The Basics




Philadelphia, San Francisco, ocean

About Me

About Me

In no particular order:
sailor, foodie, gemini, physician, science nerd, book geek, real estate developer, architecture groupie, designophile, determined speaker of rusty French, would-be world traveler, longboard surfer, Mom, great friend, recently described as “the perfect dinner party guest”….

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Lesbian, Gay, Queer, Genderqueer, Butch



Relationship Status

In a Relationship


a former gf will say I am "kind to the core"–have also been known to be brave, funny and can take a punch


shopping at Whole Foods–design, architecture,business, sailing magazines–drinking with Parker–swearing and cussing, srsly, like a motherfucker on occasion

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What I Like

Favorite Books

West with the Night, [email protected], …anything with “For Dummies” in the title….

Favorite TV Shows

Six Feet Under, Californication, Nurse Jackie, West Wing, The Good Wife, Grey’s Anatomy (I just can’t help myself…)
And no, I do not watch House.

Favorite Sandwich

Chili dog with raw onion and tons of cheddar cheese—split the dog and grill it, toast the bun. Yeah, I know it's not exactly a sandwich but let's just go with it….

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Umm, I'm usually the one who gets straddled… ;-)

Favorite Thing on

The Holiday Open Threads—–and of course, The Varsity BBQ Team !!

Favorite Writers

Beryl Markham, Chris Castro