5 Simple Ways to Support Autostraddle This Holiday Season (and Year-Round!)

Hello! What a wonderful pre-holiday season we’ve all had together as a family! Now that we are approaching what will be perhaps one of the most emotionally complicated holiday seasons of our lifetimes, you’re probably thinking to yourself, “enough about THE WORLD. What can I do for THIS ONE TINY BRIGHT SLICE OF LIGHT IN THE WORLD?” Well, I have good news for you! There are, in fact, SEVEN things you could be doing right now to support Autostraddle.

1. Free: Shop Online Using Our Affiliate Links

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If you’re planning to holiday shop online at any of the merchants we have affiliate relationships with, then simply doing so through an Autostraddle link will get us a kickback without costing you any additional money! It’s magical, and it’s also why we publish so many holiday gift guides. (Well, also they’re really fun to write!) Why give money to corporations when you can give money to corporations who give money to us?

Amazon is the big one here. They sell everything and we make more through Amazon affiliate links than regular advertising. But you can also see a complete list of all the merchants we have accounts with here. The merchants that give us the highest payout are Babeland (20%) and Wildfang (15%). It is probably not a coincidence that both of those companies are owned by lesbians!  In general, if you’re buying sex-related anything through an AS affiliate link, we’re getting a solid chunk — Good VibrationsThe Pleasure Chest and Crash Pad Series all have 20%-30% payouts as well. Other companies with higher-than-average kickbacks include Oregon-based comics/toys/collectible emporium Things From Another World, 80s Tees and custom-perfume shop Scent Trunk.

2. Between $2.50 – $25/month: Join A+


Listen: Just do it! Over 2,000 of the coolest kids in school have already done it, and without them, we would’ve shut down in 2014. Because of A+, YOU are our bosses, not advertisers. We don’t run pop-up ads or mid-roll ads or really very many ads at all. It’s a fact: independent queer media cannot survive on ad dollars alone.

3. Free: Share Our Posts on Social Media


Sharing our content on social media is one of the absolute best (and easiest!) things you can do to help Autostraddle, and the world. Social media, especially Facebook, is the main driver of website traffic these days, and it’s kind of complicated how things appear in front of your face on your feed. Unlike Twitter, which presents other people’s tweets to you chronologically, Facebook employs a constantly evolving algorithm that pushes stuff up and down your feed based on your likes, shares, and comments (and the likes, shares, and comments of the people you engage with the most). Just because you like Autostraddle on Facebook doesn’t mean you’ll ever see Autostraddle posts on Facebook. Facebook’s algorithm decides things for you.

So when you share an Autostraddle post, not only are you combatting the scourge of fake news that has taken over the world, and helping us compete with huge mainstream sites that can pay to boost their Facebook posts to the top of people’s feed, and helping to bring our brand to he attention of queer/feminist folks who might not know about us, and increasing our potential traffic, you’re also directly affecting Facebook’s algorithm. The more people who like and share our content, the higher Facebook prioritizes our website. If ten people share a post, Facebook’s algorithm is like, “Oh hey, this must be good. I will prioritize showing this to other people who have liked Autostraddle’s Facebook page.”

You can either share our content directly from our Facebook page, or you can post a direct link onto your feed. Either way, it pings the algorithm!

facebook-see-first(If you want to see ALL of Autostraddle’s Facebook posts, just go to our page and hover over the “like” button and you’ll get a little pop-up box that allows you to check “see first.” That’ll push all new Autostraddle posts to the top of your feed every time you log onto Facebook or open the app. You’ll only see them once. They won’t stay there all day or anything.)

Also, obviously, every time you tweet or retweet something it helps us. People are much more likely to click on links or (or click to follow other people) on Twitter than they are on Facebook, especially if they’re on mobile. Apparently it feels like less of a commitment? And Facebook’s browser is also terrible; that’s a factor as well. Tweets that go even semi-viral outlive Facebook posts. They can go on for weeks or even months at a time.

We create the content and present it to you on as many platforms as possible, but you’re the ones who can make sure our content makes its way out into the wide world!

4. Flexible: One-Time Donation


This is easy. Pick an amount of money — any amount of money! — and just give it to us.

5. $3-$48: Buy Autostraddle Merch


We’ve got SO much more cool merch coming your way this holiday season, but there’s also a lot of stuff already in there! So much cool shit you probably wanna buy right now. Not only is Autostraddle Merch everybody’s favorite holiday gift, it’s also the #1 way to signal to another human being that you too are gay.

Before you go! Autostraddle runs on the reader support of our AF+ Members. If this article meant something to you today — if it informed you or made you smile or feel seen, will you consider joining AF and supporting the people who make this queer media site possible?

Join AF+!


Riese is the 41-year-old Co-Founder of Autostraddle.com as well as an award-winning writer, video-maker, LGBTQ+ Marketing consultant and aspiring cyber-performance artist who grew up in Michigan, lost her mind in New York and now lives in Los Angeles. Her work has appeared in nine books, magazines including Marie Claire and Curve, and all over the web including Nylon, Queerty, Nerve, Bitch, Emily Books and Jezebel. She had a very popular personal blog once upon a time, and then she recapped The L Word, and then she had the idea to make this place, and now here we all are! In 2016, she was nominated for a GLAAD Award for Outstanding Digital Journalism. She's Jewish and has a cute dog named Carol. Follow her on twitter and instagram.

Riese has written 3203 articles for us.


  1. Is there an affiliate link for amazon.co.uk?
    I’m not from the UK but mainland Europe, so that might be why I’m not getting it automatically?

  2. I’m planning on doing most of my shopping this holiday through your affiliate links. I always worry though that by the time I get to checkout the affiliation may have disappeared? Is there a way to check/ensure that it is registered as an affiliated purchase?

  3. I can confirm that Autostraddle merch can signal your queerness, have not so subtly angled my computer with scissoring stickers on it towards girls to this effect.

  4. I would really like to get an A+ membership. Actually I will after I pay rent this month. I would actually like to pay for someone else to have a membership too. This sucks. Why can’t you have a virtual membership gift card or something? I would totally buy it for members that want the benefits.

      • Aren’t you usually the one that everyone looks for Carmen? But Freakazoid hasn’t been on here for a while I think. Maybe someone should make sure everything is okay.

        I just wanted to give the same to at least 3 memembers that wanted it. Maybe by purchasing an annual membership for the with a visa gift card or something idk.

  5. Can you start posting your latest articles on tumblr again, because I am always on tumblr. I also would second Avawn virtual gift card, as I’d be glad to donate to site and help out another straddler. Maybe we can have an ifundwoman campaign so we can chip in an buy Autostraddle mearch for straddlers who need it(say donate towards a sweatshirt or jacket to a straddler who is cold)?

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