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Two mourners gather in Atlanta in masks and winter coats. They leave flowers.
Society + Culture

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I am f*cking tired of white men killing people. I am f*cking exhausted of all the white supremacist violence my body, and our bodies, have been forced to withstand in such an already exhausting pandemic year.

Carmen Phillips March 18, 2021 8 Comments
Elliot Page is on the cover of Time magazine. He is in a black sweater and blue jeans, leaning against a white wall. In the accompanying photo, Elliot is a white tee and blue jeans, leaning back in a chair.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Elliot Page Embraced Being Trans in Quarantine, Highly Relatable Content

What we mean when we say “Don’t Forget Breonna Taylor,” how to properly hold your keys in your hand when you’re walking home alone at night, and surprise! surprise! the Vatican remains homophobic as always.

Carmen Phillips March 16, 2021 9 Comments
In a still from the television show The L Word, Shane is in her underwear in a Hugo Boss ad. She's covering her top with her hands. The caption reads: You're Looking Very Shane Today.
Society + Culture

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Mississippi became the first state to sign this year’s sweep of anti-trans bills into law (and some more readings about what’s coming next), misogynoir nearly killed Meghan Markle, and making it through this terrible sexless year.

Carmen Phillips March 11, 2021 4 Comments
Octavia Butler in the 1990s stands in front of a collection of her books under the sign "Science Fiction" in a library
Society + Culture

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Roxane Gay on becoming a queer elder before you’re ready, healing from this pandemic, the radical legacy of Dolly Parton, Drag Kings, and more!

Carmen Phillips March 9, 2021 1 Comment
A collage of six queer directors and their selected movies or tv shows. Each photo is broken up on a diagonal line to create a diamond pattern.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Here’s 10 Queer Directors on the 9 Queer Romances They Believe Got the Story Right

This is now a Zaya Wade stan account, people are dressing up to get the vaccine, Broadway stars sing Whitney Houston, and some really smart reporting about the growing wave of anti-trans bills sweeping at the state level.

Carmen Phillips March 4, 2021 4 Comments
Style Maven Jenna Lyons relaxes in a full length faux fur coat and her hair slicked back in a bun and dark cateye sunglasses. She is holding a small dog in her arms and is in front of a fire place. She's a boss, personified.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Jenna Lyons on Coming Out at 43, “It Was All New and I Didn’t Have Any Guideposts.”

This co-op is tackling homelessness with its own house for QTPOC, the history of anti-Asian violence in America, and Dolly Parton got the vaccine…. soon, so can you!

Carmen Phillips March 2, 2021 11 Comments
A young girl is in a green dress and bent off a chalkboard as she works on a math problem against a spring background, it looks serene.
Society + Culture

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How TV stories have shaped our understanding of AIDS, 14 fixes for pandemic monotony, R.O. Kwon on misunderstanding kink, and the intwined histories of white supremacy and transphobia.

Carmen Phillips February 25, 2021 2 Comments
Two models are posed in a parody of 1950s housewives. One holds up a pink casserole dish to the camera while the other holds a pair of beaters while smoking a cigarette.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Lesbians! Feeding the Queer Rights Movement, One Potluck at a Time!

Halle Berry grew up by practicing kissing on girls (stars, they’re just like us). Also, Megan Thee Stallion interviews Rep. Maxine Waters, more truly excellent Britney reads, and what does abortion access really look like during a pandemic?

Carmen Phillips February 23, 2021 5 Comments
A two-fold collage of Audre Lorde and Toni Morrison in black-and-white portraits.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Happy Birthday Audre Lorde and Toni Morrison

The queer art for divorce, advice on cohabiting with your girlfriend for the first time (should you split the rent?), the librarian war against QAnon, Carmen Maria Machado on Phoebe Bridgers, and more going into your weekend!

Carmen Phillips February 18, 2021 1 Comment
A three-fold collage of famous lesbian movie period pieces: First, the newly released "The World To Come" in which two lesbians in the 1800s stand inches away from each other's nose, then "Ammionate" in which two lesbians from the 1800s also stand inches away from each other's nose, and finally "Portrait of a Lady on Fire" in which once again lesbians from the 1800s stand inches away from each other's nose — this time on a beach.
Society + Culture

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You’re probably doing your pandemic pod all wrong, dispatches from the California stripper strike, wait what is going on with Cara Delevingne and Jaden Smith? And photography of lesbian joy from the 1970s that will warm your heart right in the middle of a cold February.

Carmen Phillips February 16, 2021 15 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Sarah Michelle Gellar, Michelle Trachtenberg, Amber Benson, Charisma Carpenter Under One Banner: “F*CK Joss Whedon”

Excellent reads from noted queer authors Kristen Arnett and Leah Johnson, grown up love stories that are certain to make you cry before Valentine’s Day (one starring Roxane Gay and Debbie Millman) — and more to wrap up the week.

Carmen Phillips February 11, 2021 3 Comments
A two-fold collage, on the left side is a black and white cover of GQ magazine with Megan Rapinoe and Sue Bird holding each other topless, with the words "The Modern Lovers Issue" written in cursive around them. On the right is a close up of Megan Rapinoe's and Sue Bird's faces close together, also in black and white.
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Also.Also.Also: GQ Declares Megan Rapinoe and Sue Bird “The Most Beloved Power Couple in Sports”

One Million Moms is boycotting this American Girl doll for having lesbian aunts (lol what!?!?), a history of Black Queer Chicago and AIDS Activism, and Serena Williams the GOAT has so many trophies she can’t keep them straight.

Carmen Phillips February 9, 2021 4 Comments
JoJo Siwa has a bright pink bow and turquoise sparkly jacket. She's against a purple background in her room. Her hair is in her famous side ponytail. She stares confidently to her left as she ponders how great it is to be gay.
Society + Culture

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Brandy and Whitney’s Cinderella is finally coming to Disney+, queer indie game designers, a round up of the anti-trans bills showing up in state legislatures nationwide, and a profile of Sonia Sotomayor not to be missed.

Carmen Phillips February 4, 2021 7 Comments
Representative Alexandria Ocasio Cortez is in a grey turtleneck sweater and her long dark brown hair tucked behind her ear on one side.
Society + Culture

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Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez took to her Instagram Live to talk about trauma and the January 6th Capitol Riot. Remembering how Sophie made you feel, Black fashion historians on Black culture’s most influential moments, and every single trade news from the WNBA Free Agency period that you can imagine.

Carmen Phillips February 2, 2021 6 Comments
The singer Halsey is posing in a rainbow bikini top and low, loose jeans — showing off her baby bump. She has a low brunette buzzcut.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Halsey Is Gonna Have a Baby Halsey!!

How tarot cards and queer love are inspiring couture fashion, notes on nonbinary Blackness, poems for the new year, and the pandemic is erasing entire categories of friendship.

Carmen Phillips January 28, 2021 4 Comments
Elliott Page and their partner Emma on a red carpet event, both have their hair slicked back into low bungs and have on black suits with black collared shirts underneath.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Elliot Page Is Getting Divorced, Another Day in the Books for Love Being a Lie

Yes, some thoughts about Elliot Page’s divorce. And also: Black Sign Language, Andra Day on Billie Holiday (we can’t wait for the movie next month!), and breaking up with white supremacy for good.

Carmen Phillips January 26, 2021 21 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: I’m Out of Puns, but This Year We’re Getting the Therapy We Need

Also, trans men on competing in school sports, those Helen Keller conspiracy theories are ableist, even more love for Amanda Gorman, and yes — helping you afford the therapy you need.

Carmen Phillips January 21, 2021 10 Comments
Trace Lysette sips wine in a see through flouncey pink robe in a still from her music video, "SMB"
Society + Culture

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Dr. Rachel Levine makes trans history, vaccine analysis that is actually helpful, and is anything as powerful as “Gossip Girl” was in 2008? Plus, the healing power of queer friendships in a personal essay you don’t want to miss.

Carmen Phillips January 19, 2021 3 Comments
Lizzo in a purple wig is performing on stage in a hot pink bra.
Society + Culture

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Also: here’s some legit great queer newsletters for your inbox, honoring Monica Roberts and Margot St. James, post-impeachment burn out, meet the most serious astrologer on TikTok, and more.

Carmen Phillips January 14, 2021 8 Comments
Hunter Schafer has her hands painted gold while wearing a gold spaghetti strapped dress in the desert on the cover of the Net-a-Porter fashion magazine
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Nothing Makes Hunter Schafer Squeak With Happiness Like Seeing Other Queer Trans Lesbians

Also, Tracy Chapman got PAID, vintage vapid fluff starring Tallulah Bankhead, Aretha Franklin’s queer sister, and celebrating Mary J Blige’s 50th birthday in style.

Carmen Phillips January 12, 2021 6 Comments
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