Results for: \"fit for a femme\"
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Into the A+ Advice Box #88: THE HOTBOX
In which we answer the age-old queer question. How long do you wait after a breakup before hooking up with other people?
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Into the A+ Advice Box #80: GENDER FEELINGS
We have 26 whole questions on all things gender! From parenting to transition to clothing to inclusion and exclusion in queer spaces, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #89: Your Date’s Always Late, Should You Break Up?
Getting out there after separating from your cishet husband, mixing masculine and feminine style, asking people at the bar to kiss you on your birthday, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #75: Is It Over?
Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #52: NEW YEAR, NEW LOOK
How to get a queer haircut, should you use a toolbelt during sex, and how can you queer business formal wear? The AS team answers these questions about your look, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #39: FASHION
Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #63: What If Other People Think You’re “A Lot”?
How do you stop comparing yourself to your girlfriend’s nesting partner, have big life conversations with your partner, deal with feeling your friends don’t love you as much as you love them, and more?
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How to Find Local Kink Community and Also How to Hire a Sex Worker
“There’re contingencies of queer freaks everywhere, sometimes it just takes a little more effort.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #73: Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Your Soft Butch Haircut
Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!
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I Think My Hot Girlfriend Is Gonna Leave Me For Someone Hotter
Advice for coping when your Instagram-beloved girlfriend seems too hot for you, rekindling romance after long Covid, and how to flirt — gayly.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #57: Can You Ask Someone Out While They’re Working?
Is it bad that your type is queer mascs / butches, are you burnt out, and how do you move on after your partner cheats on you with your best friend? The team answers all these questions, and more in our members-only advice column!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #90: Queer Sex and Desire with Sex Educator Luna Matatas
“So many people struggle with getting out of their head and into their body during sex.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #65: So You Think You Might Be Gender Fluid
Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #79: Dating Women Who’ve Previously Only Been With Men
Advice for coping with your partner’s internalized fat-phobia, wedding vows, navigating social situations and friendships as an autistic person, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion
What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #34: I’m in Love But My Sex Drive Has COMPLETELY Disappeared!
The AS team tackles advice for entering your 30’s (and we’d love to see yours in the comments), as well as advice for a member who’s found their sex drive has disappeared shortly after moving in with a partner, advice on coming out and labels, untangling trauma while exploring sex with your partner, finding boots that don’t make your feet hurt, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker?
Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #71: So You Keep Falling For Your Friends
Feeling bad because of TikTok, boundary setting during sex, what your porn preferences mean, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #47: How Do You Taper a Crush?
The team digs into questions about a partner’s conservative family, dealing with a crush on a new friend, figuring out what to wear for your wedding (!!!), and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #84: Cheating With a Guy While Having Gender Feelings
If a date doesn’t suggest a meetup, does that mean they’re not interested? Should you break up over differences in how you relate to sex and desire? What’re tips for coping with treatment resistant ADHD? And more!