15 Ladies Who Played Peter Pan: From Nina Boucicault to Allison Williams

Peter Pan holds a special spot in so many queer girls’ hearts. For example, I’m pretty sure that Mary Martin playing Peter Pan in the televised 1960 version of Peter Pan is my root? Also, I maybe possibly once published a (terrible) lesbian erotica story titled “Straight (On) ‘Til Morning” that indulged itself pretty intensely in Peter Pan imagery? Also, at least 25% of y’all have been Peter Pan for Halloween, don’t lie.

Peter Pan’s eternal youth and rascally, androgyne qualities are recalled in many modern conceptions of the term “boi,” as it is employed to describe a particular style and attitude of boyish masculinity as embodied by female-bodied queers. Peter Pan has a special place in queer theory and queer cultural critique, too, as in papers like Gay, Innocent and Heartless: Peter Pan and the Queering of Popular Culture and Queer Theory Wrestles the “Real” Child: Impossibility, Identity, and Language in Jacqueline Rose’s The Case of Peter Pan.

But perhaps most importantly, many of us are drawn to Peter Pan because she’s played by a woman who can pass as a little boy, like so many lesbians in real life!

Why has Peter Pan always been played by a woman? Well, back in 1904 when the show debuted, kids under the age of 14 were prohibited by law from performing on a British stage after 9pm. This wouldn’t necessarily be a huge problem for casting Peter — but if Peter was played by a teenage boy, then the rest of the cast would need to be “scaled down,” meaning that characters like The Lost Boys would need to be played by even younger boys, and Wendy by a girl rather than a woman, and inevitably we’d be dealing with kids under the age of 14. Casting a grown man in the part seemed a tad creepy, but also would’ve been a strain on the already-challenging affair of making Peter Pan fly using rope and stage wizardry. Thus playwright James M. Barrie requested that they cast a woman. This wasn’t an unusual practice in those times.

Things have changed over the years, of course, and now Peter Pan is often played by a male actor, as in the 2003 live-action version. The 1982 Royal Shakespeare Production was the first of many theatrical performances that went with a male lead, to very mixed reviews. (More recent productions have also attempted to dial back the blatant and gross racism of the original play.)

When NBC announced they’d be putting on a live-action performance of Peter Pan this December, rumors began swirling that a boy would be cast. Pretty much everybody was surprised when Allison Williams of Girls was announced as the new Peter Pan. NBC Chairman Robert Greenblatt enthused that Williams would “bring the perfect blend of ‘boyish’ vulnerability and bravado,” while producers Craig Zadan and Neil Meron promised that “she will reinvent the iconic role of Peter Pan with her wit, her warmth, her dynamic flying and her wonderful musical abilities.” Then the first photos of Williams as Peter Pan were released yesterday and the lesbian internet lost its shit, including so many of us here.

So, in honor of those photos and this situation, there seemed to be no day like today to  look back on the many women who have played this iconic role and to talk about which of them were total lesbians. Also, I’d like to give a shout out to Peter Pan on Stage and Screen, 1904-2010, by Bruce K. Hanson, which was a huge help in putting this list together.

1. Nina Boucicault, 1904-1905, London Play

When Peter Pan debuted in 1904, the title role was played by director Dion Boucicault’s sister, experienced stage actress Nina Boucicault. When Nina went to James M. Barrie, the play’s author, for advice on how to play Peter, he offered her only this: “Peter is a bird, and he is one day old.”

"Peter and Wendy" photographed by Hall (Maude Adams and Mildred Morris) via "Peter Pan on Stage and Screen, 1904-2010, 2d ed. Bruce K. Hanson  - July 14, 2011 McFarland - Publisher"

“Peter and Wendy” (Maude Adams and Mildred Morris) photographed via “Peter Pan on Stage and Screen, 1904-2010,”  by Bruce K. Hanson

2. Maude Adams, 1905-1907, 1912-1913, 1915-1916, Broadway Play

Maude Adams, one of the most successful actresses of her era, was Broadway producer’s Charles Frohman’s first choice for the role and thus originated it on Broadway a year after Nina’s debut in the West End. Adams designed her own costumes for the play and henceforth personally invented what is now known as the “Peter Pan collar.” She garnered rave reviews for her turn as Peter, which she prepared for by spending an isolated month in the Catskills running around in the woods.

It’s pretty much agreed upon that Maude Adams was a lesbian — she lived a very private life, never married, and was living with her “companion” of 46 years, Louise Boynton, at the time of her death (in fact, the two women were buried side-by-side with a shared gravestone). Mercedes de Acosta, the legendary “lover to the stars” who has been romantically linked to women including actress Greta Garbo and dancer Isadora Duncan, was twelve when she saw Adams playing Peter, and noted that “To me she was Peter Pan, and when I saw her in the part, I was thrown into a state of ecstasy.” Maude Adams, despite a twenty-year age gap, is one of a few ladies cited as an “early lover” of de Acosta, who pretty much hooked up with everybody.

photo by Ellis and Walery, published in "" courtesy Roy Busby

photo by Ellis and Walery, published in “Peter Pan on Stage and Screen, 1904-2010” courtesy Roy Busby

3. Cecilia Loftus, 1905-1906, London Play

Loftus had just seen the Maude Adams production on Broadway when she was called to audition for the upcoming season’s production in London. She is credited with bringing a “boyish” and “elfin” quality to the role which her understudy, Pauline Chase, would echo when she took over the ensuing year.

Pauline Chase as Peter Pan via The National Portrait Gallery

Pauline Chase as Peter Pan via The National Portrait Gallery

4. Pauline Chase, 1906-1913, London Play

Pauline Chase was a favorite of J.M. Barrie, which ensured she’d never “grow out” of the role as actresses had before her. Barrie has written, “There are only two possible ways of playing Peter. Either he must be the whimsical, fairy creature that Nina Boucicault made him or he must be the lovable tomboy of Pauline Chase. There is no other way.”

5. Marilyn Miller, 1924-1925, Broadway Play

“She was the darling of the Jazz Age,” writes Bruce K. Hansen of Marilyn Miller in Peter Pan On Stage and Screen. “She possessed youth, beauty, a sparkling personality, and an enormous talent for dancing.” Miller had been working in vaudeville from a young age and appeared in The Ziegfeld Follies. Her production of Peter Pan wasn’t a critical success, with many lamenting that she was too “beautiful and graceful” for the role.

Betty Bronson and Mary David, via nitrateville

Betty Bronson and Mary David, via nitrateville

6. Betty Bronson, 1924, Silent Film

The very first film adaptation of Peter Pan was a silent film released by Paramount in 1924. Bronson was only 17 when she went in for the role and her film experience was limited to a few spots as an extra, but Barrie personally selected her for the part.

“Indian Princess” Tiger Lily, a role which has offered producers the chance to make racially problematic casting decisions for over a century, was played by bisexual Chinese-American actress Anna May Wong in the silent film. Wong is widely considered to be Hollywood’s first Asian-American movie star.

7. Eva Le Gallienne, 1928, Broadway Play

Eva Le Gallienne was only 29 years old when she directed and starred in a 1928 revival of Peter Pan. The New York Times liked her production a lot, although they noted that her costume “wears the limit of bare legs.”

Le Gallienne was also a lesbian, a fact she was “relatively open” about within Broadway social circles. Le Gallienne was involved with Mercedes de Acosta for a significant period of time, including a blissful period in Paris when the two shacked up in one of the rooms reserved for visiting lesbian couples at Sylvia Beach’s Hotel Foyot. According to The Sewing Circle, Mercedes and Eva broke up following a failed play production they’d collaborated on and partially due to “Eva’s need for new conquests.” Tallulah Bankhead once told Tennessee Williams that she’d been seduced by Le Gallienne when she was sixteen. Le Gallienne has also been linked romantically to Greta Garbo, Gladys Calthrop and Beatrice Lillie.

Mary Margaret McBride interviews Peggy Webster and Eva Le Gallienne ("it’s a triumvirate of gay!") via deviates inc

Mary Margaret McBride interviews Peggy Webster and Eva Le Gallienne (“it’s a triumvirate of gay!” via deviates inc)


8. Jean Arthur, 1950-1951, Broadway Play

The last Broadway production of this particular adaptation of Peter Pan starred film actress Jean Arthur as Peter Pan and Boris Karloff as Captain Hook. It was directed by British filmmmaker Wendy Toye.

Arthur, like so many actresses of her era often described as “reclusive,” was probably bisexual or a lesbian. She lived with her “unmarried army nurse” companion Ellen Mastroianni for decades at the end of her life, and also was married to a man for seventeen years, dated Oscar Levant… and told an interviewer in 1975 that “sex was something she could live without.” She also apparently possessed an “almost pathological refusal to wear a dress even when a role demanded it.” There were also crazy lesbian rumors about Jean Arthur and Mary Martin, which we’ll talk about in the Mary Martin section!


9. Veronica Lake, 1951, National Tour

Lake’s casting was a surprise to many, and the actress cut out booze and took up fencing to prepare for the role. She loved the break from Hollywood and enjoyed being on stage. “Theatergoers were amazed to discover how gracefully Veronica moved across the stage as Peter Pan,” writers Jeff Lenburg in Peekaboo: The Story of Veronica Lake“Especially in light of rumors that had her temper interfering with the show.” She was devastated when the run ended and became very depressed.


photo via Death and Taxes

photo via Death and Taxes

10. Mary Martin, Broadway Musical and TV Broadcast (1954-1955), TV Movie (1960)

In 1954, Peter Pan debuted as a stage musical starring Mary Martin, who was already a well-established Broadway star. Martin had always wanted to play the part but figured she’d never get the chance until Edwin Lester, director of the San Francisco and Los Angeles Light Opera Company, invited Martin aboard as Peter Pan for what would be the excruciatingly long process of making the play into a hit Broadway musical. Variety raved that “Miss Martin is so completely right, so believable and infectious as the eternal boy that it seems incredible that Barrie didn’t write the original play for her.”

In 1955, NBC did a live broadcast of the show, making it the first-ever full-length Broadway production to air on color television. It was filmed straight through for a live audience on a set adapted for television cameras and was a huge hit for the network. In 1960, while Martin was on Broadway in The Sound of Music, she participated in the first-ever taping of the musical, which was eventually released on VHS so kids like me could watch it over and over and over again and wonder why we were so drawn to that woman.

VHS cover

VHS cover

As aforementioned, there were wild lesbian rumors about Jean Arthur and Mary Martin, who it turns out were actually good friends and neighbors for a while, apparently sharing “an obsessive love for Peter Pan.” They’d even fight over who got to dress up as Peter Pan at costume parties. (They must have been invited to a lot of costume parties?) Although Mary Martin married twice, she was involved with actress Janet Gaynor, according to Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons’ Gay L.A.in which it is noted that:

“When Janet Gaynor and Mary Martin, who were also lovers, took a vacation together (leaving their homosexual husbands at home), fan magazines considered it ‘charming for them to enjoy some time for ‘girl talk’ — as their desire to be alone was naively dubbed. Gender ambiguity and “romantic friendships” such as female stars could enjoy without suspicion were verboten for male stars.”

According to Stepping OutBob Fosse apparently called Mary Martin “Broadway’s biggest closet king,” declaring that “everyone thought that lovely little Mary was Miss Femme, and she was — except next to her gay husband.”

Watch The 1960 Mary Martin edition here:


11. Hayley Mills, 1969 London Play

Peter Pan continued running every holiday season in London, and in 1969, film star Hayley Mills took on the titular role. It was her stage debut, but Mills was already well-known for her roles in Pollyanna and The Parent Trap, among other Disney live-action favorites.


12. Mia Farrow, 1976 TV Movie

Mia Farrow embodies so many aspects of the androgynous woman we associate with the Peter Pan archetype. However, this 1976 Hallmark Production was a disappointment to fans of the story. “As Julie Andrews sang a beautiful song, “Once Upon a Bedtime,” over the opening credits, no one realized that they were witnessing the highlight of the evening,” writes Bruce K. Hanson in Peter Pan On Stage and Screen. He also notes that “the actors playing the Lost Boys were excellent, but they were also too old and, as costumed by Sue Lucash, they looked as if they belonged at a casting call for Hair. And their collective overt masculinity only added to Farrow’s femininity.” See it for yourself:



13. Sandy Duncan, 1979- 1981, Broadway Musical

Esteemed actress Sandy Duncan was the longest-running Peter Pan on Broadway. “From the moment she flies into the Darling nursery and throws a tantrum because she can’t get her wayward shadow back on, Duncan alerts us that her Peter will be all boy,” wrote Marilyn Stasio in The New York Post. “An adorable boy, to be sure, with her grin-cracked face and graceful bounds in mid-air; but a boy, for all that, with ants in his pants and a nose that runs and a downright willful disdain for authority. Without losing any of the fun of the role, she avoids even the most tempting moments to be cute, or to signal a flash of grown-up femininity. Her Peter is, at all times, a tough little guy who literally dances with the itchy joy of boyhood.”



14. Cathy Rigby, 1973 (Tour), 1986 (West Coast), chunks of time between 1990-1999 (Broadway), 2000 (TV), 2005 (Farewell Tour), 2011-2013 (International Tour)

Cathy Rigby was a world-famous American gymnast in the ’60s and ’70s who competed in the Olympics and the World Championships. After retiring, she was picked up for an NBC Arena Touring Production of Peter Pan that same year, going on to play the role on out west in 1986. In 1990, Rigby began what would become a periodic Broadway engagement as Peter Pan, usually running throughout the holiday season. She’s become iconically associated with the role, which she has played as recently as last year at the age of 60. She also appeared in the 2000 TV Movie on A&E.



15. Allison Williams, TV Movie (2014)

Which brings us to this very week, when those pictures of Allison Williams showed up and a bunch of lesbians had a party in their pants. Fingers crossed this TV Movie will be a shit-ton better than that Sound of Music nightmare!


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  1. I’m convinced that Mary Martin as Peter Pan is my ghey root. I had a VHS of the musical as a kid and watched it till it broke. I miss that movie—the DVD is ridiculously expensive. :(

  2. Um, this was the hottest post of the day. I’m totally into it. I’ll be the Wendy to any of these dapper gals any day.

  3. I grew up watching the Mary Martin perfomance too! She was a huge crush of mine growing up. Sidenote: any one who wants to be really annoyed just go look up the queer actresses on wikipedia and see how most all of their sapphic relationships have been excised. Unless they gave an interview and explicitly said “I am a lesbian/bisexual/etc…” (and in those days who would? Not many.) then the activist mods disregard everything else it seems.

  4. Man I totally remember watching that Mary Martin Peter Pan one a LOT. But… my favorite character was Captain Hook. Mary Martin just always SUPER ANNOYED me as Peter Pan! Something about her intense earnestness or something. I’m an awful person.


    brb I obvs need to distribute copies of the vhs tape of the 1960 Mary Martin version we recorded off tv complete with commercials for teddy ruxpin and the like

  6. For me, Mary Martin was Peter Pan. As everyone else has said, I watched that as a young child on VHS and now every time I think of the play I get an instant flashback to her coming in through the window and wanting to be Wendy. Pretty sure by now I know why.
    (Also, I was in a production of the show a few years ago and was very disappointed that Peter Pan wasn’t a lady. But I’ll be excited to see Allison Williams’ take on the character in the movie.)

  7. Oh my god I loved Mary Martin as a kid! I pretty much refused to see the cartoon version. The Canadian comedian Mae Martin kinda looks like her…perhaps they are secretly related…

    • I also loved Mary Martin and it’s the ones my kids grew up with since it was my favorite

  8. I saw a live production of Peter Pan when I was a child, and I had a HUGE crush on the person playing Peter – and then I discovered that that person was a woman! I’m actually pretty sure it was Cathy Rigby… she was blonde and super cute and was a lot older than she looked down on the stage. It was surprising and lovely, and I was literally just talking to my roommate about Peter Pan when I found this article so thank you and it’s perfect and gah.

    • Scratch that, I’m SURE it was Cathy Rigby! I just watched that video clip and it brought back all of the memories. Gosh darn it, women playing Peter Pan are the best

  9. Um, um Maude Williams I must share because without this article I never would have found this picture:

    or this one:

    • These are amazing! I got interested in her a few years ago when I saw an amazing painting by Alphonse Mucha that used her as the model and I read a lot about her acomplishments and was blown away. The wikipedia page for her btw, has ZERO about her companion of many years or anything else about her being gay despite many accounts from people she worked with and who knew her.

  10. Even though one of my favorite movies is still Hook, the root of my love for the story was certainly the Mary Martin production. I can’t have been more than 4 or 5 when I saw it.

    What a delightfully thorough post!

  11. Hi America…this is super cool BUT please see the British tradition of Pantomimes for many many other male leads played by women. What you folks in the US call pantomime is actually just MIME (some etymological weirdness occurred somewhere) and what I’m talking about here is the gayest song and dance comedy play for family entertainment, (performed between November and mid January), you have ever seen with men dressed as women and women playing the principal boy. So Prince Charming, Peter Pan, Dick Whittington, basically think of the main guy in a fairy tale and have him played by a chick. Fairly sure this is many people’s root. Also Jeannette Winterson mentions it in Oranges are not the only fruit and there is much rich history of amazing male impersonators of the Victorian era playing the male leads. The use of double entendre and terrible jokes is rife and I repeat FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT. As long as you avoid the horrifically racist versions of Aladdin it’s generally a weird but good audience participatory gender bending theatre experience. Avoid celebrity versions with male leads played by men because they suck and are not authentic.

    • I love the panto and Peter Pan traditions, but I feel it’s a bit naive to ignore that one of the major reasons for the gender-bending is to titillate male audience members. It’s kind of subversive, but originally not really meant that way.. Not to mention that the pantomime dame tradition implies that it’s quite understandable for a girl to want to act like a boy, but a man acting like a woman is ridiculous. I still like both, but I feel this shouldn’t be forgotten.

  12. So, once upon a time I helped produce an amateur version of the play with one of my best friends (who is a woman) in the title role. And our other friend, a dude, who was directing it, when casting, happened to gender-flip-flop every single role in the play except Wendy. The Lost Boys and Pirates were played by girls; Mrs. Darling by a gay man with sideburns; Hook was a fabulously curvy redhead. This genuinely had no particular reason and the genderplay wasn’t really part of our directorial vision in how we performed it… my director friend, when it was pointed out to him, said he just picked the best people to play each part.

    Also, while my bestie playing Peter had long hair that she had to pin up under her hat, ironically enough the girl playing Wendy had short hair. And of course during the entire production I definitely had a crush on her. I had to ask her to fix the back of my Pirate costume more than once, and maybe a little of that was on purpose.

    Moral of this whole fantastical story: sometimes life is even queerer than you ever imagined it could be.

  13. Hmmm. Excellent use of lesbian wrist bands on Alison Williams. It’s fascinating that there such a gay/bi history of women playing the role.

  14. Betty Bronson and Mary David are so hot <3 <3 <3

    This VHS is my root, too! Thank you for the link!

    I can never decide if I'm a sexy, spiteful Tinkerbell shut up in the drawer or a parentified, story-telling and credulous Wendy…Wow these are my female archetypes…this is deep.

  15. Another obsessive watcher of the Mary Martin movie… I went through a phase during which I left my window and screen open every night, just in case, hoping so hard…

  16. My Great-Uncle was Cyril Ritchard, who played Captain Hook in the Mary Martin version. I used to watch the VCR version of the musical at my grandparent’s house and child-me definitely had a thing for ‘Peter’. My grandfather would of course be horrified if he knew.

    • Ooh, jealous! I love Cyril. Now, yes, he was married to his theatrical partner… a woman (and he was raised very Catholic) but no less than Noël Coward described him as being, “queer as a coot’ though unable fully to accept it.” He was certainly the gayest pirate of all time, bless his hook. What a great person to have in your family tree.

  17. The 1924 silent version played in Seattle earlier this year (Silent Movie Mondays at the Paramount, live scores, fabulous) & I enjoyed the hell out of how tremendously queer it was.

  18. My mother took me to see the Broadway show in 1928 when I was 2 years old and I still can remember one or two scenes and Peter flying out over the audience and almost reaching the balcony where I sat. I never saw the flying cables. It was because if that i joined the US Army Air Force in 1944 in the hopes of becoming a fighter pilot but they made me a radar specialist instead and I had to get my pilot’s license in a Piper Cub after my discharge when the war was over.

  19. You’re wrong as to why Peter was traditionally played by a woman. It was decided early on that the play would be staged as a traditional pantomime, where the principal male character is played by a female. Over time, it became just tradition to cast a female as Peter.

    Also, the play was written expressly for Maude Adams, who was in the first US production.

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