Rachel’s Team Pick: Sassy Gay Videos

I am the last person I expected to post one more It Gets Better video. I support the project, but I had thought it already peaked until I saw Rebecca Drysdale’s music video. Laneia described this as “super cute;” I think I like it because of the part where she talks about swimming in a pool of pussy a la Scrooge McDuck.

Also, this is older, but click on it. Really. Watching a six-year-old scream “fuck” was way more cathartic than I was ready for it to be.

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Originally from Boston, MA, Rachel now lives in the Midwest. Topics dear to her heart include bisexuality, The X-Files and tacos. Her favorite Ciara video is probably "Ride," but if you're only going to watch one, she recommends "Like A Boy." You can follow her on twitter and instagram.

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  1. Rebecca Drysdale just made my DAY get better.

    Also, too, my girlfriend totally rides a unicycle. Just sayin’.

  2. I personally really hate the fckh8 videos. Is it just me or does making a child scream fuck seem like a really bad way to show people that gays aren’t toxic to children and families?

    • People who think that aren’t going to be convinced otherwise and the rest of us get to enjoy a small child swearing. Victory all round.

    • maybe its because youre a homo that doesnt want to be hated on, and its so true, and laughing is the only other thing you could do besides crying? probably not though. probably doubtful. i got nothin.

      • Jader, not at all related, but it is something…..
        See Buckle Up and Hold On thread–email me if you want a Pancakes vs. BBQ venn diagram t-shirt.

        It’s BBQ babe, of course I thought of you.

        and btw, can we have BBQ practice at your house this weekend? It’s gonna snow like fuck here….

        • aww, you thought of me! thats so sweet! lets see…pancakes, BBQ, venn diagram, t shirt…. it doesnt get much better than that. hell yes. also, yeah, BBQ practice at my place. its gonna be cold, but i dont think its gonna snow. you bring the beer? i’ll supply everything else. :)

  3. I really thought this post was announcing new Sassy Gay Friend videos but I gotta say, these are so much better!

  4. that was awesome – thanks for sharing. But did anyone else notice that boy george was in there twice? haha. Twice as gay as everyone else? ;)

    also what she said at the end about riding a unicycle: people ride unicycles around my campus… in Ithaca… we have hills that I swear are like 90 degree angles. I don’t get it. I’m too distracted being impressed by their amazing physical feats to ever really think, wow, that’s kind of weird.

    • Oh yeah, I want to find that 10-year-old riding the unicycle to school and give her/him sparkle-y cookies.

    • Where the hell have you been?
      smartypants has been looking all over for your ass…..did you survive Christmas?
      Did things improve with New Years Eve?

      so here’s the deal—do you wanna be on the Varsity BBQ Team?
      You weren’t involved in the original BBQ thread that generated this ridic thing that now has a freaking life of it’s own but hey–you can go out for the team if you want….(I need your t-shirt size too)
      [email protected]

      something clever is the captain
      teracottatoes is the mgr
      wasteunit is the venn master
      Dani does cookies and sparkle shit (she works with kids, she’s good at that stuff)
      I’m in charge of being a bad influence

      -some other girls too, I’ll fill you in…

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