Results for: Feel good
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You Need Help: How Do I Get More Comfortable With Dirty Talk?
We learn so much about how people act during sex from TV and movies, and those people always seem to know exactly when to moan or how to say the right thing during sex. Of course they do — it’s been written for them!
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You Need Help: How Do I Ask My Girlfriend To Freshen Up Before Sex Without Killing Our Sex Life?
Your girlfriend is putting a lot of trust in you, and that trust should be honored and celebrated.
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You Need Help: How Can I Deal With My Own Sexual Shame?
I want you to know that your shame is not uncommon and you’re not alone in feeling it. While it does take a long time to undo, you’re on the right track by acknowledging it verbally.
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The Cozy Under-The-Covers Sex You’re Having This Fall, According to Your Zodiac Sign
Wondering what kind of queer sex your sign’s going to be having this fall? I’m going to tell you, don’t worry.
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You Need Help: Will I Be A Virgin Forever?
There are a lot of harmful messages in our society about lack of experience, specifically about virginity. But you have so many things to offer, things which are far more vital to a good experience than whether you’ve had partnered sex before.
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Strapping As A Fat Femme Was My Black Queer Sexual Liberation
A fat Black femme explores the relationship with her body and shares how strapping became part of her sexual liberation.
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The Gay B C’s of Sex: S Is for Stone
Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.
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The Gay B C’s of Sex: G Is for Gold Star Lesbian
Put on your lesbian hard hats — we’re about to enter dangerous territory.
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What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?
What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.
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10 Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May
Give yourself a hand — it’s International Masturbation Month!
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How To Make Sexual Consent Sexy
Many people (myself included) love clear and direct communication. But not all of us lean into that style of sex. Thankfully, we can fold check-ins into sex without separating people from what they find fun.
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I’ve Changed, But My Kinks Haven’t
It’s okay to live a life where your interests overlap with the result of trauma.
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Anonymous Sex Diary: A Couple Rekindles Their Sex Life with “Intimacy Boot Camp”
We’re both trying to avoid the lesbian bed death trope, hoping to be remembered in history as lovers, not “really good friends.”
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What’s a Nudes Protocol and Why You Should Have One
A nudes protocol (or whatever you wanna call it) is a personalized framework of rules about how your digital sexual data should be handled.
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Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex
We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have sex!
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My Girlfriend and I Got High and Came Up With Role Plays for You To Try With Your Girlfriend
The scattered concepts we devised were a combination of erotic and nonsensical and now I have tasked myself with turning these notes into full scenes for your enjoyment.
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How to Masturbate Like a Champ
May is Masturbation Month! Here’s your guide to doing you as only you can.
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Things I Do To Feel Submissive Even Though My Partner Isn’t Super Dominant
There’s room for ‘incompatibilities’ if we find mutually supportive ways to manage them.
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How Do I Approach Sex With My Partner of Six Years While We’re Both Navigating Trauma?
The lack of sex that resulted from our wildly differing needs has had a lasting impact.
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How To Kill Lesbian Bed Death
Read stories from other folks experiencing periods of no sex in relationships to start killing lesbian bed death at the root.