In Defense of the Queer ‘Emotional Support Ex’
Engaging with the world as a queer person means many of the roadmaps we learn at a young age in a heteronormative society are useless.
‘I’ve Been Out of the Sex/Dating Scene and I Feel Fine About It? I Think?’
It’s like I’m sexually active in theory but not in practice.
I’m 34 and Want Kids. Is It Ethical To Eliminate Older Women From My Dating Pool?
What’s the best way to approach dating when you’re looking to co-parent? And is “looking for younger women” one of those ways?
How To Explore Pregnancy Fetish and Kink During Pregnancy
Whether exploring pregnancy fetish or embarking on kinky exploration with a pregnant pleasure vessel, your options for satiating your desires are as limitless as your imagination.
‘I Went on a Not-Quite-Date With a Woman in a Relationship and Now I’m Down Bad’
“Do I tell this person how I feel because I don’t find genuine emotional connections/attraction like this very often?”
Must I Invite My Homophobic Stepdad To My Homosexual Wedding?
He was awful when you came out, but now he wants to COME OUT to your wedding. Also; how to friend an ex without sending mixed signals.
The Formerly Poly Fortysomethings Who U-Hauled Into The Best, Wettest Sex Of Their Lives
“I just remember how covered in sawdust we were. And I lost a sock at the bathhouse. It was kind of chaotic.”
‘How Do I Get My Ex To Stop Going To My Favorite Bar?’
“Do I have to give up this place I love so much? That seems so unfair!”
Can’t a Lesbian Enjoy a Little Straight Porn Around Here?
Your best friend is shaming you for the kind of porn that gets you off. Also; tips on having more threesomes.
The Married New Englanders Debating an Erotic Tattoo Gun Situation
“We used a lot of different toys in the beginning, and I think that was because I personally had a lot of toys that I wanted to share with you to be like, ‘Is this cool?’
The Slut4Slut Couple F*cking Through a “Wanna Try” List
“I think at the top of the list is rope. But that one’s harder ‘cause you can’t just try it, you need to know what you’re doing.”
My Ex Is Stuck in Friend Request Purgatory
She was a season. A fever dream. A glitter bomb of an experience. And I’m grateful. I am. But also: I’m not accepting that friend request.
‘My Date Was Turned Off by the Idea of Being My First Girlfriend’
“She said she doesn’t want to be anybody’s first-ever girlfriend because she’s looking for something serious/longterm and doesn’t want to waste her time because ‘nobody ever settles down with their first girlfriend’?? But I am ALSO looking to settle down!”
How We Cultivate Intimacy in Our Aroace Friend Group
What would be the shape of our lives if we prioritised each other?
Should I Cut My Maternity Leave Short To Help My Coworkers?
Your wife thinks your maternity leave plan is “crazy.” Also, how to navigate potential imbalances in a slightly open relationship.
Ethical Queer Porn Is About More Than Titillation
Specialists in the ethical porn space discuss how they navigate bringing something new, inclusive, and beautifully queer to a contentious industry.
The Top-Leaning Switches Who Created a Sexual “Spirit Week” To Try New Kinks
“It’s not a role that comes naturally to me, so there’s a lot of trust and vulnerability built into it, but also I need to really believe it. Right? If you’re going to top me, top me. I don’t wanna have to convince myself.”
‘I’m a Trans Guy Looking for a Co-Parent. Are Queer Arranged Marriages a Thing?’
“I feel like in some ways, I could be down for a marriage in the sense of contract-to-build-a-family-unit rather than the marriage-driven-by-romantic-love sense.”
A Queer Guide to BDSM Restraints for All Experience Levels
I’m gonna take you through the world of kinky restraints from entry-level essentials to things that should only be done in the presence of experts. My hope is to give you a tour of this wonderful world with an emphasis on safety.
‘I’m Bisexual but Sex With My Boyfriend Makes Me Wonder if I’m Actually a Lesbian’
“I love my partner but I’m having trouble with our sex life.”