Results for: be the change
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When One of Us Transitioned, Our Relationship Changed for the Better
By the time the lockdown lifted, she (Lucy) had kicked a life-long nail biting habit, and I (Summer) had come out as transgender.
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Queer Audio Erotica Changed My Life, Helped Me Connect My Mind and Body
I was a late bloomer when it comes to all things sex and sexuality.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Ever-Changing
Why taking estrogen makes your cum delicious, how to date someone with whom you have a height difference, how poly relationships shifted in the pandemic and more.
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When I Got COVID, My Wife and I Went Through It Together; How Will Things Change When She Returns to the Office?
“We probably won’t be together this much again until we’re both retired, and even though it has been, at times, harder than anything either of us could have imagined when the pandemic started, it’s also been some of our sweetest, most intimate, silliest, funnest times we’ve ever had as a couple.”
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You Need Help: I Moved Closer to My Girlfriend but She’s Too Busy for Me
The person who moved shouldn’t be the only person experiencing change.
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All the Chaotic Gay Questions I’ve Asked on a First Date
“Do you have color-changing LED light bulbs and/or light strips?”
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You Need Help: I’m Uncertain About Wanting Kids, So Should I Only Date People Who Are Uncertain Too?
I’ve changed my mind about wanting kids throughout life, and that’s okay.
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You Need Help: All I Want Is a Relationship But I Can’t Make it Past the First Date
“How do I somehow give off that I’m girlfriend material? I just want to be wanted back for a change.”
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Get in Losers, We’re Getting Divorced
Divorce Week is a celebration of taking a life-changing step, of coming out the other side of devastating trauma and being all the better for it.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Certain That Her G-Spot Exists
This week on NSFW Sunday: orgasms, g-spots, porn, pheromone parties, pregnancy fetishes, more from “Curvy Girls” and climate change erotica.
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You Need Help: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex
To me, both of these things are true: 1. People’s sex drives can change for any number of reasons, at any time and 2. If sex is important to you, that’s valid, too!
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NSFW Sunday: What Does a Lesbian Sex Magazine Look Like?
Sexy herstory from “On Our Backs” – the lesbian porn magazine that changed everything. Also; gay sex media addiction, the trans woman porn project, female viagra again, tandem boob press, sex writing & more!
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For Your Consideration: Changing Associations After a Breakup
For when wiping the slate completely clean isn’t really an option.
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How To Change Your Hair Dramatically After a Breakup
Seize control of your image! Be hot as a form of revenge! Do it for you! Just feel good about something in a time when it’s so easy to feel bad about everything!
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100 Things to Try When I Have a Vagina
Of all the unexpected changes I encountered during my transition, the most surreal had to be transforming a part of my body.
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You Need Help: You Should Divorce Your Transphobic Wife
Your wife fell in love with you and built a life with you and you’re a woman. You didn’t become a woman. You didn’t trick her into being queer — her own feelings did that.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Would Love It If We Made It
Pelvic pain during sex, changing experiences of love, the best solo sex of your life and more.
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Taking Nudes
How to take great nudes, a new way to learn shibari, how dating is changing and more.
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How Do I Learn To Trust Again After My Two-Month Situationship Ended Abruptly?
“I’m a cis queer woman in my mid-twenties, and I’m mourning yet another 2-3 month-long relationship that ended unexpectedly, and this time it’s messing with me in the way the others haven’t.”
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How To Kill Lesbian Bed Death
Read stories from other folks experiencing periods of no sex in relationships to start killing lesbian bed death at the root.