Johnny Weir is Gay, Officially


Time to update our  “cracking the coming out code” infographics! Yep, Johnny Weir is gay, duh — but our favorite Lady Gaga fan had been withholding official verification until now, in anticipation of the January 11th release of his book, Welcome to My World.

In an excerpt from the book published in the January 17th issue of People Magazine, Johnny said:

“With people killing themselves and being scared into the closet, I hope that even just one person can gain strength from my story.”

Weir also discusses the pressure he felt from gay web sites who “couldn’t figure out why I was such a jerk that I wouldn’t talk it.”

“A lot of the gays got downright angry about my silence. But pressure is the last thing that would make me want to ‘join’ a community.”

Remember when Jennifer Beals gushed about Johnny Weir during our interview? Love it.



He addresses the constant questions about his sexuality, and the reason he chooses so many gay roles, in the current issue of Entertainment Weekly:

“It’s funny because the way that kind of stuff is talked about on blogs is so black-and-white…It’s all cut-and-dry identity politics. ‘Is he straight or is he gay?’ Or, ‘This is your third gay movie — come out already!’ And all based on, gay or straight, based on the idea that your object of affection decides your sexuality…

…There are lots of other reasons to be interested in gay characters than wanting myself to go out and have sex with guys. And there are also lots of other aspects about these characters that I’m interested in, in addition to their sexuality. So, in some ways it’s coincidental, in other ways it’s not. I mean, I’ve played a gay man who’s living in the ’60s and ’70s, a gay man who we depicted in the ‘50s, and one being in the ‘20s. And those were all periods when to be gay, at least being gay in public, was much more difficult. Part of what I’m interested in is how these people who were living anti-normative lifestyles contended with opposition. Or, you know what, maybe I’m just gay.”

Hey, why wasn’t he ever cast as Shane’s brother?

James Franco Kate Moennig

PS: He’s been dating his actress girlfriend Ahna O’Reilly since 2006.


The Gossip lead singer’s memoir From Coal to Diamonds has a cover but no release date yet. The memoir will explore her childhood in Arkansas, her experiences in becoming a music icon, a “lesbian diva,” trials with self-image, and self-love. She’s also tiding fans over with a still-untitled solo debut 4-song EP to be released later in January… listen to a preview.


She’s baaaack. Kinda. She made a surprise appearance singing “Someone to Watch Over Me” at the Plaza Hotel’s Oak Room in NYC last night and it was fucking lovely, per ushe.



The People’s Choice Awards were so gay last night. Queen Latifah hosted, Jane Lynch won and gave a shout out to her wife, and actress Pauley Perrette wore this NOH8 dress.

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Jess is a pop culture junkie living in New York City. She enjoys endless debates about The L Word, Howard Stern, new techy gadgets, DVR, exploring the labyrinth of the Lesbian Internet, memoirs, working out, sushi, making lists, artsy things, anything Lady Gaga touches, traveling, puppies, and nyc in the fall. Find her on Twitter @jessxnyc or via email.

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  1. Pauley Perrette, I can’t even. Did you know she actually studied forensics in college? Plus my girlfriend falls over every time she’s onscreen.

  2. James Franco, and that guy who hosts karaoke nights at that place down in the ID = my current boy crushes

  3. NPH also won and gave a shout out to his hubby (so cute i almost vommitted). and i want him to be my boyfriend. or i could be his boifriend. whatever….

  4. I don’t care if James Franco is gay or straight because he is hot and an amazing actor.

    Does anyone remember the 30 Rock where he was dating an anime pillow? HILARIOUS

  5. Re: Johnny Weir – in other news, water is wet.

    I actually saw a girl on the bus on my way to work a few months ago who looked like the spitting image of Johnny Weir. Not like a sister, but like HIM. Same eyes, nose, lips, dark hair (though shoulder length). It was crazy.

  6. honestly, Johnny Weir?—not so much.
    can’t / won’t explain it—just, idk, talented?-yes!
    bbut also, some kinda creepy factor for me…..okay, maybe I ‘ll just sit this one out.

    James Franco—I would BBQ all day with that dude AND let him borrow my motorcycle.

    lovin me some Lynch- ’nuff said.

  7. I love how much fluidity people seem to be openly feeling/applying in themselves and their relationships these days. things need not be so rigid I think.

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  9. WHY were so many people talking while Lady Gaga was singing? That should probably be illegal.

    P.S. I loved everything about this article. It just kept getting better and better the further I went.

  10. the first time i noticed james franco could be attractive was when i saw pineapple express. striped pajama sweatpants, guys with long hair, and weed jokes. mmm.

    And yes talking while The beautiful Lady Gaga is singing should be discouraged, if not illegal. I’m hesitant to encourage the illegality of anything lately. ;)

  11. YOU GUYS. My kitten just started to purr when Lady Gaga started to sing.
    Kitten + Gaga = happiness.

  12. About J: ya know, some people will say and do anything to sell soap on a rope, like marry a woman but sleep with a gay guy or marry a gay guy and sleep with women.

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