Pop culture makes it easy to believe that having feelings for someone means you need to act on it. We explore why it can actually be healthy to have feelings for people without being attached to a specific outcome, or needing to tell them, and have you can process it on your own.
Look: you’re here, you’re queer; you deserve to live in a queer houseplant utopia. Here’s how to make your very own.
Happy Hustlers weekend!! Sam Smith uses they/them pronouns, Ellen Page only wants to play lesbians, some queer college athletes are dating each other, and more! It’s Sunday! and it’s Fun!
How to muff, why not to sleep in the same bed as a partner, why to talk to strangers, whether friendly-feeling BDSM is the same BDSM as ever and more.
The actual coffee added to the batter amplifies the mocha flavor and elevates this cake from “good” to exceptional, so please for the love of cocoa do not skip it.
The best tops. Sorry not sorry.
You may be wondering, do I really have to communicate directly about EVERYTHING? In short… yes! Well okay, in slightly longer: almost always yes.
A lot has been written about first dates — but what about the second date? The third? Beyond?
Do you vacillate between extreme distance, and then merging/clinginess/overdoing it? Then watch out. Succulents like consistent LACK of attention.
Decriminalize sex work. Plus, dating through Facebook, why vaginal wellness is a scam, what happens in sex therapy and more.
Who’s the VSCO girl? What’s happening with Pride in Bosnia? Plus a queer playlist or two, an album review, and a movie about elder lesbians. Happy Sunday!
I wouldn’t say I’ve escaped the Cult of Mommy completely. I’ve defined it for myself.
’90s erotic thrillers, Lizzo, college debt, Kristen Stewart, The Body Issue, the gay genes, women in country music, and more!
With a mess of planets in Virgo, are you ready to get to work?
We’ve got croquembouche, Cate Blanchett, Meryl Streep, Black femmes and nails, tattoos, weddings, and more! Happy Sunday!
Dating as a queer single mom, setting adult performers’ doxxed info literally on fire, weird rules around saying the word “vagina” in advertising and more.
This bread reminds me of everything I love about fall.
Let’s get rich.
“Ok, I said I would never date a Sagittarius, and I am currently dating a Sagittarius and I… fucking love it.”
As you may already know, this September, sports gays like myself in offices and friend groups across the country need YOU to be one of the 4+ people on their fantasy football league. Never fear, this guide is here to give you the briefest overview of what you need to know about fantasy football so you can sign up and make your pal’s day, win your office league, and claim the clout you deserve.