Monday Roundtable: Look At Our Stuff (We Collect), Isn’t It Neat?

We’re not sure of the genesis of the idea that owning a bunch of things of the same type is somehow a hobby, but nonetheless, it’s a real thing and many of us participate in it! From the ostensibly refined collections like coins and stamps to the esoteric like taxidermy, there’s a wide world of stuff to gather out there! That said, most of us just own very specific types of books, but we thought you’d be into that too.

Heather, Senior Editor: International Harry Potter books

I think I wrote about this a little for a Queer IRL gallery or maybe even another roundtable, but it’s the only thing I collect and I never tire of talking about it, so: international Harry Potter books. I’ve written about Harry Potter all over the internet in so many ways for so long you don’t need me to rehash it. It’s just the most important book series of my life, is all, and what I clung to like a life raft when I left the Baptist church. When the books were actually still in progress, I started traveling internationally for the first time. I’m not really big on souvenirs but it was a transitional and transformational time in my life and I wanted something to show for it, so I started buying a copy of Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone in every country visited. And then it became a thing and my friends and family started picking up copies for me in all the countries they visited. Most countries have either the UK Bloomsbury covers of the US Scholastic covers, but some countries have their own covers with completely different art and lettering. My favorite one in my collection is the French one because I had run out of time in France and hadn’t found a bookstore and on my way to the train that was taking me to Switzerland I stopped by this little outdoor shop and there it was! Waiting for me! But the most prized thing in my collection is my autographed copy of The Casual Vacancy, which I have also written about before and so I will spare you a tenth recounting but it was one of the most special nights of my life when I met J.K. Rowling and I will always treasure that memory and that book.

II started collecting these books in 2005 and there’s really no return on my investment unless you count happiness, which I do, and so I am a zillionaire from them. This picture is as many versions as I could fit on my kitchen table. I have about 45 international Harry Potters, total.

Riese, Editor-in-Chief: Books generally, Lesbian/Queer Books specifically and also Lesbian Magazines

I collect books. Full stop, period: books. When you say you “collect books,” it justifies spending tons of money and filling half your apartment with books. I highly recommend it. You can see my robust bookshelves as they appeared where I used to live in the Queer in the Stacks roundtable. I had to cull down my collection before moving back west, which was like severing several limbs, but also cleansing in a way.

I also specifically collect LGBTQ & feminist books, including really old books that tried to scare people away from being homosexuals.

Furthermore, I collect lesbian magazines — old and new. I’ve got a robust collection of Curve, Diva and GO, but I also often pick up single-issues of mainstream magazines that contain important LGBTQ stories, like Jillian Michaels coming out in 2009, Portia & Ellen’s wedding EXCLUSIVE in People Magazine, the 1993 Newsweek cover story “Lesbians: What Are The Limits of Tolerance?” and, most recently, Lena Waithe on the cover of Vanity Fair. The picture above is maybe about 25% of my collection. When I’m rich one day I’ll start building up my collection of vintage lesbian magazines, which is pretty weak at the moment. They tend to be very pricey on ebay. Also, carrying so many magazines around from one apartment to another is a real test of devotion to one’s collection, I’ll tell you what.

Tiara, Staff Writer: Darren Hayes / Savage Garden Music & Merch

I have been a superfan of Savage Garden, and Darren Hayes in particular, ever since listening to To The Moon & Back when I was about 12. His music has always (eerily sometimes) been the soundtrack to my life. He’s a large reason why I got into performance art (and why I also moved to Australia), and possibly the reason I’m queer.

My main collection’s his songs — everything he’s ever written or sung, whether as part of Savage Garden or solo or on side projects like We Are Smug. He’s VERY prolific, especially with B-sides and tracks that didn’t end up being part of his albums, which are often my favourites! I have over 200 tracks and counting, and there’s still a handful I’m trying to track down. I also have a growing collection of his merch, mostly stuff that’s special edition (such as the limited-edition LP presses of his last album Secret Codes and Battleships, which includes a code I haven’t cracked yet!!) or things from my days as a member of his official fanclubs. There’s even a diary where I attempted to make a fan scrapbook (which was really popular within the fandom in the late 90s) – it didn’t quite work out, but I kept the work in progress!

One of my best friends used to work as a music TV VJ and got to interview Darren — I sent her long emails with interview questions and research, and she asked him every single one. She even got him to send a personal message to me (by video and via a signed notebook) and even snuck through an advance copy of his first solo album Spin. When I watched the interview on air some time later it closed off with Darren saying “this is the best interview I’ve ever done” — my proudest moment.

Some years ago the Queensland Museum opened up an exhibition of local people’s collections, and mine ended up being displayed for a year. The community workshops around these were held in Logan, Darren’s hometown, especially apt! Last year, as part of a major performance project, I finally got around to recreating one of his iconic jackets . It’s now probably my most favourite thing in my collection, though it is something I made!

Molly Priddy, Staff Writer: Gemstones

I’ve loved gems and rocks ever since I was a kid, and now that I am adult and make my own purchasing decisions, I’ve acquired a nice little collection of loose gemstones that I like to look at. Yes, I’m a dragon, no, I don’t plan on making them into jewelry, and yes, I have a little pouch for them. The stones pictured are my most recent additions: a raw agate and a few green sapphires. Also, when I was a kid I collected turtles, but that collection is now spread across seven nieces and nephews.

Laura M, Staff Writer: Waving Cat Figurines

I have a small collection of waving cat figurines set up on my bookshelf to greet me whenever I walk in the front door.

There are a lot of origin stories for maneki nekos, but the most popular one is this: A Samurai was walking by a temple one day and noticed a cat beckoning to him. As he began moving towards it, the tree behind him was immediately struck by lightning. The Samurai was struck with how lucky he was that the cat saved his life, so… he began making clay cat figurines en masse? I don’t know, the story is a little fuzzy on that point. Regardless, these lucky cats are a thing! I think they’re pretty cute.

Carrie, Staff Writer: Peau de Loup Button Downs

If brand loyalty counts as a collection then I definitely fit the bill here. I didn’t accumulate this sheer mass of shirts from the same company on purpose; it just kind of happened and when you find the one that fits, you find the one that fits, y’know?

I didn’t think I could wear button downs until I found Peau de Loup. And not just because of the all-too-familiar “boob gap” issue. My spine is, shall we say, uniquely shaped and pushes my torso forward, so even though my chest is relatively small, it ends up straining even the most well-meaning traditional shirts. Enter PDL. Now I wear these basically daily, at work or at play, and they’ve opened up a whole new realm of fashion as I’ve built outfits around them (hello, patterned suits, where have you been all my life). They’ve helped me gain confidence and grow into my aesthetic self more than I ever thought I would. This is what it means to feel comfortable in your clothes.

My favorite PDL is definitely the banana shirt, but the one that looks like a bunch of upside down Republican party logos is going over really well in DC right now.

Carolyn Yates, NSFW Editor and Literary Editor: Old Weird Queer/Sex Books

Moving between cities in Canada and then to Los Angeles and lately again in Los Angeles to somewhere much smaller means that my book collection has been in a constant state of division or deletion, which is too bad since I tend to feel if I don’t have at least one entire wall of books in my house I’m doing it wrong. Lately I’m a library kinda girl, but the books I’m still into collecting are vintage queer books or sex books, like lesbian pulp fiction, or collected (mostly hetero) (so far) BDSM journals from the turn of the century, or titles like The Sexual Key to the Tarot.

Stef Schwartz, Vapid Fluff Editor: My Ex’s Friends

FUNNY STORY: three of the people I consider to be my best friends on this earth are people who used to be close friends with my significant ex girlfriends. I swear to you I did not steal them on purpose! In each case, they were friends who lived in Brooklyn and we ran into each other from time to time and we cautiously interacted without drawing lines in the sand until SOMEHOW I won them over with my winning personality (and none of them talk to my exes anymore). I like to joke that stealing my exes’ friends is my superpower, and if we broke up and I didn’t steal any of your friends, you should probably think about your friends.

Alexis, Staff Writer: Poetry Books

Poetry books. Whenever I hear one of my favorite poet’s poet has a new book, I’m like, well I need to get that immediately (which is like within the year). I think I’ve only been collecting since I’ve gotten out of school, because I remember Langston Hughes, Dr. Maya Angelou and Edgar Allan Poe being my main favorites. Like I talked about Langston Hughes so much my English teachers begged me to pick a different poet for one of my final projects and that’s kind of how the collection began. She gave me Museum by Rita Dove after a rounding rendition of “Who’s that Doggy in the Window?” by the entire department, so I thought it was special enough that I keep going. My mom has always been an advocate of collecting books (a little less so since she has Kindle, in that she’s more about borrowing than owning) so it’s also a comforting thing from when I was a kid. I’ve invested…a lot of money into poetry books, especially when I can get them signed by the authors and stuff. I actually cannot tell you which one means the most to me because when I go to pick one from my shelf, fifteen come along with it. If there was some way I could physically carry all these books with me wherever I could, I’d do it, I love them so much.

Valerie Anne, Staff Writer: Funko POPs

I think I’ve always had a collection. When I was little it was keychains – I had a huge box of them and my dad would bring me one from every city he visited. I had ones that made noise, those ones with cheesy phrases from Spencers, tons of them. I don’t remember why. My brother and I sort of collected Beanie Babies but considering how hard we played with them I think it’s more accurate to say we amassed them. For a while after high school there was no point in collecting things; I moved every 8-12 months for 7 years. But after a few years in my current apartment, I suddenly found myself with a new collection: Funky POPs. It started when they announced they were making Orphan Black POPs, and the little Cosima was too damn cute to pass up. It spiraled from there. They can run anywhere from $10-25 for the solo ones, more for Exclusives or sets, it really depends. Hot Topic sells them and sometimes have sales, sometimes you can find them on Amazon, but some are only available at certain Comic Cons and events. I’m very particular about who I buy though; this isn’t just a “gotta catch ’em all” situation for me. So far all of my POPs are women except Felix from Orphan Black. They’re all from my favorite shows (or, in the case of the new Ghostbusters, movie) and are arranged so they’re hanging out with their friends. I keep them in their boxes because I think they display better that way, and I have most of mine on shelves in my room (though I recently ran out of space and need more shelves.) I do have two at work, one because my secret santa gave me a Cosima which I obviously already had so my clone of a clone stays at work, and the other is Jessica Jones because my best friend at work, Jess, changed jobs, so my mother sent me Jessica Jones so that I would “still have a Jessica at work” with me. I think they’re worth the investment because they make me very happy and are displayed like art in my home, not just in a box to occasionally be perused like my keychain collection. I feel like they represent me as a person because of how curated they are, and it’s fun that the collection will never really be “complete” because even one character can have a bunch of different POPs because they will have special outfits or props. (For example, I have a regular Rachel Duncan and a Rachel Duncan with a pencil in her eye.) My most prized piece in my collection is my Buffy/Faith Set. My friend Nic got it for me after I missed out on getting one at NYCC, and I love them so much. Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and Buffy and Faith specifically, are a huge part of who I am as a person, and I love the characters and my POPs so much. I love their classic outfits, I love their tiny stakes, I love everything about them.

Reneice, Staff Writer: Greeting Cards

I cannot stop myself from buying cute greeting cards. I have a giant box of them in my office that I constantly add new stock to because I can’t leave a good greeting card behind once I meet it. If there is a life event they make cards for, I have one, and most likely it also has glitter, a rainbow, or a pun on it. The idea is that I buy these ahead of time so that I’m always ready when birthdays and celebrations come around but what usually happens is I buy a card specifically for someone or thing, bring it home to meet its new friends, then forget to mail or sign or give the card to the person it was meant for. Sometimes I get so attached to a new card that I decide to keep it for “something special” (nevermind that I’m buying it explicitly for celebrating a special day) and use an older one, but as I flip through the other cards to find a replacement I realize I’m attached to them all. Thus I am the proud owner of a beautiful and solely aspirational collection of unused greeting cards.

Rachel, Managing Editor: Tarot Decks and Rosaries

This is a very small sampling, I promise, but I just moved it’s not my fault!

I am sort of counting these as the same collection even though they’re technically different items because I think the instinct with both is the same: owning just one is an indication that you take it seriously and it has a functional role in your spiritual life, owning a bunch makes it a fun collection! Possibly I am the only one who thinks that and the reality is the opposite. Anyhow! The rosaries are generally also souvenirs of trips, especially places with Marian significance, which I’ve always had a soft spot from since I was a little girl — off the top of my head I have rosaries from Notre Dame, Barcelona, and Vijayawada. The tarot decks I mostly shop for online, the kind of totally unnecessary impulse purchase that I can often justify by reminding myself that these are mostly coming from small-time indie (often queer) artists. Is that enough to make it worth spending $50 on them? Probably not, but here we are!

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  1. I am so conflicted about my waving cat collection! I started collecting them because Kel from Protector of the Small collected them, but in college it started to feel a little gross and appropriative? I read too much Edward Said and books about Japonisme. They’re all in storage now except for the one whose nose I rubbed off from carrying her to all my exams.

    • I hear you. My cat sleeps on my shemagh/keffiyeh, because I don’t really want to be seen out and about in something so potentially appropriative (and politicised).

      The thing is, though… I bought it from a Bedouin trader in the Middle East, to wear as sun and sandstorm protection while working on a sacred site that required conforming to a certain standard of Muslim modest. Bedouins taught me how to wear it, like how their wives would wear it and how they would wear it while working. Part of me feels I’ve earned the right to wear it, because I was there and they were my friends, but part of me also has a lot of white colonialism guilt (and not just even Sykes–Picot colonialism, but just the fact that I was there as a young white foreign woman with minimal work-experience, albeit with the necessary education, supervising significantly darker native workers with more experience but not the theoretical background necessary to interpret or publish the work).

  2. Riese, now I’m sorry I finally got tired of lugging around my copies of Deneuve. I would have gladly sent them your way. I also had Girlfriends Magazine and On Our Backs. Some copies of Girljock. A bunch of regional stuff. I’m very gay and I had Downtown Book and News and Malaprops in downtown Asheville to feed my appetite for anything gay. But I hate clutter so I finally gave them up.

    • Omg I would’ve severed all my arms for that collection! I don’t have any girl jocks or any editions of Curve from when it was still deneuvue. There’s only one guy on eBay selling OOB and he won’t sell me any issues for under $15 each which makes me very mad at him

  3. I love this roundtable so much! Collections are so personal and unique and change over time, also? (like, Reneice, I used to collect freeing cards also but have since stopped) – how they spring up over time, how they evolve. This was very soothing to read.

    (Also, Stef, I flat out CACKLED at yours.)

  4. I use to collect old computer magazines from the mid-late 90s and early 2000s as kind of a time capsule. It was interesting to see things that once was big and ideas that never took off. We had to re-floor the house a few months ago(and my parents called me a hoarder), so I had recycle them all a few months ago.

  5. Tiara, let me share my Darren Hayes story with you. I used to work with a lady called Mary many years ago (over 10) who, although she was in her fifties was a big fan of SG and DH in particular. She was in his fan club. She entered a competition to go to a meet and greet when he was in our town on his solo tour (Bristol, UK) and was one of the winners!

    She was supposed to take her daughter, but she couldn’t make it, so I got invited to go instead! So we went backstage, got some merch, including an autograph and a photo each with him. Sadly, I don’t have a scanner, so I can’t work out how to add it to this comment. But all I can say is he was a very lovely person and I really enjoyed the show!

    • Lucky! I’ve met him like once and was a blubbering mess the whole time hahaha

  6. Right now, I collect kindle books for my tbr files. Strange, pretty, looks like something, semi-precious (for their metaphysical properties), or heart rocks. Mama started the tradition of finding and giving each.other rocks that look like hearts. Now that she’s passed on, I feel like every one I see is her helping me find it and giving it to me. I also tend to collect yarn, free patterns, and knitting & crochet tools/notions, when I have the money. I don’t know if that counts, since it’s useful in a way. Rainbow (or other unintentionally pride colors) things, l preferably in the correct order for rainbows, and pink can stand in for red in a pinch in rainbow. I bought three large balls of rainbow yarn that I don’t know what to do with just because it has red instead of pink, and the colors are in the correct order.

  7. carrie i have that exact same banana shirt! i love it and my friends hate it because i have an entire collection of puns for when people compliment it

    “hey nice shirt!”
    “thanks i find it really…aPEELing. sorry, the jokes just SLIP out.”
    “i’m never speaking to you again”
    “that’s fair. i’ll go ahead and SPLIT now”

  8. When I was younger I collected snow globes. Now my thing is toy dragons; I even keep a notebook with all of their names and descriptions.

  9. I’ve always been a collector! As I have changed, what I collect has changed as well, so I don’t have that “One True Collection” thing going on. When I was young my “official” collection, chosen by my parents was spoons (not the eating kind, the weird little decorative kind). Every family trip I would get a spoon, and when my dad traveled for work he would bring me spoons. Things I have collected on my own at various times throughout my childhood and adulthood include; unicorn stuff, wolf stuff, Boyd’s Bears, stuffed animals, dog stuff, lesbian fiction, fossils, tiny ceramic animals, banana stickers (the stickers they put on bananas, not stickers of bananas), Pokemon cards, and probably a million other things I am forgetting now.

    Now that I have moved around a bunch it has really prevented me from collecting as much. I do still have my Pokemon cards (although I am looking to sell them if I can figure out what they are worth), and a skull collection (Biology major, not murderer). I suppose I sort of collect snakes as I have a small collection of Kenyan sand boas.

  10. On purpose I collect playing cards. So far I have a mint condition casino deck with an ocean theme on the back (it belonged to my grampy) a 70’s cartoon robot deck for kids that also belonged to him too, a deck of artistic nudes from NOMA,2 mini matchbox decks, a Penny Dreadful deck and 3 casino decks from god only knows where 2 of them have what I call “carpet themes” on the back and the other is the Bicycle Rider cherub thing.
    Really wanted the DC Bombshells deck but ran out of spendable cash before I saw them at a convention last year.

    The rest is possibly hoarding or some kind of executive dysfunction. >_>

  11. Heather, I love the collection of Harry Potter editions! I have the first and third books in Hebrew, and the French and German versions in your picture.
    I have a few side-collections (postcards, cute erasers, fancy scarves, punk 45 singles) but I think the sheer amount of hats I own counts as my main collection. Some of the hats have names and I love them too much to admit how affected that sounds.

  12. Pretty cool collections all round, but I’ll admit I was distracted trying to read past the part where sweet Circe, Heather, YOU MET J. K. ROWLING?!!!

  13. Who would have thought that Rachel and my grandma could sit down and show each other their respective Rosary collections?

  14. I like this concept of “collecting books” because my book habit is mostly hoarding at this point (grad school makes “fun” reading nearly impossible right now). But as my sister reminds/enables me, “you can’t hoard books, you’re collecting knowledge, there’s a difference.”

  15. I have had collections of two kinds: 1. BOOKS. 2. Sources of color. When I was little, yarn and embroidery thread, both of which I occasionally made things with, but really it was all about glomming onto the color. Now, fingernail polishes. I often paint my toenails and occasionally my fingernails, because I’m not at all a makeup-that-only-other-people-can-see person, but if I can stare at it in the sun and go “ooooooo” then I’m there. Jewel tones, sparkle, fluorescent, two-tone, iridescent…glom glom. (Which is like nom nom for things you don’t eat.) I think this is a depression coping strategy. Colors with some joy or depth to them make me feel better.

    We also have an art collection, which we cherish far beyond any market value it most likely doesn’t have, because it’s all work by our parents and grandparents.

    And…uh…I guess I have a clothes collection, but that’s more because “but someday you might wear this old T-shirt from high school that you haven’t worn in at least fifteen years” is a thing my brain tells me and Me Vs. Brain is a very inconsistent win-loss record.

    Now back to staring at my toes and revising an article. Have a good day, all!

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