Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #35: Holigay Feels

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A. Andrews

A. is a totally complete incomplete paraplegic and thirty-something hanky-in-the-pocket cartoonist weirdo!

A. has written 68 articles for us.


  1. this resonated a lot with me; I’m grateful that the majority of my friends aren’t in a similar position as me, but hearing about how they HAVE TO attend all these family celebrations is a bit grating when you’re estranged from a good chunk of your family. thank you for so accurately describing the extra emotional stress that comes with the holidays.

  2. oh, i love this and you so much. i look forward to spending a lot of non-holiday time together in december and for the rest of all time. <3

    also — are you…making fun of…yourself?! in this comic?! about sappy love junk?! i am LOLing in the coffee shop. LOVE YOU.

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