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Pope Francis Invited Me Back to Catholicism

Growing up queer and Catholic my childhood was one defined by tension; I wanted to become both a bishop and a woman.

Lauren J. Joseph April 29, 2025 7 Comments
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Society + Culture

Cynthia Erivo, Queen Latifah, and All the Best Queer Parts of the 2025 Oscars Ceremony

And can we talk about Paul Tazewell, first Black Queer man to win an Oscar for costume design?

Christina Tucker March 3, 2025
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Romancing the Machine: All the Men on ‘Love Is Blind’ Want to F*ck Siri

Love is Blind is not just a reality dating show; it’s a show about dating as virtual reality.

Amelia Christmas Gramling February 27, 2025 2 Comments
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I Watched 47 Hear Me Out Cake Videos and This Is What I Learned About Straight People

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Drew Burnett Gregory November 8, 2024 7 Comments
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Peacock’s docuseries “Anatomy of Lies” is a searing look at TV writer Elisabeth Finch, who lied about being sick and suffering assorted traumas. Your complete guide to Finch’s story and others like her, inside.

Riese October 16, 2024 30 Comments
A collage of Kelley Heyer doing the Apple dance
Society + Culture

Meet Kelley Heyer: Actor, Fashion Queer, and Creator of the “Apple” Dance

“When I posted the first video, there were about 200 videos under the sound… today it has 400,000.”

Drew Burnett Gregory September 24, 2024
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Rich People Should Be Less Boring

Like many, my feelings about the Met Gala are complicated.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 6, 2024 2 Comments
Nonbinary and transmasc Ballroom performers
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Rio’s Runway, Reimagined: Transmasc and Nonbinary Performers Expand Brazil’s Ballroom Scene

Transmasc and nonbinary performers take the stage in Rio de Janeiro’s Ballroom scene, expanding interpretations of Ball culture and embodying new forms of gender play and expression. Serving as a global example, the ideals they perform are part of the struggle against transphobia.

Hannah McKenzie April 11, 2024 3 Comments
Nex Benedict, a trans teen with wavy brown hair white button down and black vest, smiles at the camera.
Society + Culture

Nex Benedict Loved Cats and Video Games and Reading

I hope we remember this little Minecraft loving nerd for more than how he died. I hope we remember that he loved friendship bracelets first.

Carmen Phillips February 21, 2024 16 Comments
The Lynx bookstore
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A New Author-Owned Bookstore Centering Banned Books Is Coming to Central Florida

One bookstore isn’t going to change everything, but it’s a significant reminder there are people fighting for this place and especially for its arts and culture spaces.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 10, 2024
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New survey shows two-thirds of LGBTQ+ people in the UK have fears about holding hands — plus more culture and news from around the world.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 5, 2023 3 Comments
a bunch of students rally outside of Monarch High School for trans rights
Society + Culture

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Educator and student dissent speaks to the Florida legislature’s failure to represent its people.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 30, 2023 1 Comment
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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 28, 2023 4 Comments
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Society + Culture

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Society + Culture

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For now, the ban continues to not be enforceable.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 16, 2023 1 Comment
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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 14, 2023
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Preserving beaches and preserving queer history go hand in hand.

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Right now, Virginia is the only state in the South with more protections for LGBTQ+ people than discriminatory policies, but that could shift based on the results of today’s elections.

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 2, 2023 2 Comments
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