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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Stop Killing Black People

Ahmaud Arbery Should Be Alive Right Now. Also: support queer and lesbian bars and businesses, how our LGBTQ elders are faring in the pandemic, and honoring Ida B. Wells with a posthumous Pulitzer Prize.

Carmen Phillips May 7, 2020 3 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Season Finale 4 Recap: The Darkness Within

A disorienting and disturbing finale shows Riverdale at its finest a.k.a. most chaotic.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 7, 2020 2 Comments
Geekery

Animal Crossing FOMO? Here’s How to Start Playing Video Games!

If, like me, you’re planning to keep social distancing for the foreseeable future, maybe you should pick up video gaming for socialization and for fun!

Heather Hogan May 7, 2020 42 Comments
Food and Drink

Happy Hour at Home: Welcome To The Gay Club

I miss the rare fucking times of being in a room full of entirely queer people. Dancing and shouting together. Even the messy nights, the crying nights. So here’s how to turn your home into a hot gay club — with no bathroom lines! Playlist included!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 7, 2020 9 Comments
TV Reviews

HBO’s “Betty” Is Here and Its Skater Girls Are Queer

Sexual and gender fluidity feel possible for every character. It’s a girl power narrative that feels loose in its definition of girl — and certainly loose in its assumption of who those girls will date.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 7, 2020 3 Comments
Movie Reviews

Fatimah Asghar’s Got Game: Watch Her New Short on Anxiety at a Queer Sex Party

“You can’t have a rulebook or a playbook for how to connect. When you’re queer, it’s about negotiating your own way, when the blueprint doesn’t work for you.” Fatimah Asghar discusses queerness, intimacy and her new short film Got Game, that you can watch exclusively on Autostraddle.

Kamala Puligandla May 7, 2020 15 Comments
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Politics + Activism

Honor Trans Elders: Cecilia Chung Is the Mother We All Wanted

Cecilia Chung described three ways: hilarious, survivor, and one of the mothers of the modern trans movement.

xoai pham May 7, 2020 7 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: What Will Your Practice Look Like?

Books to break your reading slumps, queer adult comics creators living under FOSTA/SESTA, new Simone de Beauvoir, Meryl Streep’s bookshelves and more.

Ryan Yates May 7, 2020 4 Comments
Movie Features

Six Queer Asian Artists on “The Half of It” and the Future of Queer Asian Cinema

Alice Wu’s “The Half of It” has been for out less than a week, and it’s already become a classic. We brought together some of Autostraddle’s queer and trans Asian editors and writers — along with some of our writer friends and Generation Q’s Leo Sheng — to talk about the film, Alice Wu, and the current landscape of queer Asian media.

The Speakeasy May 6, 2020 8 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 511 Recap: See Spot Kill

Sara wakes up from her coma to find she can only see the future, and it involves a murder mystery.

Valerie Anne May 6, 2020 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

COVID-19 Is Laying Bare the Vulnerabilities of Sex Workers, So Often Canaries in the Coalmine

Centering sex workers, and the hard won lessons that come with being a part of this community, are perhaps the most important steps we can take in an effort both to reduce harm, and to rebuild in the aftermath of COVID19.

Janis Luna May 6, 2020 4 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: The “Pretty Little Liars” Moms Are Getting Drunk and Starting a Rewatch Podcast

Beanie Feldstein becomes a leading lady, Mrs. America’s hair designer explains those wigs, Portrait of a Lady on Fire meets Animal Crossing (again!), Lady Gaga is going ahead with Chromatica, and more!

Heather Hogan May 6, 2020 4 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

BREAKING: Cara Delevingne and Ashley Benson Reportedly Split in Quarantine, Love Remains a Lie

But who gets custody of the rescue puppies and the sex bench?!?!?

Stef May 6, 2020 14 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #71: “We’re in this Together!”

Coronavirus commercials are getting more and more aggressive.

Dickens May 6, 2020 6 Comments
TV Reviews

“Batwoman” Understands Everyone Is Gay in Gotham City

I can’t believe these heroes and villains have brought all their lesbian drama to bear on the resolution of the biggest arc of the season; I’ve been waiting to see this on TV my entire life! 

Heather Hogan May 6, 2020 9 Comments
Money + Work

Queered & Careered: 4 Questions to Build Up Your Brand While We’re at Home

Everyone builds or maintains their brand every time they walk into a room. The issue is that right now we’re walking into less and less rooms.

Tiara Dee May 6, 2020 2 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Quinn Wilson’s Thighs Save Lives and Kate Moennig’s Dog Is Cute

Plus, Gaby Dunn does cool baby sitter cosplay and I am praying Sarah Paulson makes “Winnie Wednesdays” a permanent thing.

Christina Tucker May 6, 2020 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

Respect Your Elders: Zoom With Lesbian Activist Phyllis “Seven” Harris

“So keep on living. Get on the other side of this. There’s more.”

Lou Barrett May 5, 2020 1 Comment
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Oh F*Ck, the Coronavirus Really Might Be Lesbian Bars’ Final Blow

By the time we’re finally allowed outside, all the lesbian bars might be dead, for good this time. Also, giving love to modern day butch icons, imagining Met Gala fashion that could have been, and the USWNT lost their equal pay case because… patriarchy.

Carmen Phillips May 5, 2020 13 Comments
AF+

Quarantine Sex Diary: Am I Horny? Am I Bored? Am I Crying? Yes

I text her to let her know my treat is here and to ask if we can use it tonight. If you’re good, she texts. I’m always good, I write back. Suddenly I really want it to be tonight.

Guest May 5, 2020 6 Comments
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