The Basics




Philadelphia, San Francisco, ocean

About Me

About Me

In no particular order:
sailor, foodie, gemini, physician, science nerd, book geek, real estate developer, architecture groupie, designophile, determined speaker of rusty French, would-be world traveler, longboard surfer, Mom, great friend, recently described as “the perfect dinner party guest”….

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Lesbian, Gay, Queer, Genderqueer, Butch



Relationship Status

In a Relationship


a former gf will say I am "kind to the core"–have also been known to be brave, funny and can take a punch


shopping at Whole Foods–design, architecture,business, sailing magazines–drinking with Parker–swearing and cussing, srsly, like a motherfucker on occasion

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What I Like

Favorite Books

West with the Night,, …anything with “For Dummies” in the title….

Favorite TV Shows

Six Feet Under, Californication, Nurse Jackie, West Wing, The Good Wife, Grey’s Anatomy (I just can’t help myself…)
And no, I do not watch House.

Favorite Sandwich

Chili dog with raw onion and tons of cheddar cheese—split the dog and grill it, toast the bun. Yeah, I know it's not exactly a sandwich but let's just go with it….

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Umm, I'm usually the one who gets straddled… ;-)

Favorite Thing on

The Holiday Open Threads—–and of course, The Varsity BBQ Team !!

Favorite Writers

Beryl Markham, Chris Castro