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No Filter: Chappell Roan Makes Football Gay and Glam

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Book Features

Anna Dorn Writes Maximalist, Campy Queer Fiction Inspired by Lesbian Pulp

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Music

Megan Thee Stallion Rapping About the Strap?!? On My Knees, I Prayed for Days Like This

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Carmen Phillips May 21, 2024 1 Comment
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Very Special Gay Episode: When Two ‘Girls’ Kiss and Never Speak of It Again

Marnie kissed Jessa to prove a point; she keeps kissing Jessa because she wants to.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 21, 2024 1 Comment
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AF+

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Sex

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Stef Rubino May 21, 2024 1 Comment
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Pop Culture Fix

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LGBT Book Reviews

In ‘We Were the Universe’, Grief and Motherhood Are Horny

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

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Puzzles

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Specifically grilled peaches omg

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Sports

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