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We Do What We Do in the Dark by Michelle Hart
LGBT Book Reviews

“We Do What We Do In the Dark” Is More Than a Lesbian Age Gap Romance

When we’re young, we relate to older people who are themselves young. We read maturity where it is not deserved.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 3, 2022 8 Comments
The cover of Casey McQuiston's I Kissed Shara Wheeler. A green background with a blonde girl holding a pink envelope with lipstick kisses on it.
LGBT Book Reviews

“I Kissed Shara Wheeler” Is Another Swoony Queer Romance From Casey McQuiston

If you loved Red, White & Royal Blue or One Last Stop, you’re going to be over the gay moon about McQuiston’s latest novel.

Heather Hogan May 2, 2022 12 Comments
The cover of Flung Out of Space: Patricia Highsmith stares out a window with her cat while smoking a cigarette.
LGBT Book Reviews

“Flung Out of Space” Grapples With Patricia Highsmith’s Misanthropic Lesbian Life

Patricia Highsmith liked three things: women, writing, and cigarettes.

Heather Hogan April 25, 2022 14 Comments
In Sensorium: Notes For My People by Tanaïs
LGBT Book Reviews

Perfume Provides a Map of Memory and History in This Powerful Memoir

Tanaïs’ In Sensorium is an aesthetic, intimate labyrinth of ancestral reckoning and identity.

Em Win April 22, 2022
Burning Butch: A Memoir by R/B Mertz. The cover features a box of matches on it.
LGBT Book Reviews

“Burning Butch” Is the Trans Butch Memoir We’ve Always Needed

We’ve always needed books like Burning Butch out in the world reminding us that it’s possible to fight back, to overcome, and to survive despite all odds.

Stef Rubino April 11, 2022 1 Comment
Little Foxes Took Up Matches by Katya Kazbek
LGBT Book Reviews

“Little Foxes Took Up Matches” Stayed With Me Long After I Finished Reading

The book invites readers to fall in love with a child falling in love with himself and his friends and his own power and his own transformative potential amidst a backdrop of chaos, and even if you weren’t born in 1987, it will likely stick with you for a while.

Abbie Jones April 5, 2022 7 Comments
Vagabonds! a novel by Eloghosa Osunde
LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Naija Lit: “Vagabonds!” by Eloghosa Osunde Names the Things People Would Rather Look Away From

Welcome to Queer Naija Lit, a new series that analyzes and celebrates queer Nigerian literature. First up: a review of the new novel “Vagabonds!” by Eloghosa Osunde.

Chinelo Anyadiegwu April 5, 2022 12 Comments
Photo 1: Time Regime by Jhani Randhawa. Photo 2: The author Jhani Randhawa, a gender non-specific person with light brown skin wearing a black net on their head
LGBT Book Reviews

A Conversation With Jhani Randhawa About Their Poetry Collection “Time Regime”

In this creative nonfiction+artist interview chimera, Almah LaVon Rice reviews the poetry collection Time Regime and wanders its estuaries with author Jhani Randhawa.

Almah LaVon Rice March 31, 2022 10 Comments
The book cover of Fiona and Jane by Jean Chen Ho
LGBT Book Reviews

Jean Chen Ho on “Fiona and Jane,” the Eros of Friendship, and Finding Your Fiction Community

“When I was writing these women and their mothers, I wanted to show that these are individuals.”

Em Win March 28, 2022 3 Comments
My Volcano by John Elizabeth Stintzi
LGBT Book Reviews

“My Volcano” Is an Abnormal, Bizarre, Exhilarating Novel About a Volcano Suddenly Emerging in Central Park

My Volcano is an abnormal, bizarre, sometimes frustratingly opaque novel — but it’s also one of the most exhilarating ones I’ve read in years.

Abbie Jones March 22, 2022
Jill Gutowitz's book cover for her debut essay collection Girls Can Kiss Now is dark purple with pink font and many line drawing illustrations of cool lesbians in the background
LGBT Book Reviews

“Girls Can Kiss Now” and Other Realizations with Jill Gutowitz

We reviewed “Girls Can Kiss Now,” Jill Gutowitz’s debut essay collection about pop culture, the internet, growing up, and being very very gay. You’re gonna love it.

Vanessa March 8, 2022 3 Comments
The cover of the book Why Design Matters has the words "why design maters" in red ink in from of black circles and squiggles agains a white book jacket. It is by Debbie Millman, with a forward by Roxane Gay. The cover is displayed twice in front of a red background.
LGBT Book Reviews

Debbie Millman’s “Why Design Matters” Is a Career Long Tribute of Lesbian Brilliance to Get Lost in on a Sunday Afternoon

Design Matters isn’t explicitly queer, but the longest-running podcast in history — with more than 40 million downloads and counting — comes from the mind of a lesbian and I’m deeply invested in reclaiming it as our culture.

Carmen Phillips February 27, 2022 4 Comments
The book cover of Getting Clean With Stevie Green
LGBT Book Reviews

“Getting Clean With Stevie Green” Cares More About the Mess

It’s an attitude that’s really relatable, a year and some change sober as I am, the idea that your whole life would be different if not for this one thing that happened to you.

Analyssa February 1, 2022
A collage of the cover for Casey Plett's A Dream Of A Woman
First Person LGBT Book Reviews

Slow Takes: Casey Plett’s “A Dream of a Woman” and Forgiveness as a Love Story

Often I find myself pushing so hard against the image of trans loneliness that I don’t allow myself to acknowledge the truths that lie within. This book acknowledged them for me. It hurt. I’m grateful.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 6, 2022 12 Comments
Cover of "no filter and other lies" shows a brown skinned girl holding a camera while polaroids of her friends are behind her.
LGBT Book Reviews Literature

“No Filter and Other Lies” Asks How Far Will You Go for Validation?

Life is hard enough already, why turn Instagram into a bully that can taunt you every time you open it?

Analyssa December 21, 2021 1 Comment
Image shows the book cover which is a galaxy swirled in Yellow, white and blue. The title Truth of The Divine is in blocked blue font and the authors name Lindsay Ellis is in yellow block font underneath it.
LGBT Book Reviews Literature

In “Truth of The Divine” We Explore What It Means To Be Human

A story that exemplifies the power of science fiction, encouraging readers to ponder what it even means to be “human”.

Amari Gaiter December 16, 2021 2 Comments
Image shows the word Greedy in colorful block letters and laid on top in simple script are the words "notes from a bisexual who wants too much"
LGBT Book Reviews Literature

Jen Winstons’ Greedy Reminds You To Remember The “And”

“I learned to accept that I contain multitudes, and neither my sexual orientation nor gender identity are exempt from my multifaceted nature.”

Amari Gaiter October 29, 2021 1 Comment
Three images of a black book cover featuring red text that says, "Leigh Cowart, HURTS SO GOOD" and grey text that says, "The Science & Culture of Pain on Purpose." Some images are visible throughout the text, including a ballet slipper and a sword.
LGBT Book Reviews

Hurts So Good Reveals That Masochism Is Everywhere

Hurts So Good showcases pain experts of all types for a more holistic understanding of why and how we use pain for pleasure.

Davey Davis October 19, 2021 3 Comments
Three images of the book Tumblr Porn side by side: each blue book cover features a pixelated red heart and the text, "Remember the Internet, Vol. 1, Tumblr Porn, Ana Valens."
LGBT Book Reviews

Tumblr Porn Offers an Inside Look at Early Internet Culture

If you ever wanted to know more about what it was like during Tumblr’s heyday — the good and the bad — Tumblr Porn is an excellent little primer from a very-invested insider.

Abbie Jones September 27, 2021 6 Comments
Photo shows the book cover for Sophie Santos book where she is wearing a jacket, orange shirt and a bridal veil with the text "The one you want to marry (and other identities i've had)"
LGBT Book Reviews

Sophie Santos’ Memoir Takes Us On Her Queer Path To The Lesbian Agenda

No one’s life is split into two simple chapters. Santos lets all her former eras live right next to each other in the mirror.

Analyssa September 14, 2021
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