Viola Davis ships Tegan and Annalise too, Olaf weighs in on Elsa’s sexuality, Lena Waithe is still hustling harder than anyone in Hollywood, a sneak peek at Stef and Lena on the Good Trouble Christmas episode, and more!

God grant me the aloof assuredness of a woman who’s lived a life.

Alex tries to plan the perfect proposal for Kelly while heteronormativity and toxic masculinity threatens to ruin their special day.

Join me, my purple lipstick, my long tangled hair (and, let’s be real, my fucking Bullet Journal) as we take charge and live our best lives.

Fanny packs by Tumblr fandom because that’s how my brain works apparently!

Here’s the thing: mice are going to be around, especially if you live in a city.

Read the heartwarming essays from some of 2017’s A-Campership recipients and learn more about donating or applying yourself! We’ve even got a tax-deductible donation option this year that you’ll wanna know all about.

So go on, scroll on, 
There’s merch for every gender.
And thank you, oh thank you,
for being an A+ Member.

Welcome to AM/PM, where Autostraddle team members share our morning and evening rituals. Let’s see how Carolyn starts her day!

Who knew having a dick could be so gender euphoric?

There’s just some songs that make you want to shout and dance and that make you feel proud to be queer.

You are just picking up Naomi. Your very good friend, Naomi, whom you have only not-so-jokingly offered to take up on her not-so-joking offer to fuck for a decade. She literally just got emotionally gut punched by some fuckboy. Don’t be another fuckboy. Not today. Unless she initiates. Fuck, she always initiates. Fuck, I missed my exit.

Since coming out as trans, the idea of sex with cis guys has gotten more complicated: can I fuck a straight man if I’m transmasculine?

A car dealership owner provides some extra services to a particularly handsome customer. “The butch was inside the building before Miranda reached the bottom of the stairs. She had planned it that way — she wanted to make an entrance.”

Here are 16 mutual aid funds that we’re supporting this holiday season. Tell us about the ones that are closest to your heart, too!

Finally we return to the stuff everybody REALLY misses from the original series, like vague dialogue, bats out of hell and funding the CAC

Black & Pink is hosting their annual Holiday Card Campaign to support our LGBT fam inside, it will surprise no one that the pandemic has raised our blood pressure, plus the queerness of the 90s and Green Day.

Moral of the story: don’t be a dick to pregnant people. Obviously. You shouldn’t need a morality tale to tell you this.

If someone has to serve you while you flirt relentlessly or converse stiffly, then they should be paid extra for that labor.

Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year: Volume 5 was, in Shelli terms, hella dope and very fucking hot. Our world is so wide, our relationships and partnerships look a multitude of ways, and the ways we fuck? Well, this collection gives you a peek into that.