by Style Editor Becky
Have you all seen this NSFW Mr. Flash music video “Flesh” (Directed by Cédric Blaisbois)?
Do you have feelings? Do you want to talk about it? Are you thinking more ‘fuck yes!’ or ‘what the fuck?’ Do you and your girlfriend have different opinions as to whether or not shoving cupcakes in your mouth is sexy? What do you think the devouring of the raw meat means? Kind of badass?
For awhile there you just thought it was going to be porn, didn’t you?
I know what you want today. You want to see some photos from lesbian porn series Ultimate Surrender, right? Very NSFW. Seriously. Are you at work? Cut this shit out.
EVEN MORE ABOUT HAIR DOWN THERE:
“Last week I got an email from a girl wanting advice about what to do with “unruly vagina hair.” Answer? I have no fucking idea. Honestly. I don’t know. What I do know is that every single one of my friends does something different and that they are all way too willing to share what they do with it.”
“More importantly — and unfortunately — is the fact that this video is part of a program to promote sexual abstinence among kids. Don’t get us wrong: We’re all for promoting abstinence among kids — especially middle schoolers! — as long as it’s not taught in isolation. But study after study after study has shown that abstinence-only education plain does not work.”
“While more then 65 million people have enjoyed sex on the internet regularly and an even 150 million people have tried it once, 98% of them are ashamed to admit it.”
MASTURBATION – 5 Things You Didn’t Know About Masturbation
“Although men may joke and tease each other about their solo sexual activity, women are typically less forthcoming about their own self-pleasuring . . . women’s masturbation is not generally a common topic of conversation among girlfriends. Maybe it should be, say sex therapists.“
POLICING FEMALE SEXUALITY – Cutting Off Your Vagina to Spite Your Face(book):
“In the past week, Facebook deleted a number of pages from their website, ostensibly due to their concerns about the sexual nature of the material. Interestingly, the organization appears to have primarily targeted the pages of several women and female sexuality organizations with Facebook pages.”
[sidenote: why do they have a man writing a weekly column on “the history and current practice of female infidelity”?]
SEXY TUMBLR ALERT:
We always stick to lesbian-only tumblrs for this feature because some of you are apparently deathly afraid of the cock. But vice versas is mostly girl or girl-on-girl AND it combines sexy photography with song lyrics! There might be like 2 or 3 penises, but i think you can handle it. Like you will like Morrissey’s All the Lazy Dykes and Metric & Ingrid Michaelson & Space Oddity. Also, it’s topless Freja Beha Erichson + Lemonheads = topsy-turvy. Just a tip.
SYNTHETIC PUBES AESTHETIC:
“Nudity itself gives me hope. Not porno nudity, not assembly line nudity. Average nudity, playful nudity, or at least honest nudity. I seek out nakedness that makes me think we might eventually shed the last of the puritan bullshit (guilt, shame) that taints our culture.”
SUGARBUTCH ON THE ONGOING QUEST FOR SEXUAL FUFILLMENT:
“… but that is not necessarily a recipe for perfect sexual compatibility, or ongoing sexual fulfillment. Note the key word there: ongoing. A sex life is just that—a LIFE—which means it happens every day. And like any other aspect of life, it is interwoven tightly with all sorts of other aspects, and can be different, feel different, or present unique new obstacles at any time.”