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Gender

‘I Want To Change My Name Again’

Wanting to change your name now after people have adjusted will not make you a burden.

Summer Tao March 18, 2025 7 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

New Reality Show ‘You Hauled’ Puts Single Lesbians Together in One Mansion, What Could Go Wrong?

A new lesbian dating show called You Hauled, a queer romcom called The Wedding Banquet, Janelle Monáe’s graphic novel, and more queer news for you!

Valerie Anne March 17, 2025
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TV Feature

Vic Michaelis Is a Very Important Person

“Host Vic is a character. Other Dropout stuff is like Vic plus, you know?”

Gabe Dunn March 17, 2025 7 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

In ‘Stop Me if You’ve Heard This One,’ It’s Clowns vs. Capitalism

Arnett’s work is a reminder of something we often shy away from: What is the point of experiencing all of the pains of the human condition if we can’t, at some point, get a good laugh in about it?

Stef Rubino March 17, 2025 2 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Yellowjackets Prop Are You?

Yellowjackets has had some iconic props throughout its three seasons, and now it’s time to find out which one best represents YOU.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 16, 2025 4 Comments
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Webcomics

Reine #71: Fond Memories

Thanks for reading the Reine comics series on Autostraddle, which concludes today!

Ren Strapp March 15, 2025 10 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Episode 1711 Recap: Maybe This Time

As Stanislavski once said, If you can’t love yourself, how the hell are you gonna embody somebody else?

Drew Burnett Gregory March 15, 2025 3 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Lena Waithe Joins ‘Grey’s Anatomy’ as a Hot Doctor Fighting for Her Wife

Lena Waithe strolls into Grey’s as Dr. Evynne Moore, a woman determined to get help for her sick wife, by any means necessary.

Valerie Anne March 14, 2025 2 Comments
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Music

Chappell Roan’s ‘The Giver’ Is Country at Its Best and Gayest

At long last, we have new Chappell Roan music!!!!! And it’s giving Shania and The Chicks!!!!!!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 14, 2025 6 Comments
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AF+

How Should We Deal with My Fiancé’s Trumpy Dad on Our Wedding Day?

You’ve both got dads, but only want one of them to be involved on your wedding day, but like, without drama. Also, a reader wonders about sharing their erotica too soon.

the team March 14, 2025 1 Comment
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Visual Art

Gogo Graham Will Always Want To Make Cecilia Gentili Proud

“I am devastated by her absence, and still find myself reaching out for her, usually at night, asking her for various things, waiting for answers.”

Denny March 14, 2025
TV Show Recaps

Yellowjackets Episode 306 Recap: A Brutal Chapter With a Killer Cliffhanger

This is easily one of the hardest-to-watch episodes of Yellowjackets ever. And it ends with a huge gamechanger.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 14, 2025 69 Comments
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AF+ Movie Features

Out the Movies: ‘Julia’ (1977) Wants Us To Do the Right Thing

A bisexual playwright, Nazi Germany, and two actresses who took a stand.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 13, 2025 2 Comments
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Movie Reviews

‘Mickey 17’ Has Queer Characters — But Is It Queer?

A bi woman who is pretty much only into women and Robert Pattinson? Yeah, I’ve met many of them!!!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 13, 2025 7 Comments
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Movie Lists

All the Gay and Gay-ish Movies Van on ‘Yellowjackets’ Should Catch Up on After Getting Out of the Wilderness

Van is a certified lesbian cinephile, so what should she rent from the video store once she’s back in society?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 13, 2025 12 Comments
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AF+

Letter From the Editors: We Want To Hear From You

Autostraddle is in a unique position to deliver news with a clear point of view and eye toward collective justice and challenging the status quo.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, Drew Burnett Gregory and Riese
March 13, 2025 59 Comments
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Movie Features

Why So Many Sex Workers Love David Lynch

In the outpour of heartbreak that flooded the internet after David Lynch’s passing, some of the most vocal mourners were sex workers.

Olivia Hunter Willke March 13, 2025 3 Comments
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First Person

For Your Consideration: Roasting a Full Duck Because You Miss Your Dog

I’m a slob in the kitchen. I’m a slob in most domains of my life, but especially in the kitchen. I’ve always known this, but living with Lola made me forget just how bad I was.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 12, 2025 10 Comments
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No Filter: Doechii and Chappell Roan Run Fashion Week

Question: Is Doechii Helen of Troy?

Christina Tucker March 12, 2025
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Dykes Discuss ‘The White Lotus’ Season Three

*Parker Posey Southern Accent* Three dykes discuss The White Lotus season three, pitch The White Lotus: Florida, thirst for Walton Goggins, and ask important questions, like: Monkeys…what do they know? Are they scary? Scarier than PANTHERS? How did we end up on panthers? Guess you’ll have to read to find out. Let’s DISCUSS.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, Christina Tucker and Drew Burnett Gregory
March 12, 2025 13 Comments
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