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The Roots of Anti-Trans Violence against a pink and yellow background.
Gender Issues Politics + Activism

The Barriers that Keep Trans People From Thriving in Texas

The Lone Star state has repeatedly attempted to take life-saving resources away from trans people.

Crimson Jordan March 30, 2021 5 Comments
"The Roots of Anti-Trans Violence" Against a purple and blue background.
Gender Issues Politics + Activism

The Roots of Anti-Trans Violence

Trans people have been reported as experiencing an epidemic of violence. But why does the violence happen in the first place?

xoai pham March 29, 2021 5 Comments
a purple dildo lies in a bouquet of dead roses
First Person Gender

This Is an Essay About Penises

“I spent years not thinking about my penis — or, at least, thinking about it as little as possible. After I transitioned, my penis became the most important part of my body — at least, to other people.”

Drew Burnett Gregory March 25, 2021 230 Comments
a close-up shot of a femme person with long, painted black nails using her hand to cover her eyes, just peeking through her fingers
Gender

You Need Help: How Do I Navigate Femme Invisibility Without Changing Who I Am?

“You mention that you don’t want to shout that you are a lesbian from the rooftops, and of course, there are places that would be unsafe to do that — but you might consider the possibility that there are more opportunities to do so than you think.”

Christina Tucker March 16, 2021 10 Comments
From left, Xoai Pham, a Vietnamese trans woman, Chella Man, a Chinese-Jewish trans man, and Tony Zosherafatain, a Greek-Iranian trans man.
Gender Movie Features

Tony Zosherafatain and Chella Man Discuss “Trans in Trumpland,” Collective Liberation, and Cool Moms

Even with a new administration in office, we continue living in Trumpland. Tony Zosherafatain and Chella Man excavate what Trump has revealed about anti-trans violence in this country — and the future trans people deserve.

xoai pham February 25, 2021 2 Comments
A portrait of the author in the middle, in a yellow shirt that reads "No Justice No Peace" with the Black Panthers logo and a yellow beanie cap. To their left side is a cut out of Kamala Harris from Inauguration Day 2021 and to their right side is a cut out of the slavery abolitionist Sojourner Truth. All three images are connected by pearl necklaces and chain link necklaces, both colored in purple. They are against a purple starry night sky.
First Person Gender

Wrestling With Kamala and Beyond: Reckoning With Blackness, Womanhood, and What Comes Next

I am ready to be fearless. To dream beyond Black womanhood and know that I — Black, queer, and not-quite-sure — am worthy, so worthy of all of the love, affirmation, and power the universe can muster.

shea wesley martin February 23, 2021 15 Comments
A trans Latina woman looks into the distance.
Gender Movie Reviews

“Trans in Trumpland” Depicts the Past, Present and Future of Trans Lives

Four trans individuals are featured in the new docu-series exploring the impact of Trump’s ideologies.

xoai pham February 22, 2021 5 Comments
A black outline of a body floats in the blue and purple waves of the ocean. The ocean is covered in sparkles, like the stars of a night sky. Everything feels all-encompassing, full, and at peace.
First Person Gender

Gender Fluidity and the Black Atlantic

I always wonder what words my ancestors had for someone like me. In embracing my genderfluid identity, I’ve found great comfort in the deep and wide of the Atlantic — the way the water connects me to kin, named or unknown.

Lazarus February 18, 2021 7 Comments
Two humans cuddle on a couch while a cat sits with them.
Gender Webcomics

Scenes from a Gender 04: Stories of Trans Love

Four submissions about trans people loving all up on another, in not just romantic ways! Illustrated by Bishakh Som.

Bishakh Som February 13, 2021 14 Comments
Gender Politics + Activism

A Year of Intersex Victories

2020 wasn’t quite a victory for many people. But the intersex community has much to celebrate.

Mari Wrobi December 31, 2020 5 Comments
Two people placing their palms together.
Gender Politics + Activism

Scenes from a Gender 03: Trans Resilience Throughout 2020

In a year of incredible trials, the trans community has continued to build the connection and interdependence necessary to thrive and usher in a better world.

Bishakh Som December 31, 2020 10 Comments
A photo of the faces of eight different trans leaders: Raquel Willis, Brianna Titone, Chase Strangio, Pidgeon Pagonis, Mauree Turner, Sam Feder, Sean Saifa Wall, and Laverne Cox.
Gender Politics + Activism

10 Times Trans and Gender Nonconforming People Destroyed 2020

In a year of grief and turmoil, trans communities gave us a glimpse of a future we all deserve.

xoai pham December 28, 2020 8 Comments
A drag performer puts on makeup in a mirror.
Gender

Respect Your Elders: Carter Bachmann Came Out as Trans at 64

“Having presented a woman, a lesbian, and then come out as transgender man… don’t be afraid. You’re not alone. We are worthwhile. We are forever. We are everywhere. All you have to do is look for us. Be who you are.”

Lou Barrett December 26, 2020 2 Comments
Christine Howey and Lou Barrett
Gender

Respect Your Elders: Tea with Trans Playwright and Actress Christine Howey

“After I was about 20 years into my life as a trans woman, I was getting very frustrated by seeing that nothing much was changing. Transgender people were still being assaulted, killed, committing suicide. I felt that since I was a writer, I was a performer, I could put that together and maybe do a show and break down some barriers.”

Lou Barrett November 28, 2020 3 Comments
Gender LGBT History

What Mattee Jim, Navajo Trans Elder, Teaches Us About Remembering

This #TransDayOfRemembrance, trans lives are more than a list of names. We are vessels of ancestral memory.

xoai pham November 20, 2020 5 Comments
A magnifying mirror reflected in a wall mounted bathroom mirror
First Person Gender

I Stopped Tweezing in Quarantine and Realized I’m Nonbinary

On the 24th day of quarantine, I turned on all of the lamps in my room and took off all my clothes. Then I stood in front of the mirror and stared.

Rae Nieves November 10, 2020 25 Comments
Gender

The Pandemic is Trauma for Trans Disabled People

An exploration of the pandemic experiences of trans disabled people with a focus on trauma and survivorhood.

Noorulann Shahid October 16, 2020 4 Comments
a black and white photo of a person's chest and thin lines of scars beneath their nipples let behind after top surgery
First Person Gender

When Other People Get to Give Away Their Binders

Getting top surgery with my butch identity is no longer some unattainable fantasy. Now the question firmly rests with me: do I want to go ahead with it or not?

Shoshana Raphael September 29, 2020 28 Comments
A nonbinary femme person with blue short hair stands in the background. In the foreground is a sign that reads, "gender neutral bathroom, this bathroom is for everyone."
Gender

Why Everything Transphobes Think About Detransition Is Wrong

Coverage of ‘detransitioners’ may claim it’s just asking questions, but it rarely asks the right ones.

Eli Cugini September 28, 2020 35 Comments
xoai pham looks over her bare shoulder, her image reflected in the mirror behind her. natural light at the windowsill filters over a leafy green houseplant.
Gender

What This Trans Survivor Wants J.K. Rowling to Know

Joanne Rowling and I might have more in common than she thinks.

xoai pham September 24, 2020 20 Comments
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