I wasn’t going to turn down the chance to explore a massive swinger lodge that’s been in operation since the 1970’s.

She grabbed my hand and smashed a tomato with her homemade caesar dressing into my palm.

Take a look, it’s in a book, of reading rainbow (because “rainbows” are a gay symbol and maybe you’re gay too, and have lesbian sex, etc)

Is this ever an okay way for a poly relationship to begin?

In this week’s NSFW Sunday: pubic hair, how sex toys are created, a new NSFW queer comic and more.

Peacock’s polyamorous dating show Couple to Throuple got two things right: Ash and Maximo.

You don’t want to lose them or change them, but you sure do wish you could make them be monogamous! Also: advice on breaking the rejection cycle.

“I have a crush on a lesbian couple I know, and I want to test the waters to see if they might be interested in dating, but I don’t want to make it weird if they’re monogamous.”

Couple to Throuple wants the couples to find their forever third. But the couples are still trying to decide what they want for themselves.

Pride came early! We’ve got a trailer for The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2! Time to watch lesbians having serious conversations on beds!

In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!

One couple wants to be open while their partner wants to be throuple-monogamous. One third wants the freedom to date others, while their couple would feel betrayed. And one couple’s third wants to be with multiple couples.

Boundaries are our manifestations of how we deserve to be treated and what we will accept from others.

My heart is racing. I am opening Feeld as I type this. SZA was right.

Alison Bechdel talks fame, privilege, and returning to old characters for her new work of autofiction.

Here’s who all’s gay here at the Golden Globes (including Gillian Anderson’s vulva dress, you don’t want to miss it). Also: listen to Reneé Rapp’s “World Burn,” and updates on the new seasons of “Arcane” and “Stranger Things.”

Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!

For every award-winning trans movie made largely by people who don’t know anything about us, there’s a good movie made with an understanding of us or — GASP! — actually made by us.

Sometimes in long-term relationships, our needs shift and/or our capacity to fulfill someone’s needs shift.

Both Malika and Alice’s storylines this week left me feeling like “Good Trouble” had done a disservice to its characters and the story they’ve told for the past five seasons.