Results for: you need help
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You Need Help: How Can I Make Penetration Less Painful?
You shouldn’t have pain during sex. If you want to explore penetration, that has to be a choice you’re making for your own pleasure.
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Spring Edit: You Know What Your Main Bag Needs? A Smaller Bag Inside It
In which I gently boss you into cleaning out your bag and putting in things you’ll actually use.
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Hi Gay! It’s Time for Autostraddle’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2022
When you shop using this guide, you’re also giving the bonus gift of support for queer indie media!
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The Autostraddle Insider Issue 101: February 2023
Can we open it with “The Paris Review can blow us” and then just like…not explain?
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Danny Lavery on What It’s Like To Be an Advice Columnist
“I would imagine a lot of the same things draw to advice columns that draw everyone, which is just that same impulse to run outside if somebody says there’s a fight.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #77: Should You Co-Parent With Your Queer Friends?
Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #82: Travel and Camping (While Gay)
Traveling while queer / trans and pregnant, PDA at Disney, tick checks…and more!
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Holigay Gift Guide: What To Buy the Muscle Masc in Your Life
I’m including some tighter budget items and more size-inclusive options as well, because I don’t think anyone should be kept from being their best self in the gym just because of finances or lack of available larger sizes.
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Queer Nightlife Doesn’t Need Permanent Spaces To Thrive
In Long Live Queer Nightlife, Ghaziani examines how the closing of gay bars over the last 20+ years has helped bring about a new kind of queer nightlife, one that is less focused on being a permanent fixture in one location and more focused on mobility, inclusion, and ephemerality.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #73: Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Your Soft Butch Haircut
Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!
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Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?
In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!
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“He/She/They” Is a Helpful Guide and Call to Action for Allies Everywhere
I’d recommend suggesting it to as many well-meaning cis people as you possibly can.
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How to Shop for Accessible Sex Toys When You Live With Chronic Pain
Living with chronic pain has taught me how to help myself and others achieve pleasure using accessible sex toys.
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Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker?
Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!
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Queering Wealth: Examining Our Attachment to Nonprofits
How can we move away from a colonizer, savior mindset when it comes to supporting our community with money, and move into a more collective-centered mindset?
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7 Sex Toys for Fat, Queer Sex and Masturbation
As fat folks, we have to get creative in the bedroom. Fortunately, there are plenty of toys that can help you have your best fat, queer sex with yourself or with a partner.
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So You’re Hosting Your First Thanksgiving: Tips for Crushing it From a Seasoned Pro
As someone who has been hosting Thanksgiving on and off for the last 11 years, I’ve learned a lot.
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What Should Your Questionable New Year’s Resolution Be, According to Your Sign?
Let’s all agree to make THIS year call us “Daddy.”
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Lost Lesbian Lit: Murder! At the Retirement Home
My only positive memory of my grandma was our last, the one time I was with her as myself.
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Author Mac Crane on the Eroticism of Basketball and Writing Queer and Trans Pleasure
“Basketball is extremely hot, and I wanted that to come through in the book.”