5-Year-Old Girl Has Two Moms, Is Therefore Barred From Her School

+ A five-year-old girl was barred from returning to her private Christian school because she has two moms. The girl attended Mt. Erie Christian Academy in San Diego for pre-school and summer school and just days before school started in September, her parents — Sheena, a stay-at-home mom and Lashaune, who is in the Navy — were summoned into the pastor’s office where they were told they weren’t welcomed at the school anymore.

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San Diego TV station KGTV reports the school cites an admission policy document to justify their action:

“On those occasions in which the atmosphere or conduct within a particular home is counter to or in opposition to the biblical lifestyle that the school teaches, the school reserves the right, within its sole discretion, to refuse admission of an applicant or to discontinue enrollment of a student. This includes, but is not necessarily limited to, living in, condoning or supporting sexual immorality; practicing homosexual lifestyle or alternative gender identity; promoting such practices; or otherwise having the inability to support the moral principles of the school”

The mothers are looking for an attorney to file a civil rights lawsuit. The school is private and doesn’t receive any federal funding, so it’s within its rights to discriminate against LGBT people, says San Diego attorney Eugene Iredale, who spoke with KGTV.

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+ Republican presidential candidate Carly Fiorina still stands by her inaccurate descriptions of Planned Parenthood videos while on Meet the Press even though the videos have been debunked.

+ Gaia Vince, a journalist based in London, was named the winner of the 2015 Royal Society Winton prize for Science Books for her work on her book Adventures in the Anthropocene: a Journey to the Heart of the Planet We MadeThis is the first time a woman write wins the prestigious prize in its 28-year history.

+ Michelle Obama introduced a new campaign called 62 Million Girls which focuses on girls’ education at the 2015 Global Citizen Festival. “Right now 62 million girls are not in school… they deserve the same chances to get an education as my daughters and your daughters,” she told the audience.

+ Sen. Elizabeth Warren gave a speech at the Edward M. Kennedy Institute in which she spoke about the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement and remarked on how the Civil Rights Act made progress but not nearly enough when it comes to structural racism. She also said violence against Black people hasn’t disappeared, citing the deaths of Black people at the hands of police.

“None of us can ignore what is happening in this country. Not when our black friends, family, neighbors literally fear dying in the streets. This is the reality all of us must confront, as uncomfortable and ugly as that reality may be. It comes to us to once again affirm that black lives matter, that black citizens matter, that black families matter.”


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+ A group of “anti-gentrification activists” called “Fuck Parade” attacked a cereal cafe in East London on Saturday. The owners and staff of Cereal Killer Cafe said they had to barricade themselves inside the cafe while the protesters wrote “scum” on their windows. The Fuck Parade marched through the low-income neighborhood of Shoreditch where the luxurious cereal cafe, which sells expensive cereal by the bowl, is located. The activists were trying to call attention to the gentrification of the area that is, as one protester put it, “destroying the lives and demolishing the homes of some of London’s most vulnerable people.”

+ In a speech at a New York fundraiser, President Obama dismissed Republicans opposed to same-sex marriage, saying they’re living in another era and that the conversation has moved on from equal marriage rights.

+ While filming in the street, Sarah Teale, a BBC TV reporter, was harassed by a man while reporting on street harassment.

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Yvonne S. Marquez is a lesbian journalist and former Autostraddle senior editor living in Dallas, TX. She writes about social justice, politics, activism and other things dear to her queer Latina heart. Yvonne was born and raised in the Rio Grande Valley. Follow her on Instagram or Twitter. Read more of her work at yvonnesmarquez.com.

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  1. I get the idea of changing things from within, but I would worry about my child attending a school whose administration and staff felt that being gay or trans was a sin.

    I grew up with the kind of cognitive dissonance that came from being raised atheist in a pretty Christian world (the Pledge, other kids etc.) and that was hard enough. Going to school every day with teachers who thought my parents were sinning just by being married to each other would have been a whole other level of alienating.

    Of course, it’s ridiculous that the school expelled a five year old girl for her parents’ actions, no two ways about that…

    • also the girl attended preschool and summer school there? so it’s been at least a year and a bit that they didn’t even NOTICE, somehow, that she had gay moms….while taking said gay moms’ tuition money….hmmmm

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