Gay Love Takes The Gold Medal At The Olympics In Our Hearts This Sunday Funday

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Cat: No f**k given

May my cat life coach also inspire you to occupy space in the world and be your best truest self this weekend!


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KaeLyn is a 35-year-old (femme)nist activist, word nerd, and queer mama. You can typically find her binge-watching TV, over-caffeinating herself, standing somewhere with a mic or a sign in her hand, eating carbs, or just generally doing too many things at once. She lives in Rochester, NY with her spouse, a baby T. rex, a xenophobic cat, and a rascally rabbit. You can buy her debut book, Girls Resist! A Guide to Activism, Leadership, and Starting a Revolution if you want to, if you feel like it, if that's a thing that interests you or whatever.

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17 Comments

  1. #queerwomenwholoveadamrippon

    This Sunday Funday is my birthday! I feel weird about this birthday, but I don’t know why. I’m in a better place now than any previous year – although my celebration last year was the Best. (Dubbed the Big Queer Vacation by my bff/nonsexual life partner.)

  2. I will attest I love my local queer cafe more than I love the gay bar. As written on this site, my local queer cafe is The Plant(Cuties) and it’s owned by a married couple(two queer women & of them is trans). That alone make it amazing by itself. Plus, the cafe hosts events like craft night(they even did let’s watch moonlight and do crafts), queers, donuts, and coffee, and healing circles all not centered on cis gay men. LA gay bars can’t really say that, it’s mainly gbq men focused.

      • I want a queer cafe too! That sounds so wonderful.

        I’m not a bar person for all the reasons named in the article (loud, too many people, not much of a drinker to begin with) and have never even been to a gay bar. Someday I will rectify that, I guess—but if there were a queer cafe in my area, on the other hand, I would already be there *right now.*

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