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Into the A+ Advice Box #74: HOLIGAY ADVICE

Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!

the team December 16, 2022 27 Comments
The following artists feature in the best queer music 2022 singles list: Kehlani, Kelela, MUNA, Reyna Tropical, Syd, Black Belt Eagle Scout, Brandi Carlile, and Destin Conrad
Music

23 of the Best Songs by Queer Artists in 2022

Some of these are technically not lead singles from the albums they came from, but songs that I felt were just as good as those that got more shine.

danijanae December 16, 2022 11 Comments
How Far the Light Reaches: A Life in Ten Sea Creatures by Sabrina Imbler
LGBT Book Reviews

I’ll Never Look at the Ocean the Same Way After Reading Sabrina Imbler’s “How Far the Light Reaches”

Sea creatures become iridescent queer metaphors in this wonderfully queer memoir.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 16, 2022 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Celebrating with You

Wrap up your week with this cute little gay-ass crossword!

Rachel December 16, 2022 11 Comments
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Movie Lists

The 10 Best Queer Movies of 2022

Yes, this list has some underrated indies. But it also has several Oscar frontrunners — or at least Independent Spirit Award frontrunners. As queer people, we can’t look to the mainstream for validation. But it sure is fun when we get it anyway!

Drew Burnett Gregory December 15, 2022 7 Comments
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Community Politics + Activism

Shatzi Weisberger, the People’s Bubbie, Dies at 92

The streets of New York City will never be the same without her, however, those who dream of building a better world will forever carry the treasure of knowing Shatzi Weisberger in our hearts.

Jay Saper December 15, 2022 12 Comments
Pageboy: A Memoir by Elliott Page
Literature

Rainbow Reading: Call That an Elliot Page-turner

This week’s Rainbow Reading features a very special small press spotlight! Dig in!

Yashwina December 15, 2022 2 Comments
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Culture

Instagram’s New Away Message Feature Got Me in My Middle-Aged Feels

Leave your funniest (or wittiest) “Note” (read: Instagram away message) in the comments — we all could use more joy these days!

shea wesley martin December 15, 2022 6 Comments
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Puzzles

Word Search: Winter Solstice

A chill, metaphysical word search to get you ready for the longest night.

meg December 15, 2022 4 Comments
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AF+

Our Hottest Takes About 2022 LGBTQ+ TV and Film

Today you’re getting our entire team’s spiciest takes about 2022 LGBTQ+ TV and film, something I was only able to convince people to participate in because Nico said we could keep them safely tucked within A+.

Heather Hogan and the team
December 14, 2022 25 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Netflix Axes “Warrior Nun” After 2 Seasons

Ginny and Georgia season two trailer, Aubrey Plaza and Meghann Fahy tripping balls together in Italy, Karla made it to the Survivor finale, and more!

Heather Hogan December 14, 2022 24 Comments
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Culture

A Convo on the Queer & Trans Takeover of Skateboarding

“Skating as a culture is getting more and more visibly queer”

Abbie Jones and A. Tony Jerome
December 14, 2022 7 Comments
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No Filter: How Lesbian Jesus Stole Christmas

Also, I did NOT know Ali Krieger had a gay brother!!!! I love gay siblings!

Christina Tucker December 14, 2022 4 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Waxing Nostalgic

Come for the crossword, stay for the bonus reading!

brooke December 14, 2022 9 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: How to Survive the Holigays When You’re Broke AF

And ok, it safe to admit those trendy sci-fi avatars are kinda creepy? (Plus, still celebrating the Respect for Marriage Act and former teen activists reflect on why kids shouldn’t have to save us)

Carmen Phillips December 13, 2022
WASHINGTON, DC - DECEMBER 13: U.S. President Joe Biden signs the Respect for Marriage Act on the South Lawn of the White House on December 13, 2022 in Washington, DC. The Respect for Marriage Act will codify same-sex and interracial marriages. (Photo by Drew Angerer/Getty Images)
Politics + Activism

President Biden Signs Respect For Marriage Act Into Law

“We are reaffirming a fundamental truth,” Biden said before signing the bill. “Love is love, and Americans should have the right to marry the person they love.”

Heather Hogan December 13, 2022 5 Comments
TV Lists

Autostraddle’s Favorite Lesbian and Bisexual TV Episodes of 2022

Surprise! A League of Their Own keeps winning!

Heather Hogan and The TV Team
December 13, 2022 5 Comments
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Alright! Come Join Us on the Totally Temporary, Ephemeral A+ Discord!

For thirteen warm days in these cold months, let’s hang.

Nico December 13, 2022 1 Comment
Christmas Food and Drink

A Quest for the Perfect Gingerbread Bake To Serve This Holigay Season

I chose four new to me recipes — a gingerbread cake, gingerbread rolled cookies, gingerbread drop cookies, and gingerbread bars — and am here to report back.

Casey December 13, 2022 8 Comments
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Dating

You Need Help: After a Bad Date I’m Worried I’m Unlovable

We live in a world that doesn’t value people of color or women over thirty, so I understand why you feel like this. But you are lovable.

danijanae December 13, 2022 12 Comments
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