink The New Vanilla?
You just have to be honest about what you’re looking for, and keep going after it.
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View From The Top: Desire That Looks Like Mine
The possibility of finding our kink community gave me the courage to take another deep breath and open the door.
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View From The Top: Giving Orders
Giving orders is more than the words coming out of my mouth. It’s the tone of voice I use, the eye contact, the confidence, the ease with which I speak.
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View From The Top: Coming and Crying; Master and Slave
“Master and slave — in consensual, intentional contexts — are the precise words for the cravings I have in my heart and gut to own, control, protect and nurture my partner.”
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View From The Top: It’s Like 10,000 Femme Tops When All You Need Is A Bottom
Before you can find someone who wants what you want, you have to say no to everyone who doesn’t.
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View From The Top: Theory Is Foreplay, Right?
I wanted her. I dreamed about her, daydreamed about her, wrote love notes to her all day long, wrote erotica about our sex life. We weren’t together all that long, but she taught me so much about dominance.
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Bottoms Up: Sex and the Single Sub
I had to be comfortable enough to say, “I like this, but not that” to someone I’d just met, because if I couldn’t, I might get my clit bit again.
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You Need Help: Are You Asexual or Was Having Sex With Dudes Just the Worst?
“I was bred as a Southern Baptist, which gave me plenty of reasons not to let a guy touch my boobs. For example, it would break Jesus’ heart. And also I would go to hell.”
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10 Ideas From “The Ultimate Guide To Kink” That Even Vanilla People Will Be Into
If you want an overview of everything kinky and don’t know where to start, this is where.
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14 Lesbian Sexual Fantasies Submitted By Anonymous Women To 1973’s “My Secret Garden”
“I had slight lesbian tendencies before going into the convent…”
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Here’s The Salacious Sex Statistics On Queer Women In Non-monogamous vs. Monogamous Relationships
Everything you ever wanted to know about the sex lives of the monogamous, non-monogamous, and those preferring various sub-styles of relationship. SO MANY THINGS. IT’S ALL HERE.
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You Need Help: When a Yeast Infection is Cramping Your Sex Style
Let’s get down to business. The business of getting down to business with an itchy vag.
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You Need Help: Two Bottoms, One Relationship
The thing about being a top or a bottom is that it’s all in your head.
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Ela Darling On The Future Of Virtual Reality Porn: The Autostraddle Interview
“If people have a way to view entertainment, they’re going to want to jerk off with it.”
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5 Ways To Support Ethical Porn (Even If You Can’t Afford It)
Ethical porn can exist, but it needs your help.
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Lesbian Sex Gets Women Off At Astronomical Rates, Our Sex Survey Shows
High femmes, women over 35 and people in relationships orgasm a whole lot during sex and other interesting things we learned about how you get off.
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You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex
“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”
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You Need Help: So Your Girlfriend Never Ever Ever Wants To Have Sex
“Do I continue to sacrifice my own needs in order to stay in this relationship where I am undesired, or do I end a relationship with so much love and care for the other?”
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It Appears I Have Joined A Special Masturbation Society
“Almost immediately Linda is convulsing, and getting red in the face, and moaning in a way I’ve never heard a lady moan before. Little short bursts of air. She is making spirit fingers in the way I imagine they are meant to be done.”
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The Single Queer’s Guide To Meeting Someone To Have Sex With
Where to go and what to do when you want to ditch that vibrator and find a good helping hand.